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Benefits of Being a Surrogate

Discover the top five benefits of being a surrogate with our complete guide. We’re ready to help you become a hero in someone else’s story.

In a world filled with misconceptions and societal stigmas, the path to becoming a surrogate is often misunderstood. Beyond the stereotypes lies a reality where becoming a surrogate can be a rewarding, life-changing experience.

To help you understand how gratifying surrogacy is, let’s take a closer look at what being a surrogate really means.

If you want to learn more about the benefits of being a surrogate mother, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us today. You can also watch a surrogate journey to get a better grasp on what to expect.

Top 5 Benefits of Being a Surrogate

1. The Surrogate Journey Moves at Your Own Pace

One of the benefits of being a surrogate is that you have a unique sense of control over the process, allowing you to navigate your journey at your own pace. The process will align with your personal needs and preferences, letting you pave the way for how you want your experience to go.

This sense of empowerment emphasizes how positive and rewarding the surrogate journey can be. You can move through each stage of the journey with confidence knowing that you’re in control.

“Because of surrogacy, I now feel more empowered than I’ve ever felt and I can carry that feeling of empowerment into every aspect of my life. It’s been such a huge gift.”– Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

2. You Get to Earn Meaningful Income for Your Family

Surrogates play not only a vital role in creating families but can also earn meaningful income for their families. One of the benefits of being a surrogate includes receiving compensation for the time and energy you commit to the process. You can use this compensation to significantly improve your finances while also making parenthood possible for a deserving family.

You can earn $50,000-$110,000 in surrogate compensation to help you with life-changing expenses such as paying off debts, establishing a college fund for your kids, or buying your dream car. Whatever it may be, this benefit of being a surrogate will help you cover all aspects of the surrogacy journey, relieving you of any financial burden.

“I was able to be more present with my kids and that was to me the biggest thing. I was able to go on vacations with them and if I needed to take time off from work I wasn’t as stressed about it. Carrying a human is a job so it’s okay to be rewarded for that job.” –Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

3. You Become a Hero in Someone Else’s Story

Being a surrogate means becoming a hero in the eyes of intended parents. Your contribution to bringing a new life into the world can have a lasting impact on the lives of those who have dreamed of becoming parents. Knowing that you have the power to bring the joy of parenthood to a deserving couple can be an incredibly rewarding feeling.

One of the benefits of being a surrogate mother is that you get to play a pivotal role in creating a family and bringing happiness to intended parents.

“I chose to be a surrogate because I wanted to have a bigger purpose. I wanted to help someone in a way that not many can and really impact their lives and my life too. There are people who desire to have this one thing that they just can’t have and I couldn’t imagine someone who wants that and not being able to experience it. “– Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

4. The Modern Surrogacy Process is Guided by Qualified Professionals

One of the more recent benefits of being a surrogate is that the modern process prioritizes the well-being of all parties involved. When you become a surrogate, you can find comfort in knowing that the process is medically safe and guided by experienced professionals.

Our surrogate screening process ensures that you’re ready for the journey ahead. You’ll be provided with personalized medical consultations, screenings and tests that will verify your physical health for the surrogacy journey. With the guidance of dedicated fertility specialists and healthcare professionals, you can count on quality care throughout every step of the process.

“I wanted to have an experienced team behind me someone delegated to helping your find a match. Their support was so strong that I felt confident to take on anything that was coming. American Surrogacy really helped every step of the way it was so beautiful.”- Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

5. Form Bonds That Will Last a Lifetime

One of the amazing benefits of being a surrogate is that you have the opportunity to form a deep bond with the intended parents. The relationship that you develop can evolve into a connection built on trust, mutual respect and a shared sense of fulfillment.

This bond goes beyond the birth of the child, ensuring a connection that will last a lifetime. Because we offer such a thorough screening process, you can find peace of mind knowing that you’ll be matched with qualified intended parents.

“The best part for me is having that long relationship with them (the intended parents) now. Seeing the experiences that they have and the fun kid that he’s growing to be is powerful to say that I helped do that. Because I was a surrogate I feel like I’m a superhero.” – Allisandra, one of our surrogate mothers.

Although there are many misconceptions out there about surrogacy, the benefit of being a surrogate is that you not only give the gift of parenthood to others but also experience a journey filled with self-reflection, emotional maturity and heroism.

If you’re ready to change lives today, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us.

What is a Career Surrogate?

What is a career surrogate? We break down the benefits to becoming an experience surrogate mother.

Have you heard of a career surrogate? If you’ve been looking into surrogacy, you’ve likely come across this term. In the world of surrogacy, we love to work with career surrogates. Today, we break down what it means to become a career surrogate, the benefits and how you can get started.

Ready to begin your surrogacy journey? Contact a surrogacy specialist to get started.

What is a Career Surrogate?

A career surrogate is essentially an experienced surrogate. For many women, this experience is enjoyable and something they want to repeat as they are able to. There are a number of surrogate requirements you have to meet to continue as a surrogate, but once you’ve met them once and gone through the process, you will likely continue to meet these standards. This allows for a smoother process each time you go through the surrogate process.

Surrogacy can be a calling for many women who want to help others. This can create a positive and quality experience for everyone involved. If you find you want to continue being a surrogate and continue meeting the requirements, you can be a surrogate.

Benefits of Becoming a Career Surrogate

One of the main benefits of becoming a career surrogate is the experienced surrogate pay you receive. This can be a life-changing amount for many women and their families. Our experienced surrogate pay ranges from $60,000-$110,000. Where you live and how many times you’ve been a surrogate factor into this amount. For those career surrogates who are on their third or even fourth experience as a surrogate, this can be on the higher end. Surrogate pay often helps with:

Paying off debt
Purchasing a car
Purchasing a home
Paying for college
Putting money away for kids
Creating once-in-a-lifetime memories

Another benefit to being a career surrogate is your ability to understand the process. Because you have been through the entire surrogacy journey before, you understand the physical and emotional demands of the process. This goes a long way when working with parents who want a trusted surrogate to carry their baby. There’s nothing better to many parents than having a trusted individual to carry their child.

Get Started as a Surrogate

When you start your journey as a career surrogate you are not only helping to build families, but you are helping to sustain your own. Through continued experience as a surrogate your service can be beneficial to everyone. With the compensation, you earn as a surrogate, you can do so much for yourself and your family. We acknowledge that what you do as a career surrogate is offering incredible and insurmountable change for others.

We love working with experienced surrogates and would love to work with you. Whether you’re looking to start your first or third surrogacy journey, our surrogacy specialists are ready to assist you. We will walk you through the process from beginning to end, offering a competitive surrogate compensation package to help you feel financially secure

What Did the Pope Say About Surrogacy?

Pope Francis’s recent comments about surrogacy have resulted in increased interest in the modern application of this family-building method.

On Monday January 8^th, Pope Francis called for a global ban on surrogacy in an annual speech to diplomats outlining what the Catholic Church considers threats to global peace and humanity.

“I deem deplorable the practice of so-called surrogate motherhood, which represents a grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child, based on the exploitation of situations of the mother’s material needs,” Pope Francis said.

The Pontiff went on to condemn the commercialization of surrogacy, saying that “a child is a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.”

Pope Francis’ recent statements keep with the Vatican’s oppositional stance on in vitro fertilization. Pope Francis as well as other critics of surrogacy say that compensated surrogacy exploits impoverished women.

These statements have caused a recent surge of interest in surrogacy. Because surrogacy is a family-building method that many people are unfamiliar with, there is also a lot of confusion.

Below, we’ll go into more detail about what surrogacy really is.

What Surrogacy is, and What Surrogacy is Not [Explained]

As a surrogacy agency with our surrogates’ best interests at heart, we empathize with the Pope’s concern for the well-being of gestational carriers. That is why we want to break down some of the Pope’s statements and show how U.S. surrogacy laws protect the surrogate, the intended parents and the baby.

1. “A child is a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.”

First and foremost, we are in agreement with this sentiment. It’s for this reason that we provide this amazing service. There are so many deserving couples and individuals who want to grow their family, but for one reason or another, are not able to on their own.

Surrogacy allows these hopeful parents to have the family they’ve longed for.

The surrogates we work with have had children of their own and have made the choice to help these couples be able to experience the joy of parenthood.

The compensated surrogacy contract used in the U.S. ensures that the surrogate is able to financially support herself and her family, as well as to maintain her autonomy throughout the surrogacy process. Every surrogate has her own attorney who specializes in the surrogacy laws of her state to ensure that her rights are protected every step of the way.

2. “…based on the exploitation of situations of the mother’s material needs.”

Here, Pope Francis is most likely thinking of the well-documented stories of surrogacy being practiced in other nations in ways that are exploitative, dangerous and unethical. These stories shock the conscious. However, U.S. surrogacy practices are worlds apart from these reports.

In the U.S., surrogacy practices are designed to protect and empower surrogates, and never with the intent to exploit. Through a combination of state laws and medical standards from the ASRM, women considering becoming surrogates in the U.S. can feel confident that their rights and best interests are considered.

Every surrogate we work with starts her surrogacy journey on her own terms. All aspects of the surrogacy journey are done only once she has consented — and no surrogate is ever exploited.

We have surrogacy requirements in place that all of our surrogates must meet before she can begin the surrogacy process, which are based on ASRM standards. Many of these qualifications require her to her already have a strong support system, financial stability, a safe home environment and a healthy lifestyle. These requirements exist to protect the health and safety of her and the child she carries.

3. “… the life of the unborn child in the mother’s womb, which cannot be suppressed or turned into an object of trafficking.”

The safeguards and practices we implement as an agency are designed around the well-being of the child just as much they are the surrogate. Many of the requirements these women must meet before they can become surrogates through our agency pertain to the health and safety of the baby they carry, from conception through delivery.

The compensation provided to the surrogate is not payment for the child. It is for the service she’s providing and so that she can prioritize herself, the hopeful parents’ baby and her own family throughout the surrogacy journey without worrying about covering additional expenses.

Through IVF and gestational surrogacy practices, surrogates are not genetically linked to the child they carry. Before the surrogate begins the medical process of their journey, they work with their attorney to draft a contract that includes acknowledgement of the parentage of the hopeful parents they partner with. They understand that the child they’re carrying is not theirs, nor do they wish for it to be. This is also why we require that our surrogates must be currently raising a child of their own.

Surrogacy is an evolving family-building method, and not every country or organization practices or regulates it the same way. That’s why we as an agency take every measure that we can to protect and empower our surrogates on their journey of helping hopeful parents know the love and joy of building a family.

If you are considering surrogacy as a way to start or grow your family, or if you are thinking about becoming a surrogate, contact us today.

How Many Times Can You Be a Surrogate?

How many times can you be a surrogate? Check out this guide to how often you can help create families.

Surrogacy can feel like a calling for many women. Not only is it a way to give families a way to have children when they may not be able to, but it can be life-changing for you as well. The aspect of surrogacy compensation can create income for surrogates that help their family in ways they otherwise couldn’t.

If you’re wondering “How many times can I be a surrogate?” contact us today to learn more.

How Often Can You Be a Surrogate?

While we don’t have a specific limit on how many times you can be a surrogate, there are general surrogacy guidelines that can limit the amount of times you can be a healthy surrogate. There are a few requirements to becoming a surrogate that denote how many vaginal births and cesarean births you can have. Those requirements include:

Have had no more than five vaginal births.
Have had no more than three C-sections.

These requirements are created by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine. They are put in place to ensure the health of the surrogate and the baby. They also recommend waiting a minimum of six months before considering another pregnancy.

Ultimately, you could be a surrogate up to four times. We also require women to be raising their own child while going through the surrogacy process. So as long as you have had a previous healthy pregnancy, healthy vaginal delivery and are raising your child, you could become a surrogate up to four times.

When you apply to become a surrogate, you will go over your health and pregnancy history. This will be evaluated more closely to determine if you are a good candidate for surrogacy.

Become an Experienced Surrogate

Experienced surrogates are a special group of women who choose to go through the surrogacy process more than once. We love working with experienced surrogates because they know, understand and appreciate the surrogacy process.

Choosing to be a career surrogate can be a life-changing decision for you and your family. It can create an extra income to help pay for things like debt, a new home and more. You also have the benefit of giving a loving a family an once-in-a-lifetime gift. Our experienced surrogates earn $60,000 to $110,000 for their surrogate compensation package.

Get Started with American Surrogacy

We know surrogacy is life-changing for everyone involved. Getting started on your surrogacy journey can help you and your family whether you do it once or three times. The surrogate compensation you receive can offer a resource you wouldn’t otherwise have. Whether you want to create financial stability for your family, or if you feel a special calling to help others, we can help you through the surrogacy process as many times as you want to repeat it.

Get started on your own surrogacy journey. Contact us today.

The Best Surrogate Maternity Clothes

Your surrogate compensation package will cover maternity clothes. Check out our guide to the best surrogate maternity clothes for a comfortable pregnancy.

Finding surrogate maternity clothing for your surrogate journey can help make it more comfortable. But it can also put a dent in your budget. Luckily, when you work with us, you get a stipend for maternity clothing. This can help you afford clothing for every day, work, special occasions, pajamas and more. We want you to feel comfortable as you move through this journey and to do that you need clothing that fits.

We know clothing helps us feel like our best self. Finding a good pair of pants that fit well during pregnancy or the perfect leggings can make all the difference. We’ve researched and tried some of the best maternity brands. These are our favorite brands for surrogate maternity clothes.

2024 Best Maternity Clothes

Old Navy

One of my favorite things about Old Navy is that their prices are pretty affordable and you have so many options. They have everything from pajamas to workwear. It’s important to note that many of their surrogate maternity clothes are only sold online, so you won’t be able to go in an Old Navy store to try them on.

Amazon

Amazon is a great place to find a variety of options. Their assortment of brands and prices allows you to find what looks and feels best to you. Some favorite pieces of surrogate maternity clothes include

Be sure to check the reviews to ensure the quality of each piece.

Hatch

This brand has become a favorite amongst women looking for quality clothing during pregnancy. Hatch allows you to shop by trimester, so whether you’ve just “popped” or if you’re well into your pregnancy you can find the best fit.

Target

My favorite thing about Target’s maternity line is that they have them in store. It depends on the store as to how much variety they will have, but most of their maternity options are online. They offer jeans, leggings, dresses, workwear and more.

Motherhood

This is another brand that has become a favorite for their great quality and versatility. Their basics are great for building outfits around and will leave you feeling stylish.

Get Reimbursed For Surrogate Maternity Clothes

When you work with us, we add a stipend for surrogate maternity clothing in your surrogate compensation package. We offer a stipend of $750 to help you create a maternity wardrobe of surrogacy clothing. This helps you stay comfortable throughout your surrogacy.

Part of your surrogacy journey includes your surrogate compensation package which ensures you are financial stable throughout the process. In addition to maternity clothing, you also get paid for any medical costs, third trimester care, lost wages, child care, home cleaning and more.

Get Started Today

Our maternity clothing stipend is one of many ways we help our surrogates have a positive and comfortable surrogacy experience. Our surrogate compensation package is competitive and offers financial security as you pursue the surrogacy process.

Get paid to be a surrogate. Contact us today.

How to Prepare to Be a Surrogate Mother in 2024

Prepare to become a surrogate in 2024! We’re ready to get you started on this amazing journey.

If you’re considering becoming a surrogate in the New Year, you might wondering about how to prepare to be a surrogate mother. This is the guide for you. We’re laying out the best ways you can prepare your body, mind and well-being for the surrogacy process. From getting your family ready for the changes ahead to finding the right agency, we can help you begin this amazing journey.

How to Prepare to Be a Surrogate Mother

There are a number of surrogacy requirements you will need to meet before you begin the surrogacy process. Making sure you meet these requirements is the first step to preparing to be a surrogate. This includes:

Not getting tattoos prior to 12 months of the surrogacy process
Abstain from antidepressants for at least 12 months
Maintain or achieve a healthy BMI

Surrogacy is a 12-18 month commitment for many surrogates. Making sure you are able to stay in the same geographical area, you are not planning to change a lot in your life, and ensuring you’re going to have a stable environment for that time is important. Understanding this can help you prepare your calendar, family and work for the whole process.

Make the Appropriate Work Arrangements

When you begin your surrogacy journey, you may need to find out what your work’s policy is on maternity leave. Talk to your human resources department or boss to learn more about the benefits they offer. If your work does not offer a maternity leave package or if you will lose wages due to pregnancy or giving birth, we can include those lost wages in your surrogate compensation package.

Talk to Your Family

Having a support system for your surrogacy journey is so important. Talking to your spouse, child(ren) and anyone else you live with to help them prepare for surrogacy can create a positive experience for everyone. When you begin the surrogacy process, a social worker will meet with your family to help everyone feel prepared and give them better insight into surrogacy. One of the best resources to talk to your family about surrogacy is by consulting one of our surrogacy specialists. Contact us to get information today.

Cultivate Healthy Habits

One of the best ways to be a good surrogate mother is adopting some healthy habits before your pregnancy. Getting your body ready for a healthy pregnancy can help you feel your best as you go into surrogacy. The medical process can feel intensive so taking care of your health can be important for preparing for surrogacy. Here are a few of the things you can do to prepare yourself physically and mentally.

Start taking prenatal vitamins
Cut out or cut back on alcohol
Get a fitness routine like yoga or walking
Prioritize good nutrition
Talk to a mental health counselor
Connect with a surrogacy specialist

Preparing Your Network

Finding the right surrogacy agency is one of the most important things you can do to prepare. Our surrogacy specialists are ready to help you through the surrogacy process and give you the best experience possible.

Top 5 Benefits of Being One of the Highest-Paid Surrogates

Do you want to know more about surrogate compensation? Learn about the top five benefits of being one of the highest-paid surrogates with our guide.

Becoming a surrogate is an incredible journey that not only allows you to help others create families but also offers a unique opportunity to significantly improve your own life and that of your family.

As the highest-paying surrogacy agency, we understand the importance of recognizing your invaluable contribution. We strive to ensure that our surrogates are among the highest paid, providing a range of benefits that extend far beyond compensation.

If you’re ready to become one of the highest-paid surrogates, reach out to us now to connect with a specialist. We can help you become the highest-paid surrogate mother.

Understanding Surrogate Compensation

Becoming one of the highest-paid surrogates for your time and effort is a great way to secure a steady financial future. Whether you’re interested in surrogacy to help others or are motivated by the financial benefits, you deserve the highest amount of compensation possible.

The amount of compensation you receive can vary depending on certain factors such as experience and the state you live in. For example, first-time surrogates have the opportunity to earn $50,000 to $90,000 while experienced surrogate compensation can be anywhere from $60,000 to $110,000.

Check out our surrogate compensation calculator to learn if you can become one of the highest-paid surrogates.

Benefits of Being One of the Highest-Paid Surrogates

Here are the top five benefits of being one of the highest-paid surrogates:

1. Financial Empowerment

Being one of the highest-paid surrogates can bring substantial financial rewards and stability. We’re one of the highest-paying surrogacy agencies offering competitive compensation packages to significantly impact your life. This financial empowerment can help you achieve your goals, whether it’s buying a house, funding education, starting a business or securing a better future for your family.

2. Improved Quality of Life

The financial stability that comes with being one of the highest-paid surrogates can significantly improve your quality of life. It provides peace of mind, allowing you to focus on your well-being, health and pursue your passions without financial stress. You can afford better healthcare, leisure activities and experiences that can impact your and your family’s life.

3. Educational Opportunities

Being one of the highest-paid surrogates can open doors to better educational opportunities for yourself and your family. Whether it’s pursuing higher education or providing better schooling for your children, becoming the highest-paid surrogate can pave the way for a brighter future.

4. Career Flexibility

Financial stability allows you the freedom to make choices about your career. You might decide to explore new career paths or invest more time in hobbies and interests. The financial cushion from being among the highest-paid surrogates lets you decide which career paths you want to take.

5. Emotional Fulfillment

While financial benefits are significant, the emotional fulfillment of helping intended parents achieve their dreams of having a family can be equally fulfilling. Being among the highest-paid surrogates allows you to experience this joy while positively impacting the lives of others.

At American Surrogacy, we prioritize the well-being of our surrogates by being among the highest-paid surrogate agencies. We offer competitive surrogate compensation packages that include base compensation, allowances, insurance coverage and additional benefits to ensure our surrogates are among the highest paid.

Becoming one of the highest-paid surrogates with American Surrogacy isn’t just about the opportunity to transform your life and the lives of others. It’s about receiving the surrogate compensation to ensure financial stability for you and your family. Reach out to us now to become one of the highest-paid surrogates with American Surrogacy.

How to Find a Surrogate Mother

Are you looking for a surrogate? Here’s how to find a surrogate mother in three steps.

Successfully navigating surrogacy involves various steps, and the most important is finding a surrogate mother who aligns with your goals. This person will be your partner throughout the surrogacy journey, significantly impacting both your lives.

However, finding a gestational carrier on your own can be challenging and risky. At American Surrogacy, we offer guidance on finding a surrogate who aligns with your surrogacy plan, while allowing you to choose the surrogate that’s right for you.

Our team is always available to dive deeper into the process and discuss how to find a surrogate mother based on your specific surrogacy goals. We understand how important it is to find a compatible gestational carrier and are committed to supporting you at every step, ensuring a stress-free experience for intended parents.

To begin the process of finding a surrogate mother, please call us at 1-800-875-2229 (BABY). You can also reach out to us online to connect with a specialist who can walk you through how to find a surrogate.

In the meantime, here are three steps that you’ll need to take to find a surrogate.

Step 1: Partner with a Reputable Surrogacy Agency

Working with the right surrogacy agency, like American Surrogacy, can help you find a surrogate who’s been thoroughly screened. With over 20 years of matching experience through our sister agency, American Adoptions, we know what it takes to consistently bring in high-quality surrogates to our agency.

Our outreach means that even if you can’t find a surrogate from our “available surrogates” page, we can help you find the perfect surrogate through our extensive database. We also network with various attorneys, fertility clinics and social workers across the country to give you the highest chance at finding a surrogate that fits your needs.

Step 2: Get to Know Your Surrogate Through a Conference Call

Once you find a surrogate that’s the perfect fit, your surrogacy specialist will set up a conference call. This is your chance to solidify your match by asking the surrogate any questions you may have. This can help you decide if you’re comfortable working with her for the next year or so.

You’ll be able to decide how frequently you want to communicate with the surrogate and we will always be there to help you mediate communication if you need. Your specialist will also help you prepare for this conversation by giving you additional information about the surrogate’s preferences and by suggesting additional topics of conversation.

Step 3: Confirm the Match with a Surrogacy Contract

The final step in how to find a surrogate is drafting a surrogacy contract that outlines all agreements and responsibilities of everyone involved. This contract not only lays out expectations but also addresses any risks and liabilities in case an unexpected event occurs.

You and your surrogate will both need lawyers and your surrogacy specialist will help coordinate this legal process. Once the surrogacy contract is signed, your search to find a surrogate will be complete and you’ll be ready to move forward with the rest of the surrogacy process.

We take great pride in helping both intended parents and surrogates find highly qualified surrogate partners. To learn more about how to find a surrogate with American Surrogacy, contact us at any time. We’re always ready to help make your dreams of becoming parents a reality.

5 Questions for Infertile Couples About Choosing Surrogacy

Discover how to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples and how surrogacy can be a great family-building alternative when you’re struggling with infertility.

Struggling with infertility can be an emotionally taxing and lengthy journey. After months or even years of fertility treatments without success, you may be wondering what steps to take next.

For some, surrogacy for infertile couples becomes an option when traditional methods like in-vitro fertilization haven’t worked. However, deciding to transition from infertility treatments to surrogacy is a tough choice, particularly if you still hope to experience pregnancy yourself.

You can always reach out to us now to learn more about choosing surrogacy for infertile couples. We’re always here to help you explore your options.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whether or not you want to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples. If you feel stuck and uncertain about the chances of success, you can explore remaining options, such as surrogacy or other assisted reproductive treatments. If you’re contemplating surrogacy options for infertile couples, then here are some factors to consider.

What to Know About Surrogacy for Infertile Couples

Determining whether you’re ready to shift from infertility to surrogacy varies for everyone. Each individual’s infertility journey is unique, influencing the decision to explore alternative treatments.

Often, those who choose surrogacy for infertile couples have already gone through extensive, unsuccessful fertility treatments. This prolonged effort drains their time and energy, leading to stress that can have an impact on their relationship.

If you and your partner feel drained from continuous unsuccessful attempts, you might want to reconsider your current infertility treatment strategy. If you think that you’re ready to explore other family-building alternatives, then here are some answers to the questions you may have about infertility and surrogacy.

1. If you’re infertile, can you use a surrogate?

Yes, if you’re infertile you can use a surrogate to help fulfill your dreams of becoming parents. In gestational surrogacy, the medical process involves using IVF to complete an embryo transfer. If you’re infertile then a donor’s egg or sperm may be used.

Before choosing surrogacy for infertile couples, you’ll need to consider whether your infertility treatment plan is giving you the results you need. Choosing surrogacy after infertility means putting all your focus and determination into the process.

2. Are you interested more interested in experiencing parenthood than surrogacy?

Surrogacy for infertile couples involves someone else carrying your baby for you. IVF or gamete donation can give you a chance at being pregnant while surrogacy does not. If you feel that being a parent is more important than experiencing pregnancy, you may be ready to explore surrogacy as an alternative family-building option.

3. Are you okay with someone else carrying your baby to term?

When you choose surrogacy after infertility, you may experience a loss by not being in control of your baby’s development. Although there will be a contract that will protect the rights and interests of all parties involved, you must be comfortable knowing that you can’t be there for every minute of your surrogate’s pregnancy.

But don’t worry. All surrogates are thoroughly screened to ensure that they’re emotionally and physically ready for the surrogacy process. If you’re ready to relinquish control, then surrogacy for infertile couples can be an option for you.

4. Do you have embryos leftover from your infertility treatments?

Those who choose surrogacy for infertile couples have embryos remaining from their infertility journey. Instead of taking another chance of failure with other infertility treatments, some choose to transfer an embryo to the uterus of a surrogate. Many intended parents see this as a chance to preserve their remaining embryos.

5. Do you and your partner agree on surrogacy?

This is by far one of the most important questions you should ask yourself when considering surrogacy for infertile couples. If you’re not on the same page about the process there will likely be feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment. Make sure you’re both committed to the surrogacy process before you commit to pursuing surrogacy.

Once you’ve taken these questions into account, you’ll be on the right track toward building the family you’ve always dreamed of. Your journey to parenthood can be one of the most beautiful, life-changing experiences you’ll ever have. With our help, you’ll become parents in no time.

Reach out to us today to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples. Our specialists are ready to help you begin the process.

Can I Be a Surrogate For a Friend?

Are you wondering “Can I be a surrogate for a friend?” Learn what the process looks like when you’re thinking about being a surrogate for a friend.

Surrogacy is an act of generosity and compassion, often used to help couples fulfill their dreams of parenthood. In some cases, you might be thinking about becoming a surrogate for a friend.

While being a surrogate mother for a friend allows you to skip the matching process of, it’s crucial to recognize that being a surrogate for a friend comes with a unique set of complexities that require careful consideration and preparation.

As always we’re always here to help you navigate the complexities of being a surrogate for a friend and although you don’t have to worry about completing the matching process, we can still help you with other aspects of your surrogate journey.

Contact us today to begin the process of becoming a surrogate for a friend. Our specialists are ready to help you begin this life-changing journey.

How Does Being a Surrogate for a Friend Work?
If you’re asked to consider being a surrogate for a friend, you might feel thrilled by the chance to support them in such a meaningful way. Witnessing their struggle with infertility, you understand their desire to become parents. Helping them on their journey to parenthood can feel incredibly rewarding.

Yet, there are specific requirements you must meet in order to be a surrogate for a friend. Professionals who handle surrogacy have certain rules in place to safeguard the health of the surrogate and enhance the chances of success for the intended parents during the embryo transfer process. These guidelines aim to ensure a safe, successful surrogacy journey.

Below are some of the requirements on being a surrogate mother for a friend:

Age, Health, and Lifestyle Criteria: Meeting age requirements (usually 21–38), maintaining a healthy BMI, abstaining from smoking or drug use and having a successful prior pregnancy are crucial.
Financial Independence: Being self-sufficient and not reliant on state assistance.
Mental Health: Not being on certain medications for an extended period and passing psychological evaluations.

To learn more about the requirements of being a surrogate for a friend, please feel free to reach out to our surrogate specialists or call us at 1-800-875-2229. Top of Form

How to Be a Surrogate for a Friend

Once you’ve confirmed that you meet the criteria of being a surrogate for a friend, your next question is, “How do I become a surrogate for my friend?”

If both you and your friend are fully committed to this surrogacy path, there are specific steps you’ll need to follow to kick start the surrogacy process:

Step 1: Find a Surrogacy Professional

When you want to start the process of being a surrogate for a friend, you’ll need to work with a team of surrogacy professionals. Working with a surrogacy agency like American Surrogacy can help you navigate becoming a surrogate for a friend with confidence.

We will help you coordinate with other surrogacy professionals, organize your screening and assessments and provide support and counseling whenever you need it. Even though you’re becoming a surrogate for a friend, it doesn’t mean that you have to do it on your own. Our specialists are ready to help you begin your surrogate journey.

Step 2: Complete Screenings and Assessments

Everyone involved in the surrogacy process must complete background, medical and mental health screenings before you can begin the process of being a surrogate for a friend. These assessments ensure that all parties are ready for the complexities of the surrogacy process.

By completing the surrogacy process ahead of time, you can reduce the likelihood of a surrogacy failing later down the line in case any unforeseen circumstances arise. Surrogacy professionals will not proceed with the medical process until all screenings have been completed even when you’re becoming a surrogate for a friend.

Step 3: Draft a Surrogacy Contract

Before officially beginning the process of being a surrogate for a friend, you’ll need to work with your surrogacy professional to create a surrogacy contract. The surrogacy contract outlines every step of your upcoming surrogacy journey and includes responsibilities, expectations and potential risks of the process.

Just because you’re being a surrogate for a friend doesn’t mean you can skip this step of the process. This document protects your rights and interests during your upcoming surrogate journey.

What to Consider Before Being a Surrogate for a Friend

Becoming a surrogate for a friend can bring many positives for both you and your friend. It skips the need for matching services and might be a more affordable choice, providing peace of mind for everyone involved in the surrogacy journey.

But, despite the benefits of being a surrogate for a friend, there are specific challenges to think about before beginning your journey:

Impact on Friendship

Being a surrogate for a friend can profoundly impact the dynamics of your friendship. It’s essential to navigate this path delicately, acknowledging that emotional and physical strains might come up during the process.

Addressing Underlying Issues

Uncovering and addressing any underlying issues within your friendship before becoming a surrogate for a friend is crucial. Open and honest communication about expectations, boundaries and potential scenarios that may arise can make the process go more smoothly.

Financial Disputes

Establishing financial arrangements upfront can help avoid a bigger problem in the future. Even though you’re being a surrogate for a friend, clarity regarding compensation for medical expenses, lost wages and additional costs is crucial to avoid conflicts later.

Emotional Challenges

Being a surrogate for a friend can be emotionally taxing. The journey involves detachment after the birth, potential emotional turmoil and navigating the expectations and responsibilities that come with carrying a child for someone close to you.

While the journey of being a surrogate for a friend may pose challenges, it can also strengthen the bond between friends, offering a unique and lasting connection from the experiences shared throughout the process.

If you’re considering being a friend for a surrogate and want to begin the process, reach out to us now to speak with a trusted surrogacy specialist.