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How Long Does it Take to Match With Intended Parents?

Discover why matching with intended parents through American Surrogacy is faster than ever. Learn about our 1-6 month wait times, pre-screening process and the types of intended parents you could work with. With our help, you’ll find the right match sooner than you think.

At American Surrogacy, matching with intended parents typically takes just 1-6 months.

If you’re looking for intended parents, contact us online now to speak with a specialist about finding the right match.

By working with us, you’ll take the first step helping a hopeful couple achieve their dream of parenthood while earning life-changing income for your family’s future.

Below, we’ll explore what makes short matching times possible and what to look for in intended parents.

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How Long Does it Take to Match With Intended Parents? [Our Short Wait Times]

You could be matched with intended parents within 1-6 months. This means you get to start earning your surrogate compensation sooner while making dreams come true.

Our wait times are shorter than the industry average, which can extend to 12 months or more with some agencies.

Here’s how we keep wait times low:

Thorough Pre-Screening

Every intended parent and surrogate undergoes a rigorous pre-screening process. This ensures compatibility and eliminates unnecessary delays.  

You can be confident that you’re working with committed and prepared intended parents.

“American Surrogacy really took the time to really be like ‘This couple would be a great match for this person’ You’re matching on things where all of you have to align. Because this is a long journey, you should very intentional on who it is that you match with.” – Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

Targeted Marketing

We don’t wait for intended parents to find us — we find them. Our active outreach connects with highly qualified intended parents, including:

  • Infertile couples looking for a surrogate
  • Gay couples looking for a surrogate
  • Single parents eager to grow their family
  • Couples with medical challenges preventing pregnancy

By casting a wide net, we ensure a steady flow of hopeful intended parents.

Balanced Client List

We maintain a carefully balanced list of intended parents and surrogates. This prevents overcrowding and ensures you’re not competing with dozens of other surrogates for the same match.

Ready to experience the benefits of working with an agency that values your time? Contact us today to find intended parents and learn more about our matching process.

Why Does the Matching Timeline Vary?

While the typical wait time is 1-6 months, individual timelines may vary based on factors such as:

  • Surrogate Preferences: If you have specific requirements for the intended parents, such as working with a same-sex couple or single parent, your wait time may be slightly longer to find the perfect match.
  • Geographic Location: Matches often depend on location compatibility for logistical reasons, such as medical visits and travel.
  • Agency Demand: During times of high demand for surrogates, your match may happen faster.

By understanding these factors, you can set realistic expectations while still benefiting from American Surrogacy’s industry-leading wait times.

How to Find Intended Parents

After you have met our surrogate requirements and undergone our preliminary screening, we can get to work locating the right match for you.

Our matching process includes the following steps:

  1. Clinic Approval: If intended parents select your profile, we send your medical records to their fertility clinic for review. This can take 1-2 weeks.
  2. Profile Review: Once you’ve been approved, the clinic will send you the intended parents’ profile to review.
  3. Zoom Call: If you like the family, we will set up a Zoom call so you can get to know each other.
  4. Accept the Match: If you and the intended parents determine you’d like to move forward together, the match will be finalized.
  5. Screening: Your specialist will notify the clinic of the match and the clinic will contact you to set up a screening appointment.After 7-10 business days, the clinic will let you and your specialist know that they approve you as a carrier.

Types of Intended Parents You Could Work With

Every intended parent has a unique story. Understanding these different backgrounds can help you decide who you feel most comfortable helping fulfill their dreams of having a family:

Infertile Couples

Many couples turn to surrogacy after years of failed IVF treatments. By working with them, you’re giving them a chance to achieve their dream of parenthood.

Same-Sex Couples

Gay couples looking for surrogates rely on women like you to build their families. Your journey with them can be deeply rewarding, as you’re helping create a family they couldn’t have otherwise.

Single Parents

Single intended parents are dedicated individuals who long to have children despite not having a partner. Their determination can make your experience uniquely fulfilling.

Experienced Intended Parents

Some intended parents have used a surrogate before and are pursuing surrogacy again. Their familiarity with the process often leads to smoother communication and a well-prepared partnership.

What Happens After You’re Matched?

After the match is made, we’ll guide you through the legal and medical steps necessary to move forward with the surrogacy process.

This includes signing legal contracts to ensure everyone’s rights are protected and preparing for the medical screenings and embryo transfer.

Throughout this process, you’ll receive the support you need from our experienced team to ensure a smooth and confident journey for both you and the intended parents. We’re here to help you every step of the way.

How Can I Expedite the Matching Process?

While we work to minimize wait times, you can also play a role in expediting your match:

  • Be Open-Minded: Flexibility in your preferences can broaden your pool of potential matches.
  • Stay Communicative: Responding promptly to agency inquiries helps keep the process moving smoothly.
  • Complete Requirements Quickly: Ensure all necessary paperwork, medical evaluations and background checks are completed as soon as possible.

Find Your Match Today

Looking for intended parents doesn’t have to be a lengthy or stressful process.

Our streamlined program ensures you can start your surrogacy journey within 1-6 months.

With expert screening, proactive marketing and a balanced client list, we’re here to help you find the perfect match.

Ready to find intended parents? Contact us today to learn how we can help you start this incredible journey.

Can You Breastfeed if You Use a Surrogate?

Breastfeeding after surrogacy is possible through induced lactation, allowing you to bond with your baby while providing essential nutrients. With guidance from lactation specialists, you can create a feeding plan tailored to your surrogacy journey.

Breastfeeding after surrogacy is a meaningful way to nurture your baby and create lasting memories from their very first days.

With the right support and resources, inducing lactation allows you to provide many of the health benefits associated with breastfeeding, even if you didn’t carry your child.

Fill out our online contact form to learn more about your breastfeeding options after surrogacy.

Read about what to expect at the hospital.

Below, we’ll break down the additional steps and methods when it comes to breastfeeding after surrogacy as well as the importance of professionals like lactation specialists.

Can You Breastfeed If You Use a Surrogate?

Yes, you can breastfeed if you use a surrogate. This can be done by inducing lactation. To do this, you’ll need to consult with your medical provider, as it requires medications and a structured plan.

If you’re still looking for a surrogate to help grow your family, we can help you find the perfect match in as little as 1-6 months. View our highly qualified surrogates now.

Breastfeeding After Surrogacy: Inducing Lactation

Your process may different but here are four general steps as to what the process could look like:

  • Step 1: Begin Taking Hormones: Your doctor may prescribe hormones, like birth control pills, several months before your baby’s birth. These hormones prepare your body for milk production by mimicking the hormonal changes of pregnancy.
  • Step 2: Replace Hormones with Supplements and Medication: Before the baby arrives, your doctor will stop the hormones and recommend lactation-promoting medications and herbal supplements to stimulate milk production.
  • Step 3: Start Pumping: Pumping frequently, gradually increasing the duration and frequency,  helps stimulate milk production. Your milk supply will grow over time with consistent effort and guidance from your doctor.
  • Step 4: Nursing and Supplement Your Milk: Most women will not produce enough milk to fully feed their baby. You can use a supplemental nursing system (SNS) with donated breastmilk, your pumped milk, formula or even the surrogate’s milk if she is consenting.

A Timeline for Breastfeeding and Surrogacy

When it comes to inducing lactation for surrogacy, you have to be mindful of the timeframe it requires and the challenges that could arise.

  • Preparation: This needs to take place anywhere from 3-6 months before your baby is born as hormone therapy mimics the natural hormonal changes that occur during a pregnancy. Dietary and lifestyle adjustments take time too.
  • Milk Stimulation: 6-8 weeks before the birth, you are weaned off of hormones and medications and herbal supplements are introduced, allowing them the proper time to work. You’ll also begin pumping at this time, every couple hours to prepare stimulate milk production and copy what a newborns sleep and feeding schedule could look like
  • After Birth: Nursing should occur as soon possible to encourage milk flow and establish a bond.

Working with a Lactation Specialist for Surrogacy

A lactation specialist familiar with surrogacy can help you navigate the complexities of breastfeeding after surrogacy. They can offer personalized guidance and support tailored to your unique situation by:

  • Inducing Lactation: They can guide you through the process of hormone therapy, supplements and pumping to prepare for breastfeeding.
  • Pumping Techniques: Learn how to maximize milk production and store milk safely.
  • Supplemental Nursing Systems (SNS): Specialists can demonstrate how to use an SNS effectively to combine breastfeeding with supplemental feeding.
  • Emotional Support: They can provide encouragement and strategies to manage any emotional challenges associated with breastfeeding after surrogacy.

By working with a lactation specialist, you can build confidence in your ability to breastfeed and create a feeding plan that works for your family.

The Benefits of Breastfeeding After Surrogacy

Breastfeeding is one of the most intimate parts of caring for your baby. Even if you don’t produce a full milk supply, the act of nursing can still be a powerful and fulfilling experience.

  • Nutrition: Breast milk contains antibodies and nutrients to help strengthen your baby’s immune system and is naturally designed to meet your baby’s nutritional needs, promoting healthy growth and development.
  • Skin-to-Skin Contact: The skin-to-skin contact contributes to your baby’s development by providing emotional security and attachment.
  • Bonding: Nursing triggers the release of oxytocin, also known as the “love hormone,” which strengthens the bond between you and your baby and promotes feelings of calm and relaxation.

While breastfeeding your baby after surrogacy is possible and a wonderful way to connect with your baby, inducing lactation may not be suitable for everyone.

If do not want to induce lactation or are unable to, you can still provide your baby with breast milk either from your surrogate or a donor.

Do Surrogates Breastfeed?

Some surrogates are open to breastfeeding the baby after delivery, while others may prefer not to.

Whether a surrogate breastfeeds depends on your and the surrogate’s preferences and the legal agreements established during the surrogacy process.

Ways your surrogate can provide breastmilk:

  • Breastfeeding Post-Delivery: In some cases, surrogates may nurse the baby immediately after birth to provide colostrum, the nutrient-rich first milk that offers essential health benefits for newborns.
  • Pumping and Providing Milk: Surrogates can also pump and provide breastmilk to the intended parents for a set period after delivery. This arrangement can be negotiated in advance and may involve additional costs.

It’s essential to discuss breastfeeding preferences and expectations with your surrogate early in the process.

Using Donor Breast Milk After Surrogacy

If you’re unable to produce enough milk or choose not to breastfeed, donor breast milk is an excellent alternative to ensure your baby receives the nutrients and immune benefits of breast milk.

The Human Milk Banking Association of North America (HMBANA) provides regulation guidelines for a network of nonprofit milk banks adhering to the highest safety and quality standards.

View their map of HMBANA member milk banks.

Next Steps

Breastfeeding after surrogacy is a powerful way to nourish your baby and foster an emotional connection. Whether you’re just starting to explore this option or are ready to begin the process, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Contact us today to learn more about your breastfeeding options after surrogacy.

The Egg Retrieval Experience: What to Expect

Egg retrieval is a key step in the IVF process and can feel overwhelming, especially if it’s your first time. This article explores the entire egg retrieval experience, from preparation to recovery, giving you a detailed understanding of what to expect.

If you’re considering IVF or surrogacy as part of your family-building journey, egg retrieval is an important first step in the process.

While it is a common part of fertility treatments, understanding the preparation, procedure, and recovery will help you navigate the experience with confidence.

This guide will walk you through what to expect during egg retrieval, from medication to recovery and emotional well-being.

If you need help connecting with a fertility clinic, you can contact us online now to speak with a specialist.

Preparing for Egg Retrieval

Preparation starts weeks before the procedure. You’ll take fertility medications to stimulate your ovaries to produce multiple eggs.

Egg Retrieval Medications You’ll Take

  • Follicle-stimulating hormones (FSH) and luteinizing hormones (LH): Encourage egg development.
  • GnRH antagonists or agonists: Prevent premature ovulation.
  • HCG (trigger shot): Triggers ovulation 36 hours before retrieval.

You’ll administer these medications through injections, typically in the abdomen or thigh.

Your fertility clinic will guide you on how to properly inject the medications and when to take them, ensuring that everything is timed correctly.

Learn more about egg retrieval medications and when you’ll take them during your IVF cycle.

Possible Side Effects of Egg Retrieval Medications

  • Bloating or abdominal discomfort.
  • Bloating or abdominal discomfort
  • Hot flashes
  • Mood swings
  • Fatigue
  • Mild headaches
  • Ovarian Hyperstimulation Syndrome (OHSS), which can cause swelling and fluid retention (though rare)

Your fertility team will monitor you closely throughout the stimulation process to manage any side effects and adjust medications as needed.

Egg Retrieval Day: What to Expect

The IVF egg retrieval procedure is quick and minimally invasive. Here’s what to expect:

  • Duration: The procedure typically lasts 20–30 minutes.
  • Sedation: You’ll be under conscious sedation or anesthesia for comfort.

Steps in The Egg Retrieval Process

  1. A needle guided by ultrasound is inserted into the ovaries.
  2. The needle is used to aspirate (suction) eggs from the follicles
  3. Eggs are immediately sent to the lab for evaluation.

Since sedation is used, you won’t feel the actual procedure taking place, though some women report feeling pressure.

Recovery and Post-Egg Retrieval Experience

After the procedure, you’ll be moved to a recovery room for observation as the sedation wears off. Most individuals can go home the same day.

Here’s a look at the recovery timeline:

  • After Sedation Wears Off: You may feel groggy, and lightheadedness is common after sedation. It’s best to have someone accompany you to and from the clinic.
  • Physical Sensations: Some mild cramping, bloating, or spotting is typical in the hours following the procedure. You may also experience a full feeling in your abdomen due to the number of follicles that were stimulated.
  • Rest: Most people can resume normal activities after a day or two.
  • Follow-up Appointment: You will have a follow-up appointment to monitor your recovery and discuss next steps for your IVF or surrogacy process.

What to Avoid After Egg REtrieval

  • Strenuous exercise for a week.
  • Sexual activity or tampon use for several days
  • Alcohol and tobacco use

Emotional Experience and What to Do If Not Many Eggs Are Retrieved

One of the most common concerns during the IVF process is the possibility of retrieving fewer eggs than expected—or in some rare cases, no eggs at all.

While it’s completely natural to feel disappointment or concern, there are steps you can take to manage both the emotional and practical aspects of this experience.

  • Take Time to Process: Give yourself time to process and feel whatever emotions may surface.
  • Lean on Support: Whether it’s your partner, a close friend or a support group, surrounding yourself with people who understand and support you can help provide comfort and perspective during a difficult time.
  • Seek Professional Counseling: Many clinics offer counseling services or can refer you to a therapist specializing in fertility issues.
  • Practice Self-Care: Prioritize self-care during this time. It may involve activities that help you unwind—like a walk in nature, meditation, yoga or simply spending time doing something that brings you joy.

What to Do Next: Practical Steps After Few or No Eggs Are Retrieved

While the emotional aspect of a few or no eggs being retrieved can be difficult, there are practical next steps that you and your fertility team can take to move forward:

  • Stimulation Protocol Adjustment: Your fertility doctor may suggest using a different combination of medications or adjusting the doses.
  • Donor Eggs: If repeated egg retrievals continue to result in a low egg yield, you may consider using donor eggs.

Many people who experience low egg retrieval or even no eggs at all go on to have successful IVF cycles with adjustments to their treatment plans or by exploring other fertility options like egg donation and surrogacy.

If you’re feeling uncertain about your next steps, it’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your fertility doctor.

Read About Other’s Egg Retrieval Experience

  • Reddit Communities: There are many subreddits dedicated to infertility, IVF and surrogacy where people can share their experiences, vent and ask questions about the IVF process. Check out r/IVF and r/InfertilitySucks.
  • Fertility Clinic Testimonials: Many fertility clinics have testimonials from previous clients who have agreed to share their story and experiences. Check out this patient’s egg retrieval experience with Shady Grove.

What Happens After Egg Retrieval? [Next Steps]

Once the eggs are retrieved, they will be fertilized in the lab using sperm from your partner or a donor.

The resulting embryos will be carefully monitored, and once they are ready, they may be transferred to your uterus or preserved for future use.

If you’re pursuing surrogacy, once your embryos are ready, we can help match you with a surrogate who is ready and able to carry your child.

With our wait times averaging 1-6 months, you can count on us to help you take the quickest path to parenthood.

If you’re ready to explore surrogacy or have questions about the egg retrieval process, contact us online today or view our highly qualified surrogates.

Epigenetics, Surrogacy and the Importance of Surrogate Screening

Epigenetics highlights how a surrogate’s health and lifestyle can influence a baby’s development, even without a genetic link. This underscores the importance of selecting a surrogate who is physically, emotionally and medically prepared for the journey.

Epigenetics plays a unique role in surrogacy, as the surrogate’s health and environment may impact the baby’s in-utero development.

For this reason, thorough surrogate screening is essential.

Our screening process reduces the likelihood of unexpected complications or delays, meaning you can fulfill your parenthood dreams sooner.

Take your first steps toward parenthood by filling out our quick form or view qualified surrogates now.

In this article, we’ll explore epigenetics, the role your surrogate plays and how proper screening can help ensure a healthy pregnancy for both your surrogate and your baby.

Epigenetics and Surrogacy

Your baby will not share DNA with the surrogate, but through epigenetics, the surrogate’s diet, health, stress levels, lifestyle and environment can affect your baby’s development and how certain genes are turned on or off.

For instance, a high level of maternal stress could impact the baby’s immune system development or stress response mechanisms.

The embryo’s DNA remains the same — it’s the environment in which your baby develops that can play a role in shaping which genes are expressed.

While more research is needed to fully understand all the nuances of epigenetics, it’s clear that the surrogate plays an essential role in providing the best possible environment for your developing baby.

Learn more about our surrogate screening process.

Genes vs. Gene Expression

To understand epigenetics, it’s important to distinguish between genes and gene expression:

  • Genes are like a blueprint or a set of instructions that define biological traits such as eye color or potential for certain health conditions.
  • Gene expression, on the other hand, is how those instructions are carried out. Think of it like the materials used to build a house according to the blueprint — the quality and availability of those materials affect the final product.

Epigenetics and Donor Eggs for Surrogacy: Your Role as a Parent

While you may not have the genetic or gestational connection you initially envisioned, you influence your child’s development as a parent. Epigenetics shows us that a child’s development isn’t just about the genes they inherit, but also how they are nurtured, cared for and supported in their early years.

Here’s how you can promote your child’s healthy development:

  • Fostering a Stable and Loving Environment: Research shows that children who experience secure attachments with their parents are more likely to have better emotional regulation, cognitive abilities, and overall resilience.
  • Prioritizing Nutrition and Health: A nutritious diet, regular physical activity, and adequate sleep are crucial for brain development and overall health, especially during the early years when a child’s epigenetic development is most sensitive.
  • Managing Stress: By managing your stress and creating a calm, supportive environment, you can help buffer your child from the negative impacts of stress.
  • Creating a Stimulating Environment: Talking, playing, reading and engaging in nurturing activities stimulate cognitive development and promote the creation of neural pathways.

How Surrogacy Agencies Protect Your Future Family

Given the growing understanding of epigenetics, surrogacy agencies take extensive steps to ensure the health and well-being of the surrogate and by extension, your baby.

Agency Requirements and Prescreening

All of ours surrogates must meet preliminary requirements such as:

  • Age 21-40
  • BMI of 19-32
  • Have had at least one successful pregnancy
  • No major complications in previous pregnancies or deliveries
  • No smoking or illicit drug use
  • No anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medications in the last 12 months

Once they’ve met these preliminary requirements, they then must undergo a preliminary screening process before they can be matched with intended parents. This screening consists of:

  1. Completing social and medical history forms
  2. Review medical records:
  3. An in-home visit:
  4. Psychological evaluation:

Fertility Clinic Approval and Physical Screening

Once you find a surrogate you’re interested in, we will send her medical records to your clinic for approval and she will be required to undergo a final medical screening at that clinic before the match is finalized.

Connection Beyond Genetics

Parenting is far more than genetics; it’s about the love, care and effort put into raising a child.

The bond between parent and child is built through shared experiences, such as comforting a child when they’re upset, celebrating milestones and offering guidance as they navigate life. This emotional bond often becomes the foundation of a child’s identity, far outweighing any genetic link.

Take the quickest path to parenthood and contact us today. You’ve waited long enough to become a parent. Don’t wait any longer.

Can I Be a Surrogate After Placental Abruption?

If you want to learn more about if you can be a surrogate after placental abruption, we’ve got you covered. Here’s everything you need to know.

Placental abruption is a pregnancy complication that can impact both the mother and the baby, so it’s natural to have concerns about how it might affect your eligibility as a surrogate.

While this condition may prevent you from becoming a surrogate, it’s important to have a conversation with your surrogacy agency and clinic to assess your specific situation.

Interested in learning more about becoming a surrogate? Contact us today to learn more about our surrogate requirements.

 Let’s take a deeper look into what placental abruption is, how it affects pregnancy outcomes, and how this may impact your potential to become a surrogate.

Can I Be a Surrogate After Placental Abruption?

The complications of a placental abruption make it unlikely that you will be able to become a surrogate.

While it is generally unlikely that you would qualify to become a surrogate after experiencing this condition, contact your surrogacy agency or fertility clinic and discuss your specific situation.

Each case is unique, and they can provide you with the most accurate guidance based on your medical history and current health status.

Learn more about our requirements to become a surrogate.

Can You Be a Surrogate If You’ve Had Placenta Previa?

Placenta previa is a pregnancy issue where the placenta grows in the lowest part of the womb, covering all or part of the opening to the cervix.

Similar to placental abruption, it is unlikely you’ll qualify to be a surrogate, but it depends on the circumstances of your situation.

What are the Complications of Placental Abruption?

A placental abruption is a condition that occurs during pregnancy when the placenta separates from the uterus before delivery.

The placenta connects the fetus to the uterus during a pregnancy, acting as the lifeline that transfers nutrients and oxygen through the umbilical cord.

There are different levels of severity when it comes to placental abruption. Here’s how your medical professional may classify them:

  • Partial Placental Abruption: Occurs when the placenta doesn’t completely detach from the uterine wall.
  • Complete or Total Placental Abruption: Occurs when the placenta completely detaches from the uterine wall.
  • Revealed Placental Abruption: Results in moderate to severe vaginal bleeding that’s visible.
  • Concealed Placental Abruption: Results in little to no visible vaginal bleeding, blood is trapped between the placenta and uterine wall.

Placental Abruption Effects on Baby

  • Premature birth
  • Low birth weight
  • Growth problems
  • Brain injury from lack of oxygen
  • Stillbirth

Placental Abruption Effects on Mother

  • Blood loss
  • Anemia
  • Blood clotting issues
  • Kidney failure

The Requirements to Become a Surrogate

As a prospective surrogate, it’s important that you have a track record of uncomplicated pregnancies.

A history of placental abruption or other severe complications could increase the risk of complications during the surrogacy journey, potentially putting both you and the baby at risk.

When you work with us for your surrogacy journey, there are specific health requirements you must first meet to become a surrogate with us.

  • Be with an age range of 21-40
  • Have a healthy BMI
  • Have carried at least one pregnancy successfully to term
  • No major complications with previous pregnancies
  • Be off anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medication for 12 months

Intended parents rely on you to provide a safe and healthy environment for their child. Surrogacy requirements ensure your safety as well as the intended parent’s opportunity to experience parenthood.

What if I Don’t Qualify? [Our Surrogate Referral Program]

Even if you do not qualify to be a surrogate, our Surrogate Referral Program offers the opportunity for you to refer potential surrogates who may meet the necessary health criteria.  

By referring a friend to become a surrogate, you can earn $5,000 or more as a referral fee.

You can contribute to helping make someone’s dream of having a family a reality.

If you know someone who might be interested in becoming a surrogate, consider the following general steps:

  • Step 1: Refer a friend who you believe will make a great surrogate.
  • Step 2: Your friend will go through our initial screening.
  • Step 3: Once approved, she will join our program and be matched with intended parents.
  • Step 4: You will receive a $5,000+ referral fee within 30 days of the embryo transfer.

Talk to Your Agency and Clinic

If you have had a placental abruption in the past and are considering becoming a surrogate, the best course of action is to contact your surrogacy agency and clinic.

Reach out today to learn more and to discuss your options.

We will evaluate your health history and review the details of your past pregnancy.

While a history of placental abruption may disqualify you from becoming a surrogate, it’s essential to have a personalized evaluation to make an informed decision.

Using Embryo Glue for Your Surrogate Embryo Transfer

Embryo glue is a fertility treatment used during embryo transfers to enhance the chances of successful implantation, particularly in surrogacy. While it can be beneficial for some, highly qualified surrogates with optimal health may not need it due to their strong chances of success.

Embryo glue is an advanced fertility treatment used to enhance the chances of successful implantation during an embryo transfer, particularly in IVF and surrogacy.

While surrogates are carefully selected for their health and fertility, embryo glue can provide an extra layer of support for couples seeking to grow their family through surrogacy.

If you’re considering surrogacy to grow your family, contact us today to learn more about the surrogacy medical process and how we thoroughly screen our surrogates.

In this article, we’ll explore how embryo glue works, the success rates and when it might be recommended.

Embryo Glue in IVF and Surrogacy

Despite its name, embryo glue is not an adhesive, but a solution enriched with hyaluronan, a naturally occurring substance in the uterine lining that aids in implantation.

By addressing one potential barrier to implantation, embryo glue offers an additional layer of support for those seeking to improve their IVF outcomes.

For surrogacy, embryo glue may be part of the treatment protocol to increase the likelihood of a successful pregnancy for both intended parents and the surrogate.

When it comes to embryo glue and surrogacy, it could be right for your situation if:

  • You have a history of failed IVF transfers
  • You have experienced failed surrogacy transfers
  • You don’t have many embryos left
  • Your budget may be strained if additional transfers are needed

Embryo glue may not be necessary in all surrogacy cases because surrogates are carefully prescreened and selected based on their medical history and overall health. After you match with a surrogate, she will undergo additional screening at a fertility clinic.

View our qualified surrogates today.

Highly qualified surrogates typically have a strong reproductive track record, which means they have already demonstrated the ability to carry a pregnancy successfully.

Embryo Glue Success Rates

The results of a study recorded in a 2024 paper from the National Library of Medicine looked at the effect of embryo glue on the live birth rate for frozen embryo transfer (FET) cycles.

The study measured the efficacy of standard treatment vs. treatment with embryo glue for patients 35 years and under and 35 years and older.

  • Under 35: The clinical pregnancy rate was 71.7% in the embryo glue treatment group and 62.3% in the standard treatment group.
  •  Under 35: The live birth rate was 63.4% in the embryo glue treatment group. And 51.9% in the standard treatment group.
  • Over 35: The clinical pregnancy rate was 63.6% in the embryo glue treatment group and 44.6% in the standard treatment group.
  • Over 35: The live birth rate 52.8% in the embryo glue treatment group and was 35.6% in the standard treatment group.

According to this 2015 paper from the National Library of Medicine, the clinical pregnancy rate in the study group was 7% higher than the control group.

It also found a significant difference in the clinical pregnancy rate for those that used embryo glue with previous IVF failure.

Vitrolife, the producer of EmbryoGlue, cited the Cochrane Library, “a collection of databases that contain high-quality, independent evidence to inform healthcare decision-making,” when it came to its products effectiveness

Their review in 2020 stated: “”Moderate‐quality evidence shows improved clinical pregnancy and live birth rates with the addition of hyaluronic acid as an adherence compound in embryo transfer media in ART.”

Embry Glue: Pros and Cons

With conflicting thoughts out there when it comes to the use of embryo glue, consider the pros and cons.

Pros

Cons

  • Success is not guaranteed
  • Additional cost, which can range from $150 to $300 per cycle
  • Limited evidence of effectiveness for all IVF patients

Does Embryo Glue Help Prevent Ectopic Pregnancy?

Although it can’t directly prevent an ectopic pregnancy, embryo glue can help stop it from happening by influencing implantation that occurs properly.

An ectopic pregnancy typically happens when a fertilized egg implants outside the uterus in the fallopian tubes. Embryo glue can potentially help this by increasing the chances of implantation in the uterus.

How Much Does Embryo Glue Cost?

The cost of embryo glue can vary depending on the fertility clinic and the location, but it typically ranges from $200 to $500 per embryo transfer cycle.

Some fertility clinics may include it as part of the overall IVF or surrogacy treatment package, while others may charge it as an additional service.

Does Embryo Glue Really Work?

For some patients, embryo glue may increase implantation rates.

However, its effectiveness can vary depending on individual factors. Consulting with your fertility specialist is essential to determine whether it’s a suitable option for your treatment plan.

Get the Support You Deserve

Ultimately, embryo glue is just one of many factors that contribute to a successful outcome.

As you look at various solutions to helping you become a parent, like embryo glue in IVF, make sure you talk to your medical professionals to get the most up-to-date insight and information about products like these.

Fill out our online contact form to find a fertility clinic near you that can walk you through the medical processes and whether or not embryo glue could be right for your situation.

Your Guide to the Best IVF Gifts for Loved Ones

Supporting someone undergoing IVF can be challenging, but meaningful gifts can brighten their journey. Here, we’ll cover IVF gift ideas for different stages — starting IVF, transfer day, the two-week wait and failed cycles.

The IVF process can be an emotional and physical rollercoaster for your loved one. Thoughtful gifts for someone going through IVF not only show your support but can also provide comfort during this demanding time.

If your loved one is considering other family-building options, send them this form to speak with a specialist about their options.

Whether your loved one is starting IVF, gearing up for transfer day, enduring the two-week wait or coping with a failed cycle, our 2025 IVF gift guide can help you brighten their day and give them the encouragement they need. 

Why IVF Gifts Matter 

IVF is an emotional and physical journey filled with hope, challenges, and milestones. For someone going through this process, thoughtful gifts can offer more than just comfort — they show your support and understanding during a time where things feel out of control.

With so much on their plate, there’s nothing like receiving an IVF care package that lets them know they’re not alone.

Gifts for Someone Starting IVF

When your loved one begins IVF, they’ll likely need tools and encouragement to stay organized and feel supported. These IVF essentials make great starting-point gifts:

  • IVF Planner or Journal: Help them track appointments, medications and emotions with a beautiful IVF planner or IVF journal. IVF journals offer prompts to express their thoughts and feelings.
  • IVF Medication Organizer: Keeping track of medications is crucial. A pill organizer tailored for IVF is both practical and thoughtful.
  • Books About IVF: The best books about IVF, such as “It Starts with the Egg” by Rebecca Fett, can provide valuable insight and tips.
  • Numbing Cream for IVF Injections: For someone starting injections, numbing creams can ease discomfort.
  • Injection Shot Blocker: Shot blockers are designed to minimize pain by applying gentle pressure or distraction to the injection site. This can make the experience less uncomfortable.

Gifts for Someone Going Through IVF Treatment

During the IVF process, support and comfort are key. As you begin shopping for your loved one or friend, consider these IVF gifts:

  • Comfort Gifts: Soft blankets, IVF transfer socks with inspirational messages or cozy heating pads for post-injection soreness are thoughtful touches.
  • Ice Packs for Injections: Compact ice packs designed for injection sites can provide much-needed relief. This buzzing ice pack is sure to keep injection discomfort to a minimum.
  • IVF Kit: Create an IVF care package with essentials like Band-Aids, numbing cream and a planner. It’s a personalized way to show you care.

Gifts for IVF Transfer Day

Transfer day is a milestone in the IVF journey, and small, meaningful gifts can make the day feel special:

  • Cozy Socks: IVF transfer socks are a comforting reminder that you’re cheering them on.
  • Relaxation Items: A scented candle, essential oils or a calming herbal tea set can ease pre-transfer nerves.
  • Good Luck Messages for IVF: Write a heartfelt card or send a supportive text. Even small gestures can mean a lot on this big day.

Two-Week Wait Gifts

The two-week wait can be emotionally exhausting. These low-key gifts can help distract and comfort your loved ones:

  • Activities to Pass the Time: Puzzle books, novels or a streaming subscription make great distractions.
  • IVF Affirmation Cards: Gentle reminders of strength and hope can boost morale.
  • Comfort Foods or Treats: A gift card to their favorite bakery or delivery service is a sweet way to show support.

Failed IVF Gift Ideas

If IVF is unsuccessful, showing empathy and offering comfort is crucial. Here are thoughtful failed IVF gift ideas:

  • Self-Care Gifts: Spa kits, massage gift cards or aromatherapy diffusers can provide relaxation.
  • Flowers or a Letter: A simple bouquet with a heartfelt note expresses your love and understanding.
  • Books for Healing: Titles like “Option B” by Sheryl Sandberg can offer solace and perspective.
  • Memory-Making Experiences: Take them on a calming outing — like a painting class or a scenic walk — to help lift their spirits.

Words of Encouragement for Someone Going Through IVF

Sometimes, words of encouragement can mean as much as a physical gift. Here are a few ways you can provide comfort during your loved ones IVF journey:

  • Write a Letter: A handwritten letter expressing your admiration for their strength and resilience can be incredibly meaningful.
  • Share Affirmations: Send IVF affirmation cards with messages like “You are stronger than you know” or “Take it one step at a time.”
  • Daily Texts: Small, consistent reminders that you’re thinking of them — such as a daily text saying, “I’m rooting for you!”— can make a big difference.
  • Encourage Self-Compassion: Remind them it’s okay to feel all the emotions they’re experiencing and that they are not alone.
  • Celebrate Their Courage: Acknowledge the bravery it takes to embark on this journey, even if they don’t feel brave in the moment.

Thoughtful Gestures Make a Difference

Supporting a loved one through IVF is about showing that you care and are there for them every step of the way. Whether it’s a practical IVF medication organizer, cozy transfer socks or a heartfelt note, these gifts can provide comfort and encouragement.

If surrogacy becomes part of their journey, American Surrogacy is here to help them make their dream of parenthood a reality. Send them our form if they are considering options outside of IVF.

You can also learn more about the surrogacy experience by following us on Instagram, surrogates and intended parents alike weigh in on what the process was like for them.

Can Slow Growing Embryos Catch Up?

While success rates for slow-growing embryos may be lower, many still have the potential to catch up and result in healthy pregnancies.

When undergoing an IVF cycle, not all embryos develop at the same pace.

While slower development can sometimes be a cause for concern, it’s important to understand that not all slow-growing embryos are destined to fail.

Once your embryos are developed, we can help you find a surrogate. Contact us today to start your journey.

In this article, we’ll explore the factors that contribute to slower embryo growth, whether these embryos can catch up, and what it means for the success of your IVF journey.

If none or few embryos become viable for transfer, read more about your next steps.

Can Slow Growing Embryos Catch Up?

Yes, a slow growing embryo can catch up. Embryo growth is typically assessed at day 3 and day 5 (blastocyst) of development during an IVF cycle.

Embryos developing slowly at day 3 have the potential to grow and reach full blastocyst development, especially with additional time to culture in the lab.

A slow growing embryo can be associated with less than ideal treatment outcomes, but most clinics will still freeze them for later use.

Read more about success rates of day 3 embryos.

How Many Cells Should a Day 3 Embryo Have?

On day 3, embryos typically should have divided into at least 6-8 cells. If the embryo has the appropriate number of cells and is dividing normally, it is considered to have a higher chance of progressing to the next stage—the blastocyst stage.

If it has fewer cells, it may be categorized as a slow-growing embryo.  

However, embryos with fewer than 6 cells, such as those with 3, 4 or 5 cells, can still have the potential to develop into a healthy pregnancy.

Can a 3 Cell Day 3 Embryo Catch Up?

Yes, a 3 cell day 3 embryo can catch up. Although 6-8 cells are the average number by day three, embryos with as few as 3-6 cells can still develop into a healthy fetus.

Can a 4 Cell Day 3 Embryo Catch Up?

Yes, a 4 cell, day 3 slow growing embryo can catch up. Although the chances of success are lower than a faster growing embryo, additional time to culture can allow it to catch up developmentally.

Can a 5 Cell Day 3 Embryo Catch Up?

The number of cells is a good indicator of its chance to develop into a healthy pregnancy. An embryo with five cells can catch up.

Can a 6 Cell Day 3 Embryo Catch Up?

Yes, a six cell day three embryo can catch up development wise. With 6-8 cells being the average number of cells by day three, it’s well within the range to “catch up.”

How Many Day 3 Embryos Make It to Day 5?

On average, 30-50% of day 3 embryos make it to the blastocyst stage on Day 5. This number can vary depending on various factors like embryo quality, age, and laboratory conditions.

What Are the Reasons for Slow Growing Embryos?

Slow growing embryos can occur for a number of different reasons such as:

  • Egg Quality: Age directly impacts the quality and quantity of eggs. Issues with ovarian stimulation or mitochondrial dysfunction can also impact the energy that fuels normal embryo development.
  • Underlying Health Conditions: This could range from the intended mother having polycystic ovary syndrome, leading to egg that don’t develop normally, or lifestyle factors like smoking, obesity, stress and more that can affect the quality of gametes and therefore development.
  • Sperm Quality: Poor sperm motility contributes to impaired fertilization and early development. Damage to the DNA in the sperm can result in slower growth for embryos too. 
  • Embryo Culture Environment: Your choice of professional directly impacts your journey. A laboratory with variations in different aspects like temperature, oxygen concentration and more can impact embryo growth negatively.
  • Genetic Abnormalities: An incorrect number of chromosomes after dividing abnormally or genetic mutations that impact the cellular processes around normal development, genetic abnormalities can result in slow-growing embryos.

Are Slow Growing Embryos Female?

According to this paper from the National Library of Medicine, there was no difference in day 3 embryos in embryo transfers that resulted in male vs. female infants.

Slow Growing Embryo Success Stories

If you are concerned about whether slow growing embryo can catch up or not, there are plenty of success stories out there.

One intended mother posting on r/IVF on Reddit had 15 egg retrieved, 12 matured and 10 fertilized  On the fifth day, she was told all 10 were developing slower than normal and hadn’t yet reached the blastocyst stage.

Another user in the top responses had a similar situation resulting in success.

“All of my embryos were slow growing. I only made day 6 and 7 embryos,” replied the user. “My clinic told me day 6 are their most common. I am not sure if the embryos I transferred were day 6 or 7 but both of my transfers worked and I have a 19 month old and am 16 weeks with our second.”

When your embryos make it to the next stage, you’re one step closer to bringing your family dreams to life through surrogacy.

Contact us today to start your journey and get matched with surrogate who aligns with your needs.

Can You Be a Surrogate if You Had Preeclampsia?

If you’ve experienced preeclampsia in a previous pregnancy, it may impact your eligibility to become a surrogate.

Preeclampsia is a serious pregnancy complication that can impact a woman’s ability to carry a pregnancy to full term. If you’ve experienced preeclampsia in a previous pregnancy, your surrogate eligibility may be impacted.

If you’re considering surrogacy after preeclampsia, this blog will give you the information you need to make an informed decision about your future.

A surrogacy professional can explain the surrogacy requirements in detail, including how your medical history may impact your candidacy. Contact us today.

Can You Be a Surrogate If You Had Preeclampsia?

It is unlikely that you will be able to become a surrogate after having preeclampsia, but it depends on your individual health history, the severity of the condition and medical clearance.

Before making any decisions, it’s essential to consult with your healthcare provider. A thorough discussion with your doctor about your risks and the potential for complications will help you evaluate your options.

In addition to consulting your doctor, it is equally important to speak with a surrogacy professional about their surrogate requirements. Surrogacy agencies are experienced in managing the process and can help guide you through the eligibility criteria.

Surrogate Health Requirements

Your choice to give intended parents a chance at a life-changing opportunity is nothing short of incredible. The following requirements help ensure the safety and success of everyone involved:

  • Be with an age range of 21-40
  • Have a healthy BMI
  • Have carried at least one pregnancy successfully to term
  • No major complications with previous pregnancies
  • Be off anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medication for 12 months

Learn more about surrogate requirements and how your medical history can impact your eligibility.

Preeclampsia and Surrogacy: What are the Risks?

Preeclampsia is a blood pressure condition that can develop during pregnancy. It often results in high blood pressure and high levels of protein in urine and usually develops after the 20th week of a pregnancy.

Although not super common in the U.S., impacting between 5-8% of all births, it is responsible for around 15% of all premature deliveries and getting treatment is required to avoid life-threatening complications.

These risks not only affect your health but can also complicate the pregnancy, impacting the outcome for the intended parents and their future child.

Potential Preeclampsia Complications

Here’s how preeclampsia complications can impact you and your surrogate pregnancy:

  • Eclampsia: Eclampsia is a severe complication that can develop after preeclampsia, characterized by high blood pressure and organ damage. It causes seizures that can harm both the surrogate and the baby.
  • Damage to your liver and/or kidneys: Damage to these organs can result in severe complications, including kidney failure, fluid retention and jaundice. If the organs fail, it may result in the need dialysis or early delivery, putting both your and baby’s health at risk.
  • Fetal growth restriction: Preeclampsia can prevent adequate blood flow to the placenta, resulting in fetal growth restriction. This can lead to a range of complications, such as low birth weight, developmental delays or organ damage.
  • Premature birth: Premature birth (before 37 weeks of pregnancy) is associated with numerous health risks for the baby, including respiratory distress syndrome, brain bleeds and developmental delays.
  • Low birth weight: Babies born with low birth weight (under 5 pounds, 8 ounces) are more likely to experience complications, including difficulty breathing, feeding problems and an increased risk of infections.
  • Placental abruption: Placental abruption is when the placenta detaches from the uterine wall prematurely, cutting off the baby’s supply of oxygen and nutrients. This can cause severe bleeding and can be life-threatening for both you and the baby. The risks include hemorrhage, shock and fetal death.

What Are the Long Term Effects of Preeclampsia?

If preeclampsia has been or could be a risk for you as a potential surrogate, you should know of the long term effects of preeclampsia such as:

  • Kidney disease
  • Heart disease
  • High blood pressure
  • Stroke
  • Developing preeclampsia in future pregnancies

Each situation is unique and if you are unsure of if the circumstances of your situation may allow you to still become a surrogate, contact your surrogacy agency or fertility clinic to get a clear cut answer.

What if I Don’t Qualify to Be a Surrogate? [Our Referral Program]

Surrogate requirements exist to ensure the safety of you and the child you are carrying.

If preeclampsia complications have made you ineligible for becoming a surrogate, you can still earn meaningful compensation through our surrogate referral program.

By referring a friend to become a surrogate, you can earn $5,000 or more as a referral fee. If you know someone who might be interested in becoming a surrogate, consider the following general steps:

  • Step 1: Refer a friend who you believe will make a great surrogate.
  • Step 2: Your friend will go through our initial screening.
  • Step 3: Once approved, she will join our program and be matched with intended parents.
  • Step 4: You will receive a $5,000+ referral fee within 30 days of the embryo transfer.

To hear directly from other surrogates, follow us on Instagram.

Reach out today to talk with a surrogacy professional who can guide you through the next steps. We’re here for you every step of the way.

What is the Cost of Surrogacy With Donor Eggs?

If the cost of surrogacy with a donor egg is a concern for you, you’re not alone. Here’s how you can budget for and afford surrogacy with donor eggs.

While surrogacy with donor eggs can be a significant investment, this path offers the chance to grow your family.

By exploring the costs involved, you’ll be better prepared to create a budget that supports your journey.

Considering surrogacy with donor eggs? Fill out our simple form to get an estimate of how much you can expect to pay and a breakdown of what is included in those costs.

In this article, we’ll break down the key expenses and guide you through options to make surrogacy with a donor egg achievable.

How Much Does Surrogacy With Donor Eggs Cost?

Because the cost of donor eggs and IVF are typically not included in your surrogacy cost, you’ll want to know how much IVF with donor eggs costs and the costs of surrogacy with your surrogacy agency.

Egg Donor Surrogacy Cost Breakdown

Egg Donor IVF Cost

The average cost of an IVF package with donor eggs is typically around $10,000-$45,000. This typically includes:

  • Around 6-8 eggs
  • Embryo transfer

Some clinics and egg banks may include these services in the package fee or as add-ons:

  • Storage
  • Shipping
  • Fertilization and thaw
  • Genetic testing

If you need help finding a clinic with a donor egg program or a donor egg bank, contact us today. We can provide you with reputable professionals near you to consider on your journey.

Read our article about how to find an egg donor.

Surrogacy Costs

Surrogacy costs around $150,000-$200,000 depending on the professional you work with.

We offer a transparent fee structure that outlines exactly what you’re paying for.

Through American Surrogacy, you can expect to pay $169,000-179,000+ with our Limited Risk Program. This fee includes:

  • Agency and case management
  • Surrogate compensation (depends on experience and location)
  • Surrogate expenses (travel/lodging to IVF clinic, lost wages, maternity clothes, etc.)
  • Legal fees
  • Medical and insurance expenses

What You Get for Your Surrogacy Cost

One of the ways you can ensure you get the support you deserve is by the professional you choose to work with for your journey.

Working with us means:

  • Financial Protection and Security: We not only offer multiple programs to fit your budget, we offer financial security to protect your investment.
  • The Quickest Path to Parenthood: With wait times of just 1-6 months to be matched with a surrogate, you can start life with your new family sooner. Why wait any longer if you don’t have to?
  • Experience and Expertise: We have decades of experience with creating families. Our staff is comprised of surrogates and hopeful parents who have been in your shoes.

What Affects the Cost of Surrogacy with Donor Eggs?

  • Surrogate location: Surrogates in states with higher living costs often have higher compensation rates.
  • Surrogate experience: Surrogates with prior experience are typically paid more for their proven track record of success.
  • Clinic rates for IVF and donor egg services: IVF clinics’ rates for egg retrieval, genetic testing and embryo creation can vary significantly. Some clinics offer package deals for IVF and donor egg services, which may reduce costs.
  • Quantity of eggs: Most donor egg package costs are based on the cost per egg. The more eggs included, the more you can expect to pay.

Is Surrogacy Covered By Insurance?

Surrogacy is rarely covered comprehensively by insurance, but certain aspects may be eligible for coverage depending on the insurance plan and specific circumstances.  

If you have infertility coverage in your plan, it might cover portions of IVF, such as medication or embryo transfer.

Intended parents often purchase additional insurance policies to cover gaps. This is something our specialists can assist you with and is an expense included in our cost.

If you need help determining whether your policy covers surrogacy or finding gap insurance, we have you covered. Contact us today.

Are Donor Eggs Covered by Insurance?

Insurance coverage for donor egg costs is limited, but some policies may cover portions of IVF procedures, such as monitoring or medications. It’s important to:

  • Check your insurance plan’s specific infertility coverage.
  • Ask your agency or clinic about any billing codes for fertility services that might be covered.
  • Consider supplemental insurance policies designed for fertility treatments.

Affording Surrogacy With Donor Eggs

There are several resources you can utilize to help you pay for donor egg surrogacy.

This can include, but is not limited to:

  • Loans: Traditional businesses like banks that offer loans for fertility treatments and surrogacy.
  • Work Benefits: If you are looking into growing your family, talk to your employer. Some employers provide fertility benefits that help with your cost of surrogacy
  • Grants: Surrogacy can be costly but there are family-building professionals that offer grants for those looking to grow their family but are dealing with infertility issues.
  • Personal Savings: Some families save for years before growing their family. You can use some of your personal savings for this life-changing opportunity or unexpected costs that arise along the way.
  • Fundraising: With technology becoming more and more prevalent there are a number of ways to fundraise to help grow your family. There are traditional avenues like benefits or community events that can help raise money as well as newer avenues online like GoFundMe or Kickstarter.
  • Equity: A HELOC is a common source of funding for surrogacy. You only pay it back when you start using it and the limits for a HELOC are typically much higher than credit cards.

Contact us online to learn more about financially preparing for surrogacy with donor eggs.  

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