Category: Intended Parents

Whether you are thinking about adding to your family through surrogacy or have already started this amazing family-building journey, these articles are for you.

Can I Travel Out of State for IVF?

If you’ve been navigating the ups and downs of fertility treatment, you know that sometimes the right clinic, the right care — and even the right legal support — might not always be nearby.

Whether you’re facing restrictions where you live, looking for better success rates or preparing for a future surrogacy journey, traveling for IVF could be the path that brings you closer to parenthood.

Below, we’ll walk you through everything you need to know, including legal, logistical and emotional considerations.

If you’re just beginning to look into surrogacy, or you’re already planning your journey and need help coordinating IVF across state lines, our surrogacy specialists can provide you with the resources and support you need to feel confident and prepared. Contact us today.

Can You Travel Out of State for IVF?

Yes, you can travel out of state for IVF. Some of the common reasons families travel out-of-state for IVF include:

  • Cost differences: You are pursuing IVF and surrogacy in a state with more affordable IVF programs.
  • Access to specialized treatment and higher success rates
  • State-specific legal restrictions:  Some states place limits on embryo transfers, gamete donation or surrogacy. It’s important to verify the reproductive laws where you live and where you’re planning treatment.
  • Success rates: IVF clinics are required to report success rates to the CDC and SART, which can influence patients to travel to higher-performing centers.

But if you do choose to travel out of state for IVF, there are several considerations you should take into account.

How to Do IVF Out-of-State: Your 5-Step Roadmap

If you’re considering traveling for IVF, here’s a simplified overview of how the process usually works — whether you’re just starting or already working with a surrogate.

  1. Research and compare clinics: Look for clinics with strong success rates (check CDC or SART data), patient reviews, and services that match your needs — especially if you’re using donor eggs and/or sperm or pursuing surrogacy.
  2. Understand legal requirements: State laws can impact IVF and surrogacy. Before you begin, make sure you’re familiar with legal considerations in both your home and destination state. A fertility attorney or surrogacy specialist can help guide you through this.
  3. Coordinate local and out-of-state care: You may be able to handle some testing and monitoring close to home. Many clinics will coordinate with local providers to help minimize travel when possible.
  4. Plan travel around key appointments: You’ll likely need to travel for procedures like egg retrieval or embryo transfer. If a surrogate is involved, careful timing and communication are essential to keep the cycle on track.
  5. Prepare for the logistics: Think ahead about lodging, medication management and how long you may need to stay. Some clinics offer extra support for traveling patients, so don’t hesitate to ask.

Learn more about surrogacy laws in your state.

Important Considerations for Traveling for IVF: Plan for Success

If you’re going out of state for IVF, here are some of the important factors you should plan for:

  • Time commitment: Scheduling multiple appointments and procedures can take time, so you may need to travel for a longer time or take multiple trips
  • Travel and lodging costs: Budgeting for extended stays
  • Time zone differences: Managing appointment schedules and medication timing
  • Coordination between clinics: If you’re working with both a local OB/GYN and an out-of-state fertility clinic, you’ll need to manage shared records, results and timelines.
  • Insurance variations: IVF coverage can vary drastically from state to state, so review both in- and out-of-network policies in advance.

Additionally, if you’re travelling during IVF treatment, you may need to travel with IVF medications and injections.

If you are going through airport security or don’t have access to refrigeration, you may need to take extra steps to assure that your medications travel safely.

Checklist for Out-of-State IVF Success

  • Research fertility clinics and compare reported success rates
  • Verify state laws around IVF and surrogacy
  • Check insurance coverage for out-of-network treatments
  • Plan your travel and lodging ahead of time
  • Coordinate medical records between local and destination clinics
  • Understand embryo storage and transfer logistics
  • Consult a surrogacy professional if you’re working with a surrogate

How to Travel with IVF Meds

Many intended parents worry about getting through airport security, handling needles in public or keeping medications safe without refrigeration.

These are normal concerns and with the right preparation, traveling with IVF meds can be done confidently and securely.

Can I travel with my IVF injections?

Yes, generally you can travel with your IVF medications.

It’s always best to consult your fertility specialist ahead of your trip, but here are some key things to know:

Carrying Refrigerated Medications

Some IVF medications must stay cold. Use an insulated cooler, insulated insulin travel case, or gel ice packs to maintain the correct temperature while in transit. You can also ask your clinic for recommendations or sample kits.

TSA Regulations

Bringing injectable medications through TSA can be nerve-wracking, especially if you’ve never flown with medical supplies. To reduce stress:

  • Carry all medications and syringes in your carry-on, not checked luggage.
  • Label everything clearly with pharmacy labels.
  • Tell the TSA officer that you’re carrying medically necessary items.
  • Print and carry a doctor’s note or prescription summary if available.

TSA does allow sharps, syringes, and refrigerated meds as part of their medical exemptions. You can review the latest TSA medication guidelines here.

Managing Medication Schedules Across Time Zones

Some medications have time-sensitive dosage times, and if you are travelling it is important to stay consistent with your schedule and account for time zone changes.

Consider setting alarms on your phone or using a medication tracking app to stay consistent.

Tip: Stick to your original time zone for the first few days of travel, unless advised otherwise by your doctor.

Shipping and Transferring Embryos to Another Clinic

Embryo shipping is especially common when intended parents are pursuing out of state surrogacy or when coordinating care across clinics for legal or medical reasons.

Can you transfer embryos to another clinic?

Yes, you can transfer embryos to another clinic in many cases.

Embryo shipping can be required if you are having embryos made in one place and transferred in another place, if you move, if you have embryos created and want to store them in a state with friendlier embryo laws or if you change clinics during the IVF process.

Providers like Cryoport and IVF Couriers offer secure cryogenic transport for frozen embryos, using temperature-controlled tanks designed to keep your embryos safe throughout the journey.

Is shipping frozen embryos harmful to the embryos?

Not usually. While there is always a risk of embryo loss throughout the process of IVF, there are many safeguards in place to keep your embryos safe during the process.

Reputable shipping providers maintain strict protocols for handling and temperature regulation, and your clinic will help ensure proper coordination to avoid any disruptions.

How Much Does Embryo Shipping Cost?

Embryo shipping costs can range anywhere from $400 to $5,000+.

These costs can depend on a variety of factors including:

  • Distance (local, domestic, international)
  • Cryo tank rental
  • Handling and courier fees
  • Insurance coverage for the shipment

Why Working with a National Surrogacy Agency Matters

Traveling for IVF — especially with surrogacy involved — can get complicated fast. Every state has different laws, clinic protocols and timelines. American Surrogacy can help you manage all of it in one place.

Here’s how:

  • Legal guidance across states: Surrogacy laws vary, and a national agency can help you understand the legal landscape wherever you or your surrogate. We can also help you find a trusted surrogacy attorney to make sure your parentage is protected from day one.
  • Clinic recommendations: If you’re planning on out of state surrogacy, your agency can help you find a reputable clinic and coordinate between providers so your care is seamless.
  • Surrogate matching where it makes sense: Once your embryos are created, we will match you with a surrogate who lives in the right state or can travel to your clinic for transfer, and ensure everyone is on the same page.

Working with a national agency takes the guesswork and stress out of out-of-state IVF and surrogacy so you can focus on what matters most: becoming a parent.

Need help navigating IVF and surrogacy across state lines? We’re here to guide you through every step. Contact us today to get the support you need — no matter where your journey takes you.

From Heartbreak to Hope: Gilad and Rebekah’s Surrogacy Journey

After experiencing profound loss, Gilad and Rebekah found a beacon of hope in surrogacy. Their story proves that with the right guidance and support, surrogacy can transform loss into a new beginning.

If you’re ready to begin your surrogacy journey or want to learn more about how surrogacy can change your life, reach out today and get immediate support and clarity.

Continue reading below to learn how surrogacy can transform your path to parenthood.

From Loss to New Beginnings

When Gilad and Rebekah began trying to grow their family, they never anticipated the heartbreaking challenges they would face.

Rebekah experienced an ectopic pregnancy that required emergency surgery—twice in the span of 24 hours. It was a devastating moment, one that ultimately changed the course of their family-building journey.

“Once we realized that us having another pregnancy at home on our own was not an option,” Rebekah shared, “I felt numb. I was still mourning the loss of future pregnancies when we decided on surrogacy. But I think it helped give me a sense of purpose while I was still mourning.”

Navigating Uncertainty: Finding Clarity with American Surrogacy

The early days of the surrogacy process were filled with uncertainty, but as they moved forward, Gilad and Rebekah began to find clarity and hope.

“There’s definitely the numb phase because you don’t know what the next steps will be,” Rebekah explained. “But slowly and surely, you start to get more answers.”

A pivotal moment in their journey came when they spoke with Jade, their surrogacy specialist. “There was just this immediate comfort with her,” Rebekah recalled. “I felt that it breathed life into this situation for us.”

 “American Surrogacy just had options and responsiveness,” Gilad said. “I knew we were getting an agency that genuinely cared.”

Learn more about our full-service surrogacy programs.

Love Beyond Measure: Their Surrogate and the Birth of Their Son

As the months passed and they prepared to meet their child, the emotions of the journey became even more profound.

The birth of their son was an indescribable moment. “The most unexpected thing for me at the birth of our son was not only this overwhelming sense of love for your son, but I also had this incredible, overwhelming sense of love for our surrogate,” Gilad said.

“I’m staring at my wife. I’m staring at our surrogate. The baby comes out, time stops… and you’re overjoyed.”

A Journey Worth Every Step: Looking Back with Gratitude

The gratitude they feel toward their surrogate is immeasurable. “It’s overwhelming, and how do you say thank you to someone for doing that for you?” Gilad reflected. “Our son would not exist without our surrogate.”

Looking back on their surrogacy experience, Rebekah is grateful for the guidance they received. “I didn’t know how to go through this journey without guidance, and American Surrogacy really guided me—to safety, to happiness, to fulfillment. And I’m eternally grateful for that.”

For Gilad and Rebekah, surrogacy was not just a medical or legal process—it was a deeply emotional journey of resilience, love, and profound gratitude.

Today, they hold their son in their arms, knowing that their path, though difficult, led them exactly where they were meant to be.

Your Journey Could Be Just Beginning

Gilad and Rebekah’s story shows that surrogacy isn’t just a path to parenthood but a deeply transformative experience filled with hope, love and healing.

Their journey reminds us that even in the face of unimaginable loss, the right support and guidance can lead to a beautiful new beginning.

If you’re ready to take the next step toward growing your family, American Surrogacy is here to guide you every step of the way. Contact us today to learn more about how surrogacy can help you turn your dreams of parenthood into reality.

Greece’s Surrogacy Ban: What’s Happening and What it means

Greece’s recent surrogacy ban for gay couples and single men reflects shifting laws in parts of Europe, raising questions about the future of international surrogacy.

On Tuesday April 1st, Greece announced legislative changes that would prohibit surrogacy for gay couples and single men. Justice Minister, Giorgos Floridis, says the proposed change is meant to legally define what it means to be unable to carry a pregnancy.

“We are now clarifying unequivocally that the concept of inability to carry a pregnancy does not refer to an inability arising from one’s gender,” said Floridis.

For more information on this law, you can read the full news article on AP.

Recent surrogacy restrictions in parts of Europe have raised concerns about whether this trend will continue across other countries in this region.

Below we break down what Greece’s new restriction says about the evolving landscape of surrogacy laws across Europe and what that could mean for intended parents.

What Greece’s Surrogacy Restrictions Mean for Intended Parents

Greece’s new surrogacy law will prohibit single men and men in same-sex relationships from having a child via surrogacy.

As Greece’s decision to restrict surrogacy unfolds, it raises questions about whether this decision will influence the legislative direction of neighboring countries or those with similar cultural and legal frameworks.

This shift could lead to other European nations considering similar laws or restrictions.

As a result, it’s important for prospective parents to stay informed about the legal landscapes across Europe, as changes in one country may have broader implications for surrogacy availability and access across the region.

Will Surrogacy in Cyprus be Affected?

While Cyprus has not enacted a similar ban on surrogacy, the proximity and close cultural ties of the two nations have led to questions about whether Cyprus could impose similar restrictions.

For now, Cyprus remains an available surrogacy destination. Countries like Cyprus may feel pressure to adopt more restrictive policies, especially if other nations in Europe continue to tighten their surrogacy laws.

U.S. Surrogacy Laws Remain Secure Amid Europe’s Legal Shifts

While many European countries have made significant strides toward supporting LGBT families, the legal landscape surrounding surrogacy can vary widely, with many countries imposing restrictions or banning it entirely.

In October of 2024, Italy extended its surrogacy ban, which had criminalized surrogacy in the country since 2004, to include pursuing surrogacy internationally as well.

These changes highlight the volatile nature of surrogacy laws in Europe, raising questions about whether more countries will introduce new restrictions in the future.

In comparison, surrogacy laws in the United States offer a more consistent outlook for single individuals and LGBT couples. While state laws do differ, many states have well-established and supportive legal frameworks for surrogacy, protecting intended parents and surrogates.

This stability can offer peace of mind for intended parents, particularly for LGBT couples, for whom surrogacy is their only chance at sharing a genetic connection to their child.

How We Support Intended Parents Domestically and Abroad

At American Surrogacy, we are committed to supporting intended parents, whether you’re a couple struggling with infertility, an LGBT couple or single individual. Here’s how we do it:

  • Flexible programs that protect your budget: Our programs fit various financial preferences, all with clear, upfront costs. For added peace of mind, our Limited Risk Program provides financial protection if complications arise.
  • Short wait times: Our costs cover marketing to connect with a larger pool of surrogates and thorough prescreening to ensure each surrogate is qualified. This not only allows you to become a parent faster, but also minimizes risks, saving you money further down road.

Domestic Intended Parents: Why Alternatives Abroad May Not Be Worth the Risk

If you’re an intended parent based in the U.S. considering surrogacy abroad, it’s important to consider the evolving nature of surrogacy laws across the globe.

Sudden restrictions could mean you face unexpected legal roadblocks or even the inability to complete your journey.

With the recent changes in Greece and Italy, you may want to ask yourself: Is that a risk I’m willing to take?

Alternatively, by pursuing surrogacy in the U.S, your journey will be supported by clear legal frameworks and ethical practices, all while staying within a familiar legal system.

Some U.S. intended parents turn to surrogacy abroad for perceived lower costs and faster processes. However, these savings often come from fewer regulations and less surrogate screening than is required by U.S. surrogacy agencies, increasing the risk of an unsuccessful match.

As a result, what appears to be a more affordable option can end up costing much more in the long run, both financially and emotionally.

Our Surrogacy Programs for International Intended Parents

Our programs offer comprehensive support for intended parents who wish to pursue surrogacy in the U.S. from the following countries:

  • Canada
  • England
  • France
  • Germany
  • Spain
  • Ireland

We guide international clients through every step of the surrogacy journey, from matching with a U.S. surrogate to navigating the complexities of international surrogacy laws and regulations, as well as providing access to our network of experienced professionals.

If you reside in any of the countries listed above and are interested in pursuing surrogacy in the U.S., learn more about our surrogacy programs.

Choose Certainty With American Surrogacy

While surrogacy laws shift in many countries, signaling potential uncertainty and complications for intended parents, the U.S. continues to provide consistently inclusive legal framework that protects intended parents and surrogates.

This framework enables surrogacy agencies like us to help individuals and couples have the family of their dreams while adhering to each state’s unique laws.

Don’t leave your family’s future to chance. Learn more about how we ensure you’re legally protected on your surrogacy journey by contacting us today.

Can You Use Both an Egg and Sperm Donor for Surrogacy? Yes—Here’s How

If you need both an egg and sperm donor for surrogacy, understanding the process is essential to making informed decisions. Learn how surrogacy with donor eggs and sperm can help you achieve your dream of parenthood.

What if the biggest obstacle to having a child wasn’t your ability to be a loving parent—but simply needing the right medical solution?

For many intended parents, surrogacy using donor egg and sperm offers the best path to parenthood—especially if using their own eggs or sperm is not an option.

If you need help finding a fertility clinic to create your embryos using donor IVF for surrogacy, we can help locate reputable clinics near you. Contact us today.

In this guide, we’ll cover everything you need to know: how the process works, costs, success rates, and how to find the right donors for your journey.

How Does Surrogacy Using Donor Egg and Sperm Work?

Surrogacy with donor egg and sperm involves creating an embryo through IVF using an egg donor and sperm donor.

The embryo is then transferred to a surrogate who carries the pregnancy to term but has no genetic relationship to the child.

The Double Donor Surrogacy Process

  1. Find an egg and sperm donor: Find donor eggs and donor sperm through a reputable cryobank or fertility clinic. Consider factors such as genetic health, physical traits, donor heritage and education.
  2. Embryo creation: The donor egg is fertilized with the donor sperm in a lab to create embryos.
  3. Embryo freezing: After the embryos have developed for 5-6 days, they are frozen for later use.
  4. Embryo transfer to a surrogate: A healthy embryo is implanted into the gestational carrier’s uterus.
  5. Pregnancy and birth: The surrogate carries the pregnancy and delivers the baby for the intended parents.

Wondering if surrogacy with donor eggs and sperm is right for you? Discover how using a donor can help make parenthood possible. Fill out our simple form today.

Who chooses this path?

  • Gay couples who need both an egg donor and a surrogate
  • Single parents who cannot use their own eggs or sperm
  • Infertile couples who have issues with egg and sperm quality
  • Individuals with genetic conditions that they do not want to pass on

Success Rates of Double Donor IVF vs. Double Donor Surrogacy

While there are not currently many studies specifically comparing the success rates of double donor surrogacy to double donor IVF, there are studies that show using a surrogate and donor eggs has higher rates of implantation and live birth compared to IVF with donor eggs and no surrogate.

Surrogate with Donor Eggs vs. No Surrogate with Donor Eggs

  • Implantation Rate: 53.3% with surrogate and donor eggs vs. 47.4% with donor eggs and no surrogate
  • Live Birth Rate: 60.5% with a surrogate and donor eggs vs. 52.2% with donor eggs and no surrogate

Surrogate with Donor Eggs vs. Surrogate without Donor Eggs

  • Implantation Rate: 53.3% with donor eggs vs. 30.3% without
  • Live Birth Rate: 60.5% with donor eggs vs. 41.5% without

Double Donor IVF Failure: Understanding Your Next Steps

If you have experienced double donor IVF failure or standard IVF failure, there may be underlying medical issues, such as uterine abnormalities or immune system factors, affecting implantation and pregnancy.

In one study, nine couples with unexplained repeated implantation failure(RIF) used a surrogate to have a baby, resulting in a pregnancy rate of 66.66% (6 out of 9 couples).

While success rates vary from person to person, using both donor egg and sperm for surrogacy can significantly enhance the chances of success when egg and sperm quality are major concerns.

A thoroughly screened surrogate can carry the embryo, providing a pathway to parenthood even when multiple IVF cycles have failed.

Understanding the Costs of Surrogacy with Donor Egg and Sperm

The total cost varies based on clinic fees, surrogate compensation and the agency you work wtih. Here’s an estimate:

  • Egg donor cost: $10,000 – $20,000
  • Sperm donor cost: $500 – $2,000
  • Double donor IVF cost: $15,000 – $30,000 (includes lab fees, medications, and embryo transfer)
  • Surrogacy process cost: $100,000 – $200,000 (includes surrogate compensation, legal fees, and medical expenses)

Total cost of surrogacy with donor egg and sperm: $125,000 – $250,000

Learn more about the costs of surrogacy. We offer and upfront cost breakdown and financial protection with our Limited Risk Program.

Finding Donor Eggs and Donor Sperm for Surrogacy

When selecting an egg or sperm donor for surrogacy, you can choose donors based on various factors, including:

  • Comprehensive genetic screening to rule out hereditary conditions
  • Overall health history, including family medical background
  • Fertility and reproductive health (egg quality for egg donors, sperm motility for sperm donors)
  • Height, eye color, hair color and other physical traits
  • Ethnic background and ancestry
  • Education and Personality
  • Education and career background
  • Personality traits, interests, and hobbies

Other Considerations

  • Donor’s willingness to be an anonymous or known donor
  • Proven fertility (previous successful donations or pregnancies)

Learn more about how to find an egg donor and how to find a sperm donor.

Where to Find Donor Sperm and Donor Eggs

You can find donor sperm and donor eggs through:

  • Egg donor agencies
  • Clinic-affiliated donor egg or donor sperm programs
  • Sperm banks and donor egg banks

Most fertility clinics also offer donor matching services and recommendations based on individual preferences and medical needs.

Take Your First Steps Toward Parenthood

By carefully selecting donors and working with a reputable surrogacy agency, you can successfully navigate the journey to parenthood.

Excited to start your surrogacy journey? Let’s create a personalized surrogacy plan and connect you with the right donor resources. Fill out our form to connect with us today.

When a Second IVF Pregnancy Isn’t Happening, What’s Next?

If your first IVF was successful but you’re now struggling to conceive again, you’re not alone. Learn how to navigate this journey and find the fastest way to grow your family after failed IVF for a second baby.

You went through the emotional rollercoaster of in vitro fertilization once before, and after all the stress and waiting, it worked. Now you’re ready to grow your family again, but IVF for a second baby isn’t working.

Fertility can change, and what worked for you the first time may not work the second, but understanding why and what your next steps are can give you hope.

In this article, we’ll explore why treatment may not be working and provide alternative paths like surrogacy.

If you’re feeling stuck, know that you have options — and we’re here to help you explore them. Contact us today for more information.

Why is Achieving a second IVF pregnancy So Hard?

Failing to achieve a second IVF pregnancy can be frustrating when growing your family. You might not be sure why it’s so hard after you experienced success the first time.

While every situation is different, several common factors can make getting pregnant after IVF success harder:

  • Age-related fertility decline: As you age, egg quality and quantity naturally decrease, leading to a higher chance of miscarriage and lower chances of embryo implantation.
  • Uterine changes from previous pregnancy: Sometimes, changes in the uterine lining after carrying a pregnancy can make implantation more difficult, especially if there is scarring or other complications.
  • Diminished ovarian reserve: With fewer eggs available for retrieval, you might not have as many viable embryos to work with compared to your first IVF cycle.
  • Unexplained infertility: Sometimes, no clear medical reason is found for why IVF isn’t working.

What Are the Chances of a Second IVF Success?

After a live birth from IVF, your chances of a second IVF success after an IVF baby are generally high, ranging from 51% to 88% after six cycles.

Many factors can change between pregnancies, making the process more challenging the second time around. For example, as you get older, the health of your uterus and your hormone levels can decline, which can impact IVF outcomes.

Additionally, the stress and anxiety can impact both your mental and physical well-being, so it’s important to take care of yourself throughout this process.

See how the success rates of surrogacy compare to IVF.

When Should You Consider Surrogacy?

After failed IVF for a second baby or complications from a previous pregnancy, surrogacy could be the right option for you.

Surrogacy is often recommended by fertility specialists when repeated IVF attempts fail despite using high-quality embryos, or when a previous pregnancy has made it physically unsafe or emotionally draining to try again.

Here are a few specific scenarios when doctors might recommend surrogacy:

  • Multiple failed IVF cycles: If you’ve tried several IVF cycles with healthy embryos and still haven’t achieved a pregnancy, your doctor might suggest surrogacy. This could be due to issues like implantation failure, unexplained infertility or changes in the uterine environment that make pregnancy challenging.
  • Complications from a previous pregnancy: If your first IVF pregnancy led to complications that would make carrying a second IVF pregnancy difficult, such as significant uterine scarring, placenta previa or preeclampsia, surrogacy could be a safer option.
  • Age: In some cases, IVF fails due to age-related infertility. Surrogacy can help by using a healthy, younger surrogate to carry your embryo.

Why Surrogacy May Succeed After Failed IVF for Second Baby

A surrogate provides a healthy uterine environment, bypassing potential issues that may be preventing you from conceiving.

Surrogates undergo thorough screening to ensure they meet key health criteria. Factors like age, body mass index and previous pregnancy history are carefully evaluated to maximize the chances of a successful pregnancy.

Research supports this. One study shows that pregnancies carried by gestational surrogates have higher implantation, pregnancy and live birth rates than non-gestational carrier cycles (such as through IVF).

This makes surrogacy a promising option for parents who want to grow their family but aren’t getting pregnant again after IVF.

How Surrogacy Compares to IVF in Terms of Time

While IVF cycles can take several months, with limited success, surrogacy can provide a more predictable and quicker path, especially when multiple IVF attempts have failed.

Here’s a brief comparison of timelines:

IVF

Each round of IVF typically involves a few weeks of preparation, egg retrieval, embryo creation, and then a waiting period after the embryo transfer.

If IVF for a second baby fails, you’ll need to start the process over, which can lead to months or even years of frustration and uncertainty.

Surrogacy

Once a surrogate is selected and undergoes medical and psychological screening (which typically takes 1-2 months), the embryo transfer can be scheduled.

This means that even if your first IVF attempts have failed, surrogacy can often move you forward more quickly, bypassing certain hurdles that IVF might face.

After multiple failed second IVF pregnancy attempts, surrogacy offers a more direct and efficient path.

Learn more about the complete surrogacy timeline and surrogacy can fast track your path to parenthood.

How We Can Help You on Your Family-Building Journey

If a second IVF after the first success isn’t working, it doesn’t mean your family-building dreams have to end. In fact, exploring alternative options like surrogacy may be the key to growing your family when IVF alone isn’t enough.

At American Surrogacy, we understand how challenging and emotional the fertility process can be, and we’re here to offer you the guidance and support you need every step of the way.

From the moment you reach out, we’ll help you navigate the logistics of surrogacy with transparency and care.

Matching with the Right Surrogate – Fast

We understand that time is of the essence in your family-building journey, which is why we prioritize quick and efficient matching with a surrogate.

Thanks to our rigorous prescreening process and nationwide reach, we can connect you with qualified surrogates much faster than many other agencies.

This streamlined approach minimizes waiting times and helps get you one step closer to your dream of becoming parents.

Cost Transparency and Financial Protection

We understand that surrogacy can be a significant financial commitment, which is why we offer full cost transparency through every step of the process.

Our Limited Risk Program provides an added layer of financial protection, ensuring that your investment is safeguarded against unexpected costs.

You’ll have a clear understanding of what to expect, from surrogate compensation to medical and legal fees, and our program helps reduce the financial uncertainty that can sometimes accompany the surrogacy journey.

Emotional Support During Your Fertility Journey

Going through IVF, especially after a failed second IVF attempt, can take an emotional toll on you and your partner. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to feel frustrated, exhausted and overwhelmed.

Many people going through fertility struggles experience feelings of isolation or self-doubt. Here are some ways to take care of yourself:

  • Take time for self-care: Practice mindfulness, meditation, or gentle exercise to reduce stress and improve your emotional well-being.
  • Talk to a counselor or therapist: Seeking emotional support from a professional who specializes in fertility struggles can help you process the emotions involved and build coping strategies.
  • Join a support group: Connecting with others who are going through similar experiences can offer you a sense of solidarity and understanding.
  • Communicate with your partner: Fertility struggles affect both partners. Make sure to check in with each other regularly and offer emotional support throughout the journey.

Helpful Subreddits for Support

  • r/IVFAfterSuccess: A supportive community for individuals who have previously achieved success with IVF and are now seeking to expand their families or are undergoing additional fertility treatments.
  • r/InfertilitySucks: A supportive and open community for individuals dealing with infertility. It serves as a space for people to share their personal struggles, vent their frustrations and seek advice and encouragement.
  • r/IVF: A community dedicated to individuals undergoing or considering in vitro fertilization (IVF) treatments. It serves as a place where people can discuss their IVF experiences, share information, offer support and ask for advice.

Taking the Next Step in Your Fertility Journey

If a second round of IVF after the first success isn’t working, it doesn’t mean your family-building dreams have to end. Surrogacy may be the right path forward, allowing you to have another child even when carrying a pregnancy yourself is no longer possible.

You don’t have to navigate this journey alone. Reach out to learn more about how surrogacy can help you achieve your dream of parenthood and take the next step toward building the family you’ve been hoping for.

IVF After an Ablation: Know the Risks and Why Surrogacy Could Be Safer

If you’ve had an endometrial ablation and are considering IVF, it’s important to understand why IVF may not be the safest or most effective option. Surrogacy offers a safer and more reliable alternative, allowing you to pursue parenthood without the risks associated with IVF after an ablation.

If you’ve had an endometrial ablation and are hoping to have a baby, you may be wondering whether IVF is still an option. Unfortunately, IVF after ablation is rarely successful and can pose serious risks. But that doesn’t mean your dream of parenthood has to end.

Understanding how an ablation affects your uterus — and what family-building methods are available — can help you find the best path forward.

Below, we’ll explore what an endometrial ablation is and why IVF after an endometrial ablation may not be the best option. We’ll also discuss the benefits of surrogacy and how you can get started.

Ready to learn more? Reach out to one of our surrogacy specialists for personalized guidance today.

Can You Do IVF After an Ablation?

Medical professionals generally do not recommend IVF after a uterine ablation. An endometrial ablation, also called a uterine ablation, is a medical procedure that removes or destroys the uterine lining.

The procedure can cause extensive scarring and permanently thin the uterine lining, making it difficult for an embryo to implant and grow successfully.

A thick, healthy uterine lining is essential for a successful pregnancy. Without it, the chances of carrying a baby to term are very low.

Even if implantation does occur, successful IVF after an ablation is extremely risky. The uterus may not be able to support the growing fetus. Because of this, many fertility specialists recommend exploring alternative options like surrogacy.

What are my chances of successful IVF after ablation?

Studies show that the pregnancy rate following ablation is estimated between 0.24% to 5.2%.

In comparison, women who have not had an ablation face much higher pregnancy success rates. However, pregnancies that do occur after ablation often face higher risks such as miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, preterm delivery and more.

What Are the Risks of IVF After an Ablation?

While IVF might seem like a way forward, the truth is that the risks involved are much higher than you may realize—here’s why.

Attempting IVF after an ablation is not only difficult but also poses serious risks to both you and the baby. Because the uterus has been altered by the procedure, complications can arise even if implantation is successful.

Potential risks include:

  • Miscarriage: Pregnancy loss may occur because the uterine lining is too thin or damaged to support implantation and fetal growth.
  • Intrauterine growth restriction: The baby may not receive enough nutrients due to impaired blood flow, which can slow development.
  • Preterm birth: The risk of delivering too early increases and can result in serious health complications for the baby.
  • Placenta accrete: The placenta may attach too deeply into the uterine wall, leading to severe bleeding and complications during delivery.
  • Preeclampsia: This condition causes dangerously high blood pressure during pregnancy, posing risks to both the mother and baby.
  • Uterine rupture: If the uterus has been severely weakened by ablation, it may tear during pregnancy, creating a life-threatening emergency for both the mother and baby.

If IVF after an ablation feels like a daunting uphill battle, surrogacy may just be the answer you’ve been searching for.

Why Surrogacy After an Endometrial Ablation Is a Safer Option

If you’re considering your options after an ablation, surrogacy is often a much safer and more reliable route than IVF.

With gestational surrogacy, your embryo can be transferred to a healthy surrogate’s uterus, one that hasn’t been affected by an ablation. This means you can avoid the risks associated with a damaged uterine lining, giving you a much better chance at having a healthy pregnancy.

Unlike IVF after an ablation, which comes with a lot of complications due to a compromised uterus, surrogacy allows you to skip those worries altogether.

Surrogates go through a careful screening process to make sure they’re physically and emotionally ready for the journey. They meet certain criteria, like having a history of healthy pregnancies and undergo psychological evaluations to ensure they’re prepared for this big step.

Getting Started With the Surrogacy Process

If you’re considering surrogacy after an endometrial ablation, we’re here to help. If you already have embryos created, we can begin the matching process right away.

Our team will guide you through every step, from finding a surrogate to navigating the medical and legal aspects of the journey.

Why surrogacy makes sense:

  • Lower risk: Unlike IVF after an ablation, surrogacy eliminates the potential for miscarriage, growth restriction and other serious complications.
  • Higher success rates: With a healthy surrogate carrying the pregnancy, the likelihood of a successful outcome is much greater.
  • Faster path to parenthood: Our agency is dedicated to helping you grow your family quickly by offering fast surrogate match times. We prioritize getting you matched with a surrogate as soon as possible.

Learn more about how we ensure parenthood is right around the corner through our streamlined matching process.

Getting Started With the Surrogacy Process

If you’re considering surrogacy after an endometrial ablation, we’re here to help. If you already have embryos created, we can begin the matching process right away.

Ready to take the next step toward your family-building journey? We’re here to guide you every step of the way, from matching with the perfect surrogate to supporting you through the legal and emotional aspects. Contact us today to speak with one of our experienced surrogacy specialists.

Surrogacy for MRKH Syndrome: Having a Baby Without a Uterus

MRKH Syndrome may make natural conception impossible, but it doesn’t mean parenthood is out of reach. With our guidance, shortest wait times and fully vetted surrogates, you can take the next step toward the family you’ve been dreaming of.

Imagine being told you were born without a uterus—ruling out any chance of pregnancy. This is the reality for many with MRKH Syndrome. But what if there were ways to still experience parenthood?

Through surrogacy, adoption and even uterine transplants, many individuals with MRKH have gone on to become parents.

You don’t have to put your dreams of parenthood on hold. Reach out today and take the first step toward building your family

In this guide, we’ll break down the best options for becoming a parent, support resources and your next steps. Keep reading to discover which path to parenthood is right for you.

Can You Still Have a Baby Without a Uterus? Yes—Here’s How

Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser (MRKH) Syndrome is a congenital condition where individuals are born without a uterus or with an underdeveloped uterus, leading to Absolute Uterine Factor Infertility (AUFI).

But what if you could still have a biological child, despite MRKH Syndrome? That’s exactly what surrogacy makes possible.

Surrogacy

For individuals with MRKH Syndrome, surrogacy offers a unique opportunity to be genetically linked with your child despite being born without a uterus.

Since most people with MRKH have functional ovaries, they can produce their own eggs, allowing them to have a genetic connection to their child without the medical risks associated with a uterine transplant.

Here’s how the process works:

  1. Ovarian stimulation & egg retrieval: Hormonal medication stimulates the ovaries to produce eggs, which are then retrieved in a minor surgical procedure.
  2. Embryo creation: The retrieved eggs are fertilized with sperm in a lab to create embryos through in vitro fertilization (IVF).
  3. Matching with a surrogate: Intended parents work with a surrogacy agency to find a surrogate who meets their needs and legal requirements. Psychological and medical screenings ensure compatibility.
  4. Embryo transfer to a surrogate: Your surrogate will undergo an embryo transfer procedure, where one of your embryos is transferred to her uterus.
  5. Pregnancy and birth: If implantation is successful, the surrogate carries the pregnancy to term.

Surrogacy can be a fulfilling way to welcome your child into your life, and the surrogate is compensated for her time and effort, ensuring a fulfilling journey for all involved.

Next steps:

  1. If you have functioning ovaries, discuss egg retrieval and embryo creation through IVF with your fertility specialists. If egg retrieval isn’t an option, donor eggs are an option.
  2. Work with a fertility clinic to create embryos

If you have questions about the surrogacy process or are ready to get started, fill out our simple form today.

Adoption

Some individuals with MRKH syndrome consider adoption, but it’s important to understand the key differences.

Unlike surrogacy, adoption does not provide a biological connection to your child, and the process can be lengthy and uncertain.

Surrogacy, on the other hand, allows you to have a biological child with a controlled medical and legal process, ensuring your parenthood from the start.

Uterine Transplants

Some individuals with MRKH explore uterine transplants, but this procedure is still highly experimental and not widely available. It requires major surgery, lifelong immunosuppressants and is not covered by insurance.

For those who want a safe, proven, and reliable path to biological parenthood, surrogacy remains the most effective option.

Why Surrogacy is Life-Changing for MRKH Parents

Hearing the words “You were born without a uterus” can be life-changing. For many women with MRKH, it leads to a painful question: ‘Will I ever be a mom?’ While natural conception isn’t possible, surrogacy makes biological motherhood achievable.

Thanks to modern medical advances, women with MRKH can still have a child genetically related to them—without carrying the pregnancy themselves.”

Surrogacy isn’t just a medical solution—it’s an opportunity to experience parenthood in a deeply personal way.

Imagine seeing your child’s first ultrasound, hearing their heartbeat and being present for their birth. Surrogacy allows you to be fully involved in the pregnancy journey, even if you’re not carrying the baby yourself.

How We Can Help: Fast Matching, Financial Protection and Full Support

When choosing a surrogacy agency, you want one that prioritizes your time, your financial security, and your emotional journey. That’s exactly what we do.

  • Quick matching: We actively recruit and pre-screen surrogates, so they’re ready to match.
  • Transparent costs and financial protection: Our programs are transparent about the costs involved and and ensure your funds are safeguarded throughout the process.

Full Guidance & Support – We’re With You Every Step of the Way

Navigating surrogacy can feel overwhelming—but you’re not alone. Our experienced team is here to guide, support and advocate for you from start to finish.

Here’s how we’ll be with you at every step:

  • Matching Process: We hand-select pre-screened surrogates based on your preferences and timeline.
  • Medical Coordination: We work closely with your fertility clinic to ensure smooth embryo transfer and pregnancy monitoring.
  • Legal Protection: We connect you with experienced surrogacy attorneys to secure your parental rights.
  • Ongoing Support: You’ll have a dedicated surrogacy specialist to answer questions, address concerns, and provide updates throughout the journey.

MRKH Support Resources

A diagnosis of MRKH Syndrome can bring a wave of emotions, including grief, frustration and uncertainty about the future. If you or a loved one has been diagnosed, know that you are not alone.

 Many individuals find support in MRKH-specific online communities and in-person support groups. Therapy and counseling can also provide valuable emotional guidance as you navigate this journey.

Begin Your Parenthood Journey

You’ve waited long enough. If you’re ready to take the next step toward parenthood, our team is here to make the surrogacy process simple, secure and stress-free. Contact us today.

Affording Surrogacy: IVF Tax Write-Offs, State Tax Credits & Policy Changes in 2025

Find out how you can reduce your family-building expenses by taking advantage of potential tax deductions for surrogacy and IVF. Ensure you’re fully informed to make the most of available tax benefits.

For many intended parents, IVF is the first step toward having a child. However, not all IVF journeys lead to pregnancy, and many turn to surrogacy after spending thousands on fertility treatments. 

If you’ve already undergone IVF, you may be able to recover some of those costs through IVF tax write-offs and redirect those savings toward surrogacy.

In this guide, we’ll break down what you need to know about surrogacy and IVF tax deductions, how to claim them, and when a private letter ruling from the IRS might help.

As you transition from IVF to surrogacy, we can assist in explaining the full spectrum of expenses so you’re not caught off guard by any last-minute financial surprises. Contact us today.

The information provided in this article is intended for general informational purposes only and should not be construed as tax or financial advice. Tax laws may vary depending on your location.

Step 1: Maximize IVF Tax Deductions to Free Up Funds for Surrogacy

Yes, you can deduct IVF expenses from your taxes if they exceed 7.5% of your AGI. This means that if you’ve already invested in IVF, claiming these deductions can reduce your taxable income and increase your savings.

For example:

  • AGI: $100,000
  • 7.5% of that: $7,500
  • IVF expenses: $20,000
  • Deductible amount: $20,000-$7,500=$12,500
  • Taxable income: $100,000-$12,500=87,500

What IVF Expenses are Tax Deductible?

Beyond the core costs of IVF, there are several related medical expenses that may also qualify for deductions: eductions:

  • Fertility medications (hormone injections, ovarian stimulants)
  • Embryo cryopreservation (freezing) fees if medically necessary for future use
  • Lab and diagnostic tests (bloodwork, genetic screening)
  • Anesthesia and surgical fees for egg retrieval or embryo transfer
  • Travel and lodging expenses for medical care, if treatment requires out-of-town visits (subject to IRS limitations)

If you have embryos created, we can quickly match you with a pre-screened, highly-qualified surrogate. Become parents sooner.

Action Items:

  • Gather all IVF-related receipts and document expenses.
  • Work with a tax professional to ensure maximum deductions.
  • If IVF was unsuccessful, redirect your tax savings toward surrogacy planning.

How Much Do You Get Back in Taxes for IVF?

A tax deduction is not money you “get back” like a tax refund. Instead, it is deducted from your taxable income, reducing the amount of taxes you owe and saving you money that you can put toward building your family.

If your total itemized deductible doesn’t exceed the standard deduction, IVF tax write-offs may not be beneficial.

For the 2024 tax year, the standard deduction is $14,600 for individuals and $29,200 for married couples filing jointly. Per the above example, a married couple would save $26,700 more with the standard deduction than itemizing.
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Step 2: State Tax Credits and Insurance Mandates That Can Reduce Surrogacy Costs

While federal tax law does not allow surrogacy-specific deductions, some states offer fertility tax credits, grants, or insurance coverage that can significantly reduce out-of-pocket costs for IVF and related treatments.

Understanding which state policies apply to you can help free up funds to put toward surrogacy.

States That Offer Fertility-Related Tax Benefits & Insurance Mandates

How This Helps You Afford Surrogacy

If you live in a state that provides tax credits (NY, MD, WV), you may be able to apply those savings toward surrogacy costs.

If your employer offers insurance coverage for IVF (CA, CO, CT, HI, IL, NJ, RI), your out-of-pocket expenses may be significantly reduced. If you haven’t started IVF yet, choosing a state with fertility coverage can lower initial costs before transitioning to surrogacy.

Action Plan:

  •  Check if your state offers fertility-related tax credits or mandates insurance coverage.
  •  If applicable, apply for tax credits before beginning surrogacy.
  •  If your employer offers fertility benefits, confirm what’s covered.
  •  Plan your surrogacy budget accordingly, using these savings.

Step 3: Understand the Limits of Surrogacy Tax Deductions

Is Surrogacy Tax Deductible?

Surrogacy expenses like surrogate compensation, your surrogate’s medical bills, agency fees and legal fees are generally not tax-deductible.

However, medical expenses for IVF may qualify for tax deductions, saving you money that you can put toward your surrogacy journey.

In some cases, intended parents may request a private letter ruling from the IRS to deduct certain expenses if they can prove medical necessity. This is essentially formal permission to claim tax deductions for surrogacy expenses not addressed by tax law.

Connect with a surrogacy specialist today to learn more about what’s included in your overall surrogacy cost and the financing resources available to help make your dreams of parenthood possible.

Step 4: Keep an Eye on Federal IVF & Surrogacy Policy Changes

Trump’s IVF Executive Order & What May Come in 2025

In 2020, President Trump signed an executive order focused on improving access to fertility care for military families and federal employees.

While this order did not provide direct financial assistance, it laid the groundwork for studying how federal policies could support fertility treatments, including IVF and surrogacy.

Currently, no direct federal subsidies exist for IVF or surrogacy, but there is growing political support for expanding fertility benefits. Some experts predict that new financial assistance programs could emerge in 2025, depending on policy developments.

Action Items:

  • Stay informed about upcoming federal changes that could impact fertility funding.
  • Subscribe to updates from fertility advocacy groups and government health agencies.
  • Plan ahead with existing resources while monitoring potential policy shifts.

Final Thoughts: Combining Tax Benefits to Afford Surrogacy

If you’re transitioning from IVF to surrogacy, your best action plan is:
 Maximize IVF tax deductions to recover previous expenses.
 Leverage state tax credits & insurance mandates to reduce costs.


 Explore employer fertility benefits to see if surrogacy is covered.
 Monitor policy changes for potential future federal support.

Since every family’s path is unique, we’re here to help you understand your financial options and ensure you’re fully prepared for the journey ahead.

 Need Help Planning Your Budget? Contact us today to explore your financing options for surrogacy in 2025.

FAQ: What to Know About Surrogacy and IVF Tax Write Offs

Are Surrogacy Agency Fees Tax Deductible?

Typically, agency fees related to surrogacy are not deductible as medical expenses.

However, like other surrogacy-related costs, a private letter ruling could potentially allow for some or all of these fees to qualify as surrogacy tax deductions if deemed medically necessary.

Are Legal Fees for Surrogacy Tax Deductible?

Legal fees associated with surrogacy are generally not deductible as medical expenses. That said, a private letter ruling from the IRS could permit some of these costs to be deductible, depending on your circumstances.

Is Donor Sperm Tax Deductible?

If donor sperm is medically necessary, it may be tax-deductible. Costs typically range from $450 to $1,300 per vial.

While this expense may seem small compared to other fertility treatments, it can still contribute toward your total deductible medical expenses. You will likely need to request a private letter ruling to claim this deduction.

Are Donor Eggs Tax Deductible?

Donor eggs can be considered an IVF tax write off for surrogacy if they are medically necessary.

With donor egg costs averaging between $16,000 and $20,000 in the U.S., this can represent a significant medical expense. As with donor sperm, a private letter ruling is generally required to deduct these costs.

Is Embryo Donation Tax Deductible?

Yes, you could deduct fees for donor embryos on taxes if you can demonstrate medical necessity. Similar to donor eggs and sperm, you will likely need a private letter ruling to claim this deduction.

How Many Vials of Sperm Are Needed for IVF and Surrogacy?

Planning your family with IVF and surrogacy requires careful preparation, especially when using donor sperm.

One key decision is determining how many vials to purchase to increase your chances of success and plan for future children.

Below, we’ll break down the specifics of how many vials to purchase, what donor sperm costs and what to consider when selecting a donor.

Need help finding a fertility clinic? Fill out our contact form to get information about clinics and sperm banks who can help you complete your journey.

How Many Vials of Sperm Are Needed for IVF and Surrogacy?

Most individuals or couples using donor sperm for IVF will need about one to two vials per cycle.

A standard vial holds approximately 0.5 milliliters of sperm, with most donor sperm banks guaranteeing 10 to 20 million motile sperm per vial for IVF.

Purchasing multiple vials can be a smart strategy, especially if your embryos don’t make it to the blastocyst stage on the first attempt.

However, the exact number of vials you’ll need depends on several factors:

  • Fertilization Method: If you’re using intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), where a single sperm is injected directly into an egg, one vial is often enough. However, for conventional IVF, where sperm and eggs are combined in a lab dish, higher sperm concentration is needed, which may require more than one vial.
  • Sperm Quality: If sperm motility or count is lower than expected, your fertility specialist may recommend purchasing extra vials to improve fertilization chances.
  • Embryo Freezing Plans: If you hope to create and freeze multiple embryos for future pregnancy attempts or sibling journeys, securing additional vials from the same donor can ensure consistency and avoid the risk of donor sperm selling out.

Consulting with your fertility clinic can help determine the right number based on your family-building goals.

Can You Use IUI Sperm for IVF?

Yes, you can use donor sperm from previous IUI attempts for IVF. IUI-prepped sperm is already washed and concentrated, making it suitable for IVF.

This can save you money since you won’t need to purchase additional sperm vials for IVF.

How Many Vials of Sperm Should I Freeze?

If you’re freezing your own sperm for future IVF treatments, the general guideline is the same as purchasing donor sperm: one to two vials per cycle.

However, many individuals choose to freeze multiple vials to prepare for additional cycles or to ensure they have enough for future children.

Freezing extra sperm vials for IVF ensures you have enough for multiple attempts. Your fertility clinic can help determine how many vials to store based on your reproductive goals and overall fertility plan.

How Long Can Sperm Be Stored?

Properly stored frozen sperm can be stored indefinitely without degrading. Sperm banks use liquid nitrogen tanks to maintain cryogenic temperatures, which preserves sperm quality for decades as long as storage conditions remain stable.

However, storage fees can add up over time, so it’s important to check with your sperm bank about long-term storage costs and policies. Some facilities offer pre-paid storage packages, while others charge annual fees.

How Much Does a Vial of Sperm Cost?

The cost of a vial of sperm can range from $400 to $2,000, depending on several factors. These include:

  • Type of sperm: Sperm for home insemination may cost less than sperm prepared for a medical process like IVF.
  • Sperm bank or agency: Prices vary depending on where you purchase the sperm.
  • Donor status: Anonymous donor sperm may be more affordable than sperm from a known donor. For instance, Cryos charges more for vials with extended profiles, ID releases and adult photos.
  • Sperm motility and quality: Higher motility sperm often comes at a higher price.
  • Storage and shipping fees: Some facilities charge extra for long-term storage or expedited shipping.

If you’re planning for multiple cycles or future children, purchasing vials in bulk may offer discounts. Be sure to check with your donor sperm bank or agency about storage options and costs.

Need help budgeting for donor sperm in your surrogacy journey? Learn more about resources for affording surrogacy.

Does Insurance Cover Donor Sperm?

In most cases, insurance does not cover sperm vials for IVF. However, some plans may offer partial coverage if the sperm is needed due to moderate to severe male infertility.

It’s best to check with your insurance provider to understand your coverage and what out-of-pocket costs you may have.

How to Find a Sperm Donor

Choosing a sperm donor is an important decision. You’ll need to consider factors such as genetic history, physical traits and donor anonymity when making your selection.

Here’s how the process typically works:

  • Step 1: Decide on donor anonymity. Choose between an anonymous donor, a known donor or an open-ID donor (who allows contact when the child reaches adulthood).
  • Step 2: Browse sperm banks and agencies or find a personal donor.  Reputable sperm banks offer extensive donor profiles, including medical history and personal background. If you’re considering a personal donor, you’ll need to ensure they undergo thorough medical and genetic screening to meet fertility clinic requirements.
  • Step 3: Review donor characteristics. Consider traits like ethnicity, education and personality to find the best match. There’s no guarantee that your child will have specific traits, but it may be important to you to share some characteristics.
  • Step 4: Check medical screening results. Donors undergo genetic and infectious disease screening to ensure health and safety.
  • Step 5: Purchase and store sperm. Once you select a donor, you will need to purchase and store the necessary sperm vials for IVF.

How Does Shipping Donor Sperm Work?

Once you’ve chosen a sperm donor, the sperm must be shipped to your fertility clinic. Sperm banks use cryogenic shipping containers, which keep the vials frozen at extremely low temperatures. These containers are designed to maintain sperm viability throughout transit.

You’ll need to coordinate with your clinic to ensure they receive the shipment on time.

You may want to look for a “sperm donor bank near me with expedited shipping,” otherwise you’ll need to provide advance notice and schedule a delivery.

Be sure to confirm shipping costs and timelines with your provider before placing an order.

Moving Forward With IVF and Surrogacy

Knowing how many sperm vials you’ll need for IVF and surrogacy can help you plan and make informed choices. Whether you’re purchasing donor sperm or freezing your own, having a clear strategy ensures a smoother fertility journey.

If you’re ready to move forward with your surrogacy journey, we can help you find a sperm bank and get started while you create your embryos. Contact us today.

Why You Should Consider Surrogacy Instead of IUI After Failed IVF

If you’ve experienced a failed IVF cycle, you may be wondering if IUI is a viable next step. While IUI is less invasive and more affordable, its success rates are typically lower, especially for those with fertility challenges that IVF couldn’t overcome. That’s where surrogacy comes in.

While IUI after failed IVF is not the usual approach, some hopeful parents consider it due to cost, having never tried IUI or wanting to give it another shot.

Before deciding on IUI, understanding success rates, your medical history and alternative options could help you make an informed decision that saves time, money and emotional strain.

Below, we’ll explore the success rates of IUI and IVF and discuss alternative family-building options like surrogacy.

 If you’d like personalized guidance, our fertility specialists are here to help.

Not sure if you want to try another IVF cycle? Check out our easy-to-follow guide to when it may be time to consider other options.

Can IUI Work After Failed IVF?

IUI after failed IVF is typically not recommended because success rates for IUI are generally lower than those of IVF.

IVF is usually recommended after less invasive options like IUI fail or if there are fertility issues that IUI cannot overcome. This is because IUI is less controlled than IVF and relies on natural fertilization after sperm is injected into the uterus, whereas IVF involves fertilization in a lab, allowing for better embryo selection before implantation.

However, some intended parents consider IUI after failed IVF due to cost, having never tried IUI before or wanting to give it another shot. If you’re wondering whether IUI is a viable next step, it’s important to understand the factors that may influence its success.

IUI Success After Failed IVF: What Do the Numbers Say?

Fertility specialists don’t usually recommend doing IUI after failed IVF because IVF has a much higher success rate. If you’ve already gone through IVF without success, it’s usually due to underlying infertility factors that may also reduce the chances of IUI working.

To understand why IUI may not be the best option, here are the success rates of different procedures:

Ultimately, your likelihood of IUI success after failed IVF depends on your individual medical circumstances. Some people have been able to conceive with IUI after failed IVF, but the chances are lower.

If you’re feeling discouraged, know that there are still paths to parenthood that may offer a greater chance of success. Learn more about your options after failed IVF.

When Going Back to IUI After Failed IVF May Not Be Successful

Although some parents consider IUI after failed IVF, there are several reasons why it may not be the best course of action:

  • Tubal or uterine issues: If fallopian tube blockages, endometriosis or uterine issues contributed to IVF failure, IUI will not address these medical concerns.
  • Age-related infertility: As maternal age increases, egg quality and ovarian reserve decrease, making IVF the more effective option compared to IUI.
  • Multiple IUI failures in the past: If prior IUI cycles were unsuccessful before moving to IVF, the likelihood of IUI working after failed IVF is even lower.

Understanding these factors can help you decide if IUI is a viable next step or if alternative options may offer a higher chance of success.

When IUI After IVF May Be Worth Considering

While IUI after IVF is not typically recommended, there are a few situations where it may be considered:

  • Unexplained infertility: If IVF was attempted without a clear diagnosis of infertility, and there are no known egg, sperm, or uterine issues, IUI may still be a viable option.
  • Different medication protocols: If your IVF cycle used a particular stimulation protocol that didn’t work well for you, trying IUI with a different medication regimen could yield better results.
  • Cost considerations: For couples who cannot afford another round of IVF, a few cycles of IUI may be a lower-cost alternative before pursuing other options.

It’s important to discuss these factors with your fertility specialist to determine whether IUI is a reasonable next step based on your medical history and fertility goals.

Alternatives to Doing IUI After Failed IVF

Going through IVF is a huge emotional and financial commitment, and after a failed cycle, it makes sense to want a more affordable option. IUI might seem like a way to cut costs, but unsuccessful cycles can add up quickly, both financially and emotionally.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about what to do next, it may be time to explore other paths to parenthood.

Many fertility specialists recommend exploring options that offer a higher chance of success, such as:

  • Donor eggs: If poor egg quality contributed to failed IVF, using donor eggs can significantly improve your chances of a successful pregnancy. You can choose an egg donor who fits your preferred characteristics, and your partner’s sperm (or donor sperm) is used to create embryos.
  • Donor embryos: Some hopeful parents turn to donated embryos, which means you won’t have to go through another round of egg retrieval. This can be a more affordable option for those open to using an embryo that isn’t genetically related to them.
  • Gestational surrogacy: If carrying a pregnancy is no longer an option, surrogacy allows you to have a biological child using your own embryo. With a healthy surrogate, your embryo has a better chance of implantation and a successful pregnancy.

Before diving into IUI after failed IVF, consider talking to your doctor about the factors contributing to your unsuccessful IVF cycles. Check out our guide to questions to ask your doctor after failed IVF.

Why Choose Surrogacy After Failed IVF

If you already have viable embryos from IVF, surrogacy could be your best next step. Rather than going back to IUI after failed IVF, you can begin the process of finding a surrogate who can help bring your dream of parenthood to life.

With a healthy surrogate, your chances of a successful pregnancy are significantly improved. Research shows that gestational carriers have higher rates of live births compared to IUI or traditional IVF cycles.

 If failed IVF resulted from uterine issues or maternal health conditions, surrogacy bypasses these challenges by ensuring the embryo is carried by someone with a proven ability to sustain a healthy pregnancy.

At our agency, all surrogates must meet strict health requirements, including thorough medical and psychological screenings, as well as a history of at least one successful pregnancy. This helps maximize the chances of a successful surrogacy journey.

How Surrogacy Can Be Your Path Forward

Surrogacy offers more than just success where IVF may have failed. Here’s how:

  • Maintaining a genetic connection: If you use your own egg and sperm, your child will still have a genetic link to you.
  • Cost considerations: While surrogacy involves a greater upfront cost than IUI, it can prevent multiple failed treatments that cause more financial and emotional strain over time.
  • Staying involved: Intended parents are involved throughout the surrogacy process, from selecting their surrogate to attending key milestones like ultrasounds and birth.

If you already have viable embryos from IVF, surrogacy could be your best next step. Rather than going back to IUI after failed IVF, you can begin the process of finding a surrogate who can help bring your dream of parenthood to life.

We understand how difficult it is to navigate infertility challenges, but you don’t have to do it alone. Contact one of our surrogacy specialists to explore your options and take the next step toward growing your family.