Whether you are thinking about adding to your family through surrogacy or have already started this amazing family-building journey, these articles are for you.
You can pursue surrogacy even if your state has restrictions—agencies help coordinate safe, legal journeys across state lines.
Even if surrogacy isn’t allowed where you live, you can still grow your family by working with a surrogate in another state.
With the help of an experienced agency, the legal process, medical coordination, and emotional support are all handled for you, no matter where you live.
Ready to explore your options? Fill out our simple formto take the first step toward matching with a surrogate quickly.
Yes, You Can Work with a Surrogate in Another State
Living in a state with restrictive or unclear surrogacy laws doesn’t mean you can’t grow your family through surrogacy.
Surrogacy agencies like ours work with surrogates across the country and help intended parents find a match in a state where surrogacy is permitted and legally supported.
When surrogacy takes place across state lines, each party will have their own attorney familiar with the surrogacy laws in their respective states. This helps ensure everyone’s rights and responsibilities are clearly defined and protected throughout the process.
With the right legal guidance and agency support, working with a surrogate in another state can be a smooth and secure experience.
In What States is Surrogacy Illegal or Restricted?
Knowing which states make surrogacy difficult helps you understand why finding an out of state surrogate might be your best move.
There are a few states that either ban or restrict compensated surrogacy:
States Where Surrogacy is Banned
Louisiana is the on only state the legally bans compensated surrogacy. Entering into a paid surrogacy contract can result in criminal penalties.
Because of this, we do not work with surrogates in Louisiana, but we can match you with surrogates in a surrogacy-friendly state.
States That are Not Surrogacy-Friendly
In some states, surrogacy is not illegal, but compensated surrogacy contracts are void and enforceable.
Nebraska: Due to Nebraska’s complex surrogacy laws, we don’t work with surrogates in this state.
Arizona and Indiana: We do not match surrogates and intended parents in these states with each other.
For intended parents in these states, we usually match you with surrogates in states that allow compensated surrogacy where your rights are protected from day one.
If you’re in any of these states, finding a surrogate in another state isn’t just an option, it’s often the smartest path forward.
How We Can Help You Find a Surrogate in Another State
Connecting intended parents with qualified
surrogates is what agencies do—and it matters even more when you’re looking
across state lines.
We have a nationwide network of pre-screened
surrogates in surrogacy-friendly states. You won’t have to figure out how
to find a surrogate on your own in a different state with different laws.
Here’s what we offer:
Personalized matching: We take the time to understand your values, background, and family goals, then match you with a surrogate who truly aligns with your preferences.
Comprehensive screening: Every surrogate in our program has already completed medical, psychological, and background evaluations, so you can move forward with confidence.
Full coordination and support: From clinic communication to legal steps and surrogate compensation, our team helps manage every part of the process to keep your journey organized and stress-free.
What if the most important decision you make this year started with just one conversation? Contact us online and see how we can match you with the right surrogate.
Best States for Surrogacy (and Why They Matter)
Not every state approaches surrogacy the same way. While surrogacy is permitted in most states, some have clearer laws that outline the rights and responsibilities of everyone involved.
These include:
California: Widely considered the national standard for surrogacy. Allows pre-birth orders, recognizes all types of parents (including LGBTQ+ couples and single parents), and has long-standing laws that support surrogacy.
Illinois: Offers strong legal protections. Parents can obtain pre-birth orders, and parentage is recognized even when there’s no genetic connection to the child.
Nevada, Colorado, and Washington: Known for clear, inclusive surrogacy laws and straightforward legal processes that protect everyone involved.
When your surrogate lives in a state with well-defined surrogacy laws, the legal process tends to be more predictable and your parental rights are better protected.
You’ll also work with attorneys familiar with that state’s system, and in many cases, you can secure legal parentage before your baby is born — offering valuable peace of mind.
How the Legal Process Works Across State Lines
One of the biggest questions people have about working with an out of state surrogate is: how does the legal side even work?
You’ll work with attorneys experienced in surrogacy law to create a contract that reflects everyone’s rights and responsibilities.
In many surrogacy-friendly states, the legal process includes a court order (often called a parentage order) that establishes you as the baby’s legal parents — sometimes even before birth.
Your surrogacy specialist and attorney will coordinate with professionals in both states to make sure the process complies with all applicable laws and that your parental rights are properly recognized.
Bottom line: Even if your home state’s surrogacy laws are restrictive or unclear, it’s often possible to move forward safely by working with qualified professionals who understand interstate surrogacy.
Why Working with an Agency Matters Even More in This Situation
Surrogacy is complicated—medical coordination,
legal contracts, finances, emotional support. Add in crossing state lines and
it gets even more complex. That’s why working
with an experienced agency is so valuable.
Here’s what we do:
Fast
matching: We can help you find a qualified surrogate
in another state in just a few months instead of you spending
years searching alone.
Legal
help: We connect you with lawyers who specialize in your surrogate’s state
laws, so your contracts work and your rights are protected.
Financial
protection: Our escrow services and transparent processes protect both you
and your surrogate.
Day-to-day
coordination: From medical appointments to keeping communication flowing,
we handle the logistics that can get overwhelming when you’re managing
everything across state lines.
Peace of
mind: Our team has helped thousands of families in your exact situation.
Next Steps: Find an Out-of-State Surrogate Today
If surrogacy isn’t legal where you live, you have options, and they’re more doable than you might think.
Working with a surrogate in another state is a real path to parenthood for people living in states with tough surrogacy laws. Your dream of becoming parents doesn’t have to wait.
Surrogacy costs what it does for a reason. Learn how to invest smartly, avoid risky “cheap” options, and protect your journey and budget.
There are ways to spend less on surrogacy—but here’s the thing: cutting corners on the important stuff can actually put your whole journey at risk.
The real trick isn’t finding the cheapest option out
there. It’s knowing where to invest smartly so you don’t waste time, money, or
your peace of mind.
Speak with a
specialist who can show you the smartest path forward—not just the cheapest
one.
Let’s talk about what surrogacy actually costs, the sneaky expenses that come with “bargain” options, and how the right financing can make this way more doable than you think.
Are There Cheaper Ways
to Do Surrogacy?
Sure, there are cheaper ways to do surrogacy. But cheaper doesn’t always mean better—or even less expensive when everything’s said and done.
Surrogacy costs what it does for a reason. Every
dollar goes toward things that actually matter: making sure your surrogate
is healthy and ready, protecting you legally, keeping everything organized, and
supporting you through what’s honestly one of the most complicated things
you’ll ever do.
When you see agencies advertising way lower prices, it usually means they’ve cut out some of these services.
That might save you money at first, but it often leads to longer waits, matches that fall through, surprise legal bills, or medical issues—and all of that ends up costing you more than what you saved.
So the real question isn’t “How do I make surrogacy cheaper?” It’s “How do I do this smartly so I don’t end up paying twice?”
The Real Costs You Can’t Cut — and Why They Matter
IVF and
Creating Embryos: You need IVF to create embryos for gestational surrogacy.
This includes medications, egg retrieval, sperm collection (or donor sperm),
and transferring embryos to your surrogate.
Egg or
Sperm Donation (If You Need It): If you’re using donor eggs or sperm,
you’ll pay for donor compensation, medical screening, and the legal paperwork.
Paying
Your Surrogate: Your surrogate deserves fair compensation for carrying your
baby, plus all her pregnancy-related medical care, maternity clothes, travel to
appointments, and lost wages if complications come up.
Legal
Fees: You absolutely need a lawyer to write up contracts, establish your
parental rights, and handle your state’s specific laws. Skip this and you could
end up in a custody nightmare.
Insurance:
Your surrogate needs insurance that covers surrogacy. Pregnancy complications
can get expensive fast, and without the right coverage, you could be on the
hook for hundreds of thousands of dollars.
Travel and
Baby Costs: You’ll travel for the birth and might need to stay for weeks
while you establish parental rights. Plus, you need all the newborn basics—car
seat, clothes, doctor visits.
These aren’t extras. They’re the foundation. Trying
to save money here can mess up your whole journey.
Why “Cheaper” Surrogacy Can End Up Costing More
Lower prices look great when you’re already stressed
about money. But “affordable” surrogacy usually comes with costs that
pop up later—sometimes when it’s too late to fix them.
Here’s what you’re really risking:
Why Low-Cost Surrogacy Agencies Can Cost You More
Some agencies advertise “no upfront costs”
or super low fees. Sounds great, right? Until you realize what you’re not
getting.
When that match fails, you start over. You pay for marketing, screening, and legal work all over again.
Many low cost surrogacy agency options also give you minimal support, so you’re mostly on your own coordinating appointments, legal stuff, and communication.
Then there are the surprise fees. Some agencies don’t tell you about certain costs upfront.
Suddenly you’re hit with legal bills, insurance
gaps, or surrogate expenses that weren’t in your original contract. What looked
cheap at the start ends up costing more—plus you’ve lost months of time.
Surrogacy Without an Agency: How the Costs Add Up
Going independent—doing it yourself—can seem like a money-saver. If you already know someone who’ll carry your baby, why pay an agency?
Here’s why:
DIY surrogacy removes
all the safety nets. Without professional screening, you don’t really know
if your surrogate is ready.
Without legal help from day one, you’re wide open to
custody fights or money disputes. And without case management, you’re juggling
every appointment, legal step, and insurance detail yourself.
Independent surrogacy usually takes way longer
because you don’t have an agency’s marketing and matching help. A lot of
intended parents spend months—even years—trying to find and vet someone on
their own.
If you do have a surrogate already, we can help. Our
independent surrogacy program lets you bring her in and we’ll handle
screening, legal support, and case management. We even do a free initial
screening to make sure your match is set up right.
What You Actually Get When You Invest in a Full-Service Agency
When you work with a full-service agency, you’re not just paying for a service, you’re paying for a whole system that makes your journey safer, faster, and way more likely to succeed.
Here’s what you’re really getting:
Surrogate
Screening: Good
agencies screen thoroughly—medical history, psychological readiness,
finances, legal stuff—before a surrogate even gets to you. This cuts down on
failed matches, medical problems, and legal drama.
Finding
Your Match: Finding a qualified surrogate takes time and know-how. Agencies
recruit, vet, and present matches based on what you want and need—something
you’d have to do totally alone otherwise.
Legal
Protection: Professional legal teams write contracts, establish your
parental rights, and handle your state’s laws. This isn’t just paperwork. It’s
what keeps you safe from custody battles and financial fights.
Case
Management: Someone coordinates medical appointments, manages surrogate
expenses, and fixes problems when they come up. They’re your advocates and
guides through every step.
These aren’t “extras.” They’re what makes the difference between a smooth journey and one full of expensive delays and heartbreak.
How Full-Service Agencies Protect Your Finances
The right agency doesn’t just spend your money—they
protect it.
At American Surrogacy, we screen every surrogate hard before we ever introduce her to you.
That means you’re only matching with people who’ve already passed medical, psychological, and legal checks. Fewer failed matches mean fewer do-overs.
Fewer do-overs mean you’re not paying twice.
Our Limited Risk Program gives you financial protection. If a match falls through for covered reasons, we’ll match you again at no extra cost. That eliminates one of the scariest parts: starting over and losing everything you already paid.
Think about it this way—you’re not just paying for a
surrogate. You’re paying for confidence that your journey won’t blow up halfway
through.
Surrogacy Financing Options that Support Your Budget
Fertility Loans: We partner with Sunfish, a company that does loans specifically for surrogacy and IVF. They offer payment plans based on your situation.
Grants: Some organizations give grants to intended parents pursuing surrogacy. You don’t have to pay these back.
Employer Benefits: More companies are covering fertility stuff, including surrogacy. Check with HR.
Personal Loans: Some families use personal loans or credit lines for upfront costs, then pay them back over time.
401(k) Money: If you have retirement savings, you might be able to borrow from your 401(k) or take a hardship withdrawal.
Make Surrogacy Secure and Successful with American Surrogacy’s Full-Service
Approach
There are always cheaper ways to do surrogacy—but the real value comes from doing it safely and confidently. With American Surrogacy, your investment goes toward protection, not risk.
Learn why surrogates typically get pregnant within 1-3 transfers and how American Surrogacy’s screening process maximizes success rates.
Most surrogates get pregnant within 1-3 embryo transfers. Many
achieve success on the first attempt.
If you’ve been through multiple IVF failures, this news
probably feels too good to be true. But here’s what’s different: surrogacy
bypasses many of the issues that made your IVF attempts unsuccessful.
At American Surrogacy, our thoroughly screened surrogates
and comprehensive support give your embryos the best possible environment to
succeed. You can finally move forward knowing each transfer has genuine
potential to work.
Contact us today to learn how our screening process maximizes your chances and gets you matched with a surrogate in 1 - 4 months.
How Many Embryo Transfers Does It Take for a Surrogate to Get Pregnant?
Most surrogates become pregnant within 1–3 embryo transfers, and many succeed on the very first attempt.
That’s because surrogates are thoroughly screened for proven fertility and optimal uterine health, giving your embryos the best possible environment to succeed.
Surrogate Embryo Transfer Success Rates: What You Can Actually Expect
Here’s the encouraging news: your odds get better with each
transfer. Families with three genetically tested embryos have about a 95%
chance of achieving pregnancy.
Most intended parents don’t need three transfers. Because
our surrogates are so thoroughly screened, many families succeed on their first
or second attempt.
Why Surrogacy Success Rates Stay High
You’re working with someone whose body has already proven it can achieve and maintain pregnancy, traditional IVF often requires multiple attempts, while surrogacy typically succeeds faster.
How Many Embryos Do You Actually Need?
You don’t need a huge stockpile of embryos to succeed with
surrogacy.
Three Embryos Give You Excellent Odds
While there’s no strict requirement, having three quality
embryos gives you strong assurance of success. This accounts for the reality
that not every embryo will result in pregnancy, even under optimal conditions.
With three embryos and surrogacy’s higher success rates,
your chances of achieving pregnancy are excellent.
Options When You Have Fewer Embryos
If you have fewer than three embryos, you still have several
paths forward:
Create additional embryos through another IVF
cycle before starting surrogacy
Use donor embryos for your surrogacy journey
Consider double donor IVF to create fresh
embryos
Our team helps you evaluate which approach makes the most sense for your situation and timeline. Our embryo planning guide walks you through these options.
Only One Embryo Left? How American Surrogacy Supports You
Most agencies won’t work with families who have just one
embryo. We do.
We understand the emotional weight of feeling like this
might be your “last chance.” Your single embryo deserves the absolute
best opportunity for success.
Enhanced Support for Single-Embryo
Families
When you have one
embryo, every detail matters more. We provide additional surrogate
screening, optimized medical protocols, and intensified emotional support
throughout your journey.
Our experience with single-embryo transfers helps us maximize success even when you have limited resources.
We understand the emotional and financial pressure that comes with having one embryo left, which is why we offer unique safeguards through our Limited Risk Program.
If any of the following happens, we apply your fees to your
next match:
If the surrogate is no longer eligible for
medical reasons
Surrogate is not approved by your fertility
clinic
Unforeseen personal circumstances that cause the
surrogate to back out
If you’re facing this situation, contact us today to speak with someone who understands exactly what you’re going through.
What Actually Determines If a Surrogate Gets Pregnant?
The success of your embryo transfer depends on factors you can finally
control through surrogacy.
Your Surrogate’s Proven Track Record
Every surrogate we work with has successfully carried
pregnancies before. Their bodies have already proven they can get pregnant,
stay pregnant, and deliver healthy babies.
This is completely different from using your own body after
multiple IVF failures. You’re working with someone whose reproductive system
works exactly as it should.
A Uterine Environment That Works
Your surrogate’s uterus is optimally prepared for pregnancy.
Her hormone levels, uterine lining, and overall reproductive health create the
ideal conditions for your embryo to implant and thrive.
No more wondering if your uterine lining is thick enough or
if your hormone levels are preventing implantation.
The Same Quality Embryos, Better
Environment
Your embryos aren’t the problem. Leading fertility clinics
use advanced techniques to assess and prepare embryos for transfer, giving each
one the best chance of success.
The difference is where they’re being transferred. Your
healthy embryos finally get the healthy environment they need.
What Happens When the First Transfer Doesn’t Work?
First transfers don’t always succeed, and that’s completely
normal. Here’s what happens next.
An unsuccessful first transfer doesn’t mean failure. It’s
part of the natural process, and successful pregnancy often happens on the
second attempt.
Your surrogate remains ready for pregnancy, unlike
situations where you might need months of recovery between IVF cycles.
Getting the Emotional Support You Need
An unsuccessful transfer can bring disappointment, but the difference with surrogacy is having a support system designed specifically for your journey.
Unlike going through IVF alone, surrogacy connects you with professionals who understand fertility challenges and can help you process each step.
What makes surrogacy support different:
Professional counselors who specialize in
fertility treatments understand that each transfer carries emotional investment
and provide practical coping strategies
Support groups connect you with other intended
parents who’ve walked this path, sharing stories of success after multiple
transfers
Experienced agencies acknowledge the emotional
aspects while helping you stay focused on your goal, treating you as a whole
person rather than just a medical case
Ongoing guidance throughout the process so
you’re never navigating this experience in isolation
Having this comprehensive support network helps you maintain
perspective and makes the entire experience more manageable, regardless of how
many transfers your journey requires.
Quick Turnaround for Your Next Attempt
If you have additional frozen embryos, your next transfer
can usually be scheduled quickly. You don’t need extended recovery time, and
you can move forward when you’re emotionally and physically ready.
Fertility specialists may make small adjustments to
protocols, but often the second transfer succeeds simply because the process
has been optimized.
Why Surrogacy Works When IVF Doesn’t
Surrogacy solves the specific problems that made your IVF
attempts unsuccessful.
Bypassing Your Body’s Challenges
Many IVF failures happen because of uterine factors, implantation issues, or reproductive health problems that persist despite medical intervention.
Surrogacy completely solves these challenges. You’re working with a surrogate who has a track record of successful pregnancies.
Better Medical Oversight
Surrogacy involves enhanced medical monitoring specifically
designed for surrogate transfers. Every aspect of the process is optimized for
success.
The screening process ensures you work with someone whose
body provides the ideal environment for implantation and development. This goes
far beyond what’s possible when using your own body after multiple IVF
failures.
Proven Results
Research
consistently shows that embryo transfers with surrogates have higher
success rates than traditional IVF, especially for intended parents who’ve experienced
multiple failures.
This isn’t just hope. It’s medical reality backed by data
and experience.
How American Surrogacy Supports You Through Each Transfer
Your success is our primary focus. We’ve developed support
systems that maximize your chances with each attempt.
Before Your Transfer
We coordinate closely with your fertility clinic to ensure
perfect timing and preparation. Every detail gets reviewed: your surrogate’s
readiness, medication protocols, and legal protections.
You have direct access to our support team throughout the
entire process. We manage communication between you, your surrogate, and the
medical team so everyone stays informed and supported.
We maintain close contact during those crucial two weeks
after transfer. We coordinate follow-up appointments, manage communication
about results, and provide emotional support regardless of the outcome.
Financial Protection That Actually
Protects You
We offer financial protection that reduces your risk if
transfers don’t succeed as planned. Our programs include guarantees like
unlimited matching with new surrogates and refunds if pregnancy isn’t achieved
within certain timeframes.
Our different
program structures offer varying levels of support and financial security.
Some include multiple transfer attempts in the base cost, while others offer
insurance-style protection against unsuccessful outcomes.
We also work with families to explore payment
options like installment plans and fertility-specific loans to spread costs
over time. Understanding the full picture upfront helps you choose the
protection level that makes sense for your situation.
We’re With You Until You Bring Your Baby
Home
Whether you succeed on your first transfer or need multiple
attempts, we’re committed to supporting you throughout the entire journey. We
offer both full-service
and independent program options to meet your specific needs.
For families concerned about costs, we partner with Sunfish to
provide financing solutions and help you understand total costs upfront.
Contact our team today to speak with a surrogacy specialist who can provide personalized guidance for your situation.
You’ve already proven your dedication to becoming parents.
Now let us help you find the path that finally leads to your baby.
Even strong embryos may fail in IVF. Discover hidden reasons why and how surrogacy can provide renewed hope for your path to parenthood.
After multiple IVF cycles, you’ve heard all the hopeful
phrases. “These embryos look promising.” “Your numbers are good
this time.” “We’re optimistic about this transfer.”
You might be wondering: if the embryos are supposedly fine,
why isn’t this working?
You’re not alone in asking this question. Even with
high-quality embryos, IVF can fail for reasons that have nothing to do with the
embryos themselves. Understanding why can help you make informed decisions
about your next steps, including whether surrogacy might offer the path to
parenthood you’ve been searching for.
We’re here to help you understand what might be happening and explore how surrogacy after failed IVF can offer renewed hope. Contact us today to speak with a specialist about your options.
Why Does IVF Fail Even With Good Embryos?
When fertility specialists talk about “good”
embryos, they’re typically referring to embryos that look healthy under a
microscope and may have passed genetic testing. But how an embryo looks represents
only one piece of a complex puzzle.
The frustration you’re feeling is completely understandable.
When you’ve invested so much hope, time, and resources into creating these
embryos, it can be heartbreaking to learn that other factors may be preventing
success.
IVF success depends on many different things working
together perfectly:
How healthy the embryo is
Whether your uterus is ready to accept it
Your hormone levels
Countless other factors that happen inside your
body
Even if an embryo appears perfect in the lab, it still needs
the right environment to attach, get a blood supply, and continue growing.
Many intended parents don’t realize that repeated implantation failure affects up to 10% of couples undergoing IVF. You may feel isolated in your experience, but medical professionals regularly see cases where excellent embryos fail to implant despite multiple attempts.
“Good Embryos”
in IVF: What That Really Means And Why It’s Not the Whole Story
When lab specialists evaluate embryos, they assess various
factors to determine quality grades. These evaluations help determine which
embryos are most likely to result in successful pregnancy.
However, even embryos that appear perfect under the
microscope and pass genetic screening may not result in pregnancy. Current
assessment methods examine only what’s visible or testable with today’s
technology.
Many factors that affect embryo success remain invisible to
current testing methods. Even the most sophisticated genetic screening examines
only a small sample of cells, which may not represent the entire embryo.
This is why even embryos that receive excellent grades and
pass all available testing may not result in pregnancy. The assessment tools we
have today, while helpful, don’t capture every aspect of what makes an embryo
successful.
Uterine Factors That Can Undermine IVF Success
When high-quality embryos repeatedly fail to implant, the
focus often shifts to your uterine environment. Your uterine lining must be
perfectly timed and ready for the embryo to attach.
Endometrial Receptivity Issues
There’s a narrow window when your uterine lining is ready to
accept an embryo. If this timing is off by even a day or two, implantation may
fail. Some women have different timing that doesn’t match standard IVF
protocols.
Structural
abnormalities include:
Uterine fibroids
Polyps
A condition called adenomyosis
Uterine shape differences you were born with
These conditions can interfere with implantation or early
pregnancy development. Even small fibroids or polyps that don’t cause symptoms
in daily life can significantly impact IVF success rates.
Chronic Endometritis
Low-grade inflammation of the uterine lining often goes
unnoticed because it doesn’t cause obvious symptoms. However, it can create an
environment that’s hostile to implantation. Studies suggest this affects 15-25%
of women with repeated implantation failure.
Blood Flow and Vascular Issues
Good blood flow to the uterine lining is essential for
supporting an implanting embryo. Conditions affecting blood flow to the uterus,
including certain autoimmune conditions or clotting disorders, can prevent
successful implantation even with perfect embryos.
Hormonal Imbalances
Subtle hormone issues that don’t prevent embryo development
in the lab can still interfere with the complex hormone coordination required
for implantation and early pregnancy.
Beyond the Lab: The Immune and Genetic Reasons IVF Fails Again and Again
Reproductive
immunology is an emerging field that explores how your immune system might
be preventing pregnancy. Think of your immune system as your body’s security
team. During pregnancy, it faces a unique challenge.
Your immune system needs to:
Welcome and protect the embryo (which is
genetically half from your partner)
Continue fighting off infections and other
threats
When this delicate balance goes wrong, it can prevent
embryos from implanting or cause early pregnancy loss.
HLA
Compatibility: Sometimes partners can be too genetically
similar in certain ways, which can prevent successful pregnancy. This is rare
but may require special treatment approaches.
Thrombophilia:
Mild blood clotting problems that don’t affect your daily life can prevent
proper blood flow during early pregnancy, causing implantation to fail.
Complement
System Dysfunction: Your immune system might be working too
hard during pregnancy attempts, inadvertently attacking the developing
pregnancy.
Many doctors don’t routinely test for these immune-related
issues during fertility evaluations. They may explain why some couples
experience repeated failures despite having good embryos and no obvious fertility problems.
Issues that are often missed include:
Overactive immune cells in the uterus
Hidden autoimmune problems
Mild blood clotting tendencies
Immune system imbalances
When To Stop Trying IVF and Start Considering Surrogacy
Deciding when to transition from IVF to surrogacy is deeply
personal, but certain medical and emotional signs can help guide this difficult
decision. Remember, considering surrogacy isn’t giving up. It’s opening a door
to new possibilities.
Medical Indicators
Most fertility specialists suggest considering other
approaches after 3-4
failed transfers with good-quality embryos, particularly if you’ve
experienced repeated implantation failure. If comprehensive testing has
revealed uterine problems that can’t be successfully treated, or if multiple
interventions haven’t improved outcomes, surrogacy may offer better chances of
success.
When Embryo Quality Isn’t the Issue
If you’re consistently producing good embryos but experiencing implantation
failure, this often indicates that your embryos are healthy but your uterine
environment may not be optimal for pregnancy.
Take heart in knowing that this is actually an ideal
situation for surrogacy, where your genetic material can be carried by someone
with a proven ability to achieve and maintain pregnancy.
Emotional Readiness
The
emotional toll of repeated IVF attempts can’t be underestimated. When the
physical and emotional stress of continued attempts begins outweighing the
potential benefits, it may be time to explore surrogacy as a path that offers
renewed hope and energy for your family-building journey.
What Surrogacy Is
Surrogacy uses your own eggs and your partner’s sperm (or
donor sperm) to create embryos through IVF, then transfers those embryos to a
woman who will carry the pregnancy for you. The baby is 100% genetically yours.
The surrogate provides only the uterine environment.
Can I Use Embryos from Previous IVF Cycles
in Surrogacy?
Yes, in most cases, frozen embryos from previous IVF cycles
can be used in surrogacy. This means your IVF investment hasn’t been lost. It
becomes the foundation for your surrogacy journey. Your previous efforts
weren’t in vain.
Benefits of using existing embryos:
No additional egg retrieval cycles needed
Faster timeline to transfer
Lower overall treatment costs
Familiar genetic material
Your existing embryos can be thawed and transferred to your
surrogate, potentially saving you from additional egg retrieval cycles and
allowing you to move forward more quickly.
The process of using frozen embryos in surrogacy is
typically straightforward. Your fertility clinic will coordinate with your
surrogacy agency to ensure proper handling and transfer of your embryos to the
clinic where your surrogate will receive care.
How Surrogacy Bypasses Uterine Challenges
and Restores Hope
Surrogacy can get around virtually all uterine-related
causes of IVF failure. When your embryos are transferred to a surrogate who has
been thoroughly screened for optimal uterine health, you eliminate concerns
about:
Timing issues with your uterine lining
Physical problems in your uterus
Hidden inflammation or infection
Blood flow problems
Immune dysfunction specific to your uterine
environment
Surrogate
screening advantages:
Proven track record of successful pregnancies
Optimal reproductive health confirmed
More extensive evaluation than typical fertility
patients
What Happens When You Pursue Surrogacy: A Step-By-Step Look
Understanding the surrogacy process can help demystify this
path and show you how achievable parenthood through surrogacy can be.
Step 1: Initial Consultation
Your journey begins with a comprehensive consultation where
you’ll discuss your fertility history, previous IVF attempts, and goals for
surrogacy. This is your opportunity to ask questions, understand timelines, and
learn about different program options that might fit your needs.
Step 2: Matching Process
Once you’re ready to move forward, you’ll be presented with
profiles of potential surrogates who match your preferences and medical
requirements. Our surrogate
screening process ensures you’ll only see candidates who have been
thoroughly vetted medically, psychologically, and legally.
Step 3: Legal Process
After you’ve connected with a surrogate and decided to move
forward together, legal contracts are created to protect everyone involved.
These contracts cover medical decisions, financial arrangements, communication
expectations, and all other aspects of your journey together.
Step 4: Medical Coordination
Your fertility clinic will coordinate with your surrogate’s
medical care to prepare for embryo transfer. This includes timing cycles,
preparing the surrogate’s uterus, and scheduling the transfer procedure.
Step 5: Transfer and Pregnancy
Embryo transfer to your surrogate follows the same basic
process as IVF transfer, but with the advantage of a uterine environment that’s
been proven capable of achieving and maintaining pregnancy. Throughout the
pregnancy, you’ll have the opportunity to be as involved as you want to be
while your surrogate carries your genetic child.
Step 6: Birth and Beyond
When your baby is born, legal processes ensure you’re
recognized as the legal parents from the moment of birth. Most intended parents
find the experience of meeting their child for the first time incredibly
emotional and rewarding after their journey to parenthood.
Why Intended Parents Trust American Surrogacy After IVF Failure
When you’ve experienced the heartbreak of failed IVF cycles,
choosing the right surrogacy agency becomes essential for rebuilding confidence
in your path to parenthood.
Short Wait Times
We understand that time feels critical after IVF setbacks. Our process for becoming parents faster typically allows intended parents to be matched with a pre-screened surrogate in an average of months rather than years. We maintain relationships with surrogates across the country, giving you options and reducing wait times.
Thoroughly Screened Surrogates
Our comprehensive
surrogate screening goes far beyond basic health checks. We evaluate
medical history, psychological readiness, social support, lifestyle factors,
and motivation. You’ll only be presented with candidates who have demonstrated
the commitment and capability to help you succeed.
Financial Protection Through Our Limited
Risk Program
After investing significantly in IVF attempts, financial protection becomes a priority. Our Limited Risk Program includes provisions for unlimited matching opportunities if your first match doesn’t work out, and refund options if your journey doesn’t result in a baby and you have no embryos remaining.
This protection allows you to move forward with confidence rather than fear about additional financial loss.
Experience With Complex Cases
We regularly work with intended parents who have navigated multiple
fertility challenges. Our team understands the unique emotional and medical
considerations involved in transitioning from IVF to surrogacy, and we’re
equipped to support you through this process.
Transparent Communication
After experiencing the uncertainty of failed IVF cycles,
clear communication becomes essential. We provide regular updates throughout
your journey and ensure you understand each step of the process. You’ll have
dedicated support staff who understand your history and are committed to your
success.
Ready to Explore Surrogacy? Here’s How to Take the Next Step
Your journey through IVF hasn’t been a failure. It’s been
preparation. The embryos you’ve created, the medical knowledge you’ve gained,
and the resilience you’ve developed through this process all become valuable
assets in a surrogacy journey.
The decision to pursue surrogacy after IVF can actually feel
empowering. You’re taking control of your journey and choosing a path that
addresses the specific challenges you’ve faced.
From screening to refunds: How American Surrogacy shields intended parents from surrogacy’s unexpected challenges.
The surrogacy journey represents hope, dreams, and the
promise of finally holding your baby. But for many intended parents, excitement
comes with worry: “What if something goes wrong? What if our surrogate
changes her mind? What if we run out of embryos?”
These concerns are natural, and they’re exactly why choosing
the right surrogacy agency matters more than you might realize.
Our structured programs mean you don’t have to navigate
these uncertainties alone. We’ve designed our Foundation
and Limited Risk Programs to protect your investment, your timeline, and
your peace of mind through comprehensive screening, unlimited re-matching, and
built-in refund protections.
Get
the support and protection you deserve. Fill out our form today to learn how American Surrogacy
safeguards your family-building journey.
Is There Surrogacy
Agency Support for Unexpected Journey Complications?
Yes there is! This support can make the difference between a
successful journey and a devastating financial loss.
Many intended parents assume that surrogacy complications
are rare enough that they don’t need to worry about protection. The reality is
that while serious complications aren’t common, they do happen.
Failed embryo transfers, surrogates who can’t continue their
journey, medical complications, and legal challenges can all derail an
unprotected surrogacy arrangement.
That’s where our experience makes all the difference. With
decades of expertise, proven protocols, and comprehensive financial
protections, we ensure you never have to navigate complications on your own.
What Are Unexpected
Complications that Might Occur During Surrogacy?
Understanding potential complications helps you prepare and
shows you why professional agency support matters.
Embryo
Transfer Challenges: Not every embryo transfer results in
pregnancy. While IVF success rates continue to improve, some intended parents
face multiple failed transfers, depleting their embryo supply faster than
expected.
Surrogate-Related
Issues: Sometimes a surrogate who seemed perfect during initial
meetings realizes she can’t continue the journey. This might happen due to
medical complications discovered during screening, family circumstances, or
simply changing her mind about moving forward.
Medical
Complications During Pregnancy: Pregnancy complications can
affect both the baby’s health and the surrogate’s ability to continue. While
these situations are carefully managed by medical professionals, they can
impact timelines and require additional support.
Legal
and Contractual Challenges: Surrogacy laws vary by state, and
navigating surrogacy
contracts and legal requirements can become complex if unexpected
situations arise.
These complications, while challenging, are not impossible when
you have the right support system. At American Surrogacy, we have successfully
helped thousands of families navigate unexpected challenges over our years of
experience.
How Pre-Screening Protects Intended Parents
The best way to handle surrogacy complications is to prevent them. That’s
where comprehensive pre-screening becomes your most valuable protection.
At American Surrogacy, we maintain rigorous screening
standards for potential surrogates. Our multi-step process evaluates
medical history, psychological readiness, financial stability, and personal
circumstances long before any matching occurs.
We
only work with highly-qualified surrogates who have
demonstrated their commitment to the surrogacy process. We make sure that every
surrogate who enters our program is prepared for the journey ahead.
How Pre-Screening Protects Your Time
Time matters when you’re building your family. Every delayed
match, every failed arrangement, every restart adds months to your wait.
Our comprehensive surrogate screening process allows for quick, confident matching because the hard work of verification happens upfront.
Instead of spending weeks or months getting to know a potential surrogate only to discover she isn’t ready, you’re matched with women who have already proven their readiness.
This pre-screening approach significantly reduces failed
matching attempts, helping you become
a parent faster than you might with agencies that skip thorough vetting.
How Pre-Screening Protects Your Money
Every failed match costs money, sometimes significant
amounts. When a surrogate arrangement falls through after contracts are signed,
legal fees are paid, and medical preparations have begun, those costs add up
quickly.
By ensuring surrogates are fully screened before matching,
American Surrogacy dramatically reduces the likelihood of costly false starts.
You’re not paying for legal work, medical procedures, and administrative costs
multiple times due to inadequate screening.
Our pre-screening investment protects your financial investment throughout your entire journey.
Reddit Discussion: How Timely Matching Protects Your Journey
At American Surrogacy, we offer two programs specifically
designed with built-in financial protection: our Foundation Program and Limited
Risk Program. Both programs are built around protecting intended parents from
the unexpected.
Unlimited Matching: Your Journey Won’t End If a Match Falls Through
Our Limited Risk Program includes unlimited matching at no
extra cost if a surrogate backs out or can’t move forward with the arrangement.
Think about what this means: If your first match doesn’t
work out for any reason, you don’t start over financially. You don’t pay
additional matching fees. You don’t worry about whether you can afford to try
again. Our
full-service programs ensure that a single setback doesn’t end your journey
to parenthood.
This unlimited matching protection provides peace of mind knowing that you’re covered no matter how many attempts it takes to find the right surrogate for your family.
Refund Protections: What Happens If You Run Out of Embryos
Both our Limited Risk Program and Foundation Program include
refund protections if your journey is unsuccessful and you have no embryos
remaining.
This protection acknowledges a difficult reality: sometimes,
despite everyone’s best efforts, a surrogacy journey doesn’t result in a baby.
While this outcome is rare, it happens. When it does, you shouldn’t face
complete financial loss on top of emotional disappointment.
Our refund protections ensure that if you’ve exhausted your embryos without achieving pregnancy, you’ll receive a significant portion of your program fees back. This financial protection can help you explore other family-building options or restart your surrogacy journey when you’re ready.
Our commitment to protecting intended parents extends beyond
our standard program protections. When the SEAM breach occurred affecting trust
account funds across multiple agencies, we went above and beyond contractual
obligations.
We safeguard our clients’ funds by paying from our own
reserves, ensuring that intended parents don’t suffer financial losses due to
circumstances outside their control. We are committed to protecting the
families we serve.
Why Working With an Agency is Safer Than Going Independent
The protections offered by professional agencies like ours
simply don’t exist in independent surrogacy arrangements, and the financial
risks can be devastating.
Independent surrogacy might seem more affordable upfront,
but consider what you’re risking:
No
professional screening: You’re responsible for evaluating a
surrogate’s medical, psychological, and financial readiness entirely on your
own.
No
backup plans: If your arrangement falls through, you start
completely over with no support system.
No
financial protection: Every dollar spent is at risk if
complications arise.
Legal
vulnerability: Without professional guidance, you might miss
critical legal protections.
Even if you’ve already found a potential surrogate independently, our Independent Program allows you to continue your journey with professional guidance and safety measures in place.
The question isn’t whether you can handle surrogacy
independently. It’s whether you should take on unnecessary risks when
professional protection is available.
Finding Hope After IVF Failures
Many intended parents considering surrogacy have already
experienced the heartbreak of failed IVF cycles. You might wonder whether
surrogacy will just lead to more disappointment.
Here’s what you need to know: surrogacy often succeeds where traditional IVF has failed because it removes many of the factors that contributed to your previous challenges.
Gestational surrogacy allows you to use your own genetic material while bypassing potential uterine factors that may have prevented successful implantation or pregnancy maintenance.
Working with American Surrogacy means your embryos will be transferred to a thoroughly screened surrogate who has demonstrated her ability to carry pregnancies successfully.
Combined with our program protections, this significantly improves your chances of finally achieving the pregnancy you’ve been working toward.
Your IVF struggles don’t predict your surrogacy success,
especially when you have professional support guiding your journey.
Taking the Next Step with American Surrogacy
The surrogacy journey doesn’t have to feel overwhelming when
you have the right support and protection. Our Foundation
and Limited Risk Programs are designed specifically to address the
“what if” concerns that keep intended parents awake at night.
Our comprehensive approach includes:
Rigorous pre-screening that protects your time
and money
Unlimited matching to ensure setbacks don’t end
your journey
Refund protections if your journey doesn’t
result in pregnancy
Decades of experience managing complex
situations
Financial stability proven through industry
challenges
You’ve already shown incredible strength and determination
in your journey to parenthood. Now it’s time to partner with an agency that
matches your commitment with professional expertise and genuine protection.
Fill out
our form today
to speak with a surrogacy specialist about how our protective programs can
support your journey to parenthood. Let us help you get there safely.
American Surrogacy accepts shipped frozen embryos from any clinic. Learn how we coordinate the process, costs, and safety of embryo transport.
Yes, American Surrogacy routinely works with embryos shipped from fertility clinics across the United States and internationally.
This support eliminates one of the biggest concerns intended
parents face when moving from IVF to surrogacy. You don’t need to start over,
create new embryos, or abandon the investment you’ve already made in your
fertility journey.
Get
the support you need for your embryo shipping process. Contact
us today to
speak with a surrogacy specialist about coordinating your existing embryos with
a qualified surrogate.
Why You May Not Even Need to Ship Your Frozen Embryos
Before diving into the shipping process, it’s worth noting that many intended parents can avoid embryo shipping altogether.
Most surrogates working with American Surrogacy are willing and able to travel to your fertility clinic for the embryo transfer procedure.
Benefits of Surrogate Travel to Your Clinic
This approach often proves easier, safer, and less stressful
than shipping frozen embryos.
When your surrogate travels to your clinic, you eliminate logistical concerns
about temperature control, transit time, and coordinating between multiple
facilities.
Your embryos stay exactly where they are, in the storage
facility you already trust.
Travel arrangements are typically coordinated by our team,
and many intended parents find this creates a meaningful bonding opportunity
with their surrogate. The transfer takes place in familiar surroundings with
your established medical team, providing additional peace of mind during this
crucial step.
When Embryo Shipping Becomes Necessary
However, we understand that surrogate travel isn’t always practical due to medical protocols, clinic preferences, or other circumstances.
When shipping becomes necessary, we have extensive experience coordinating successful embryo transfers using shipped embryos through our comprehensive embryo shipping guides.
Do I Need to Create New Embryos for Surrogacy? Or Can I Use the Ones I
Have?
You can absolutely use your existing frozen embryos for surrogacy. This is one
of the most common questions we hear from intended parents, and the answer
provides significant relief both emotionally and financially.
Many of our intended parents come to surrogacy after
experiencing multiple
IVF failures or pregnancy complications. The embryos you’ve already created
represent a substantial investment of time, money, and emotional energy.
Surrogacy
embryo transfer success rates range from 60-70% per transfer, compared to
traditional IVF rates of 40-50% for women under 35, declining to just 10-15%
for women over 40.
Surrogacy’s higher success comes from rigorous surrogate
screening that ensures optimal uterine health, proven pregnancy history, and
carefully controlled hormonal environments.
Timeline Benefits of Using Existing Embryos
Using existing embryos can also accelerate your surrogacy
timeline. Instead of beginning with ovarian stimulation, egg retrieval, and
fertilization, you can move directly to matching with a surrogate and preparing
for transfer. This can potentially cut months off your
journey to parenthood.
Your fertility clinic will need to release your embryos
along with detailed documentation, including:
Embryo quality grades and development stages
Genetic testing results (if applicable)
Storage requirements and freezing protocols
Complete medical history and lab work
Our team coordinates with both your original clinic and your
surrogate’s clinic to ensure all documentation and medical records are properly
transferred along with your embryos.
Is Embryo Shipping Safe?
Embryo shipping has an excellent safety record when
performed by specialized cryogenic transport companies. Your embryos are stored
in specialized tanks called cryoshippers or dry shippers that maintain
consistent ultra-low temperatures without requiring external power sources.
How Embryos Stay Protected During Transport
These specialized containers offer multiple layers of
protection:
Liquid nitrogen maintains temperatures at -196°C
(-320°F) throughout transport
Containers maintain temperature for 7-10 days,
providing significant safety margins
Professional companies provide detailed chain of
custody documentation
Real-time temperature monitoring and tracking
systems ensure constant oversight
Insurance coverage specifically protects
reproductive tissue during transport
Properly shipped
embryos maintain the same
survival rates as those that never leave their original storage facility.
Your embryos are treated as critical medical cargo throughout transport, with
freezing and thawing having far more impact on viability than shipping.
We always recommend discussing the shipping process with your fertility clinic and reproductive endocrinologist for guidance specific to your embryos’ characteristics.
If you’re considering how many embryos to use for surrogacy or exploring surrogacy with only one embryo left, our specialists can help you develop the best strategy.
From Clinic to Surrogate: How the Embryo Shipping Process Works
The embryo
shipping process involves careful coordination between multiple parties,
but at American Surrogacy, we manage these logistics so you don’t have to
navigate them alone.
Step 1: Documentation and Release
Your original fertility clinic prepares release forms and
detailed embryo information, including quality grades, genetic testing results,
and storage requirements. You’ll sign consent forms authorizing the transfer
and release of your embryos.
Step 2: Receiving Clinic Coordination
Your surrogate’s fertility clinic provides specific shipping
instructions, including preferred shipping companies, arrival timing, and any
special requirements. We coordinate between both clinics to ensure
compatibility and proper preparation.
Step 3: Professional Shipping Arrangement
A specialized reproductive tissue transport company picks up
your embryos in a temperature-controlled cryogenic container. These companies
are specifically licensed and insured for embryo transport, not general medical
courier services.
Step 4: Real-Time Tracking
Throughout transport, the shipping company provides tracking
information and temperature monitoring. Many services offer real-time alerts
and updates so all parties know exactly where embryos are located.
Step 5: Safe Arrival and Verification
The receiving clinic confirms embryo arrival, verifies the integrity
of the shipment, and places embryos in their storage facility. Both clinics
document the successful transfer for your records.
This entire process typically takes 1-3 days for domestic
shipments and 2-10 days for international transport, depending on the origin
and destination countries. Our coordination team
manages communications between all parties and keeps you informed throughout
the process.
Embryo Shipping
Costs and Logistics: What Intended Parents Should Expect
Embryo
shipping costs typically range from $1,000
to $3,000 for domestic shipments within the United States, depending on
distance, urgency, and specific transport requirements.
International shipping costs are significantly higher,
generally ranging from $3,000-$8,000
or more depending on the origin country and service level.
For more detailed information about embryo shipping costs,
our specialists can provide specific estimates based on your situation.
These costs cover specialized cryogenic containers, professional handling, insurance coverage, and documentation services.
While it represents an additional expense, most intended parents find the cost manageable compared to creating new embryos or repeating IVF cycles.
Additional Fees to Consider
Beyond shipping costs, you may encounter:
Documentation fees from your original clinic
(typically $200-500)
Receiving fees from your surrogate’s clinic
(usually $300-600)
Storage fees if embryos arrive before your
surrogate is ready for transfer
Rush shipping surcharges for expedited services
Timing coordination is essential for cost management. Rush
shipping or expedited services significantly increase expenses, so planning
ahead when possible helps control costs.
Our team works with you to identify the optimal shipping
window based on your surrogate’s cycle and clinic availability.
Many intended parents find it helpful to factor shipping
costs into their overall surrogacy budget. We offer three comprehensive program
options to fit different needs and
financial situations:
Foundation Program: If your journey ends without a baby and you have no embryos left, some fees will be refunded.
Limited Risk Program: In addition to available refunds if a journey doesn’t work out, you also have access to comprehensive services, including unlimited matching at no extra cost.
For those seeking additional financing support, companies
like Sunfish
offer fertility loans that can cover embryo shipping and related expenses as part of comprehensive
surrogacy financing packages.
How American Surrogacy Supports Intended Parents Through This Process
We bring years of experience coordinating embryo shipments for intended parents from around the world.
Our team understands the emotional weight of entrusting your embryos to a shipping process and provides comprehensive support throughout, including our detailed guide to shipping frozen embryos.
Clinic Coordination Expertise
We maintain relationships with fertility clinics nationwide and understand their specific requirements for embryo receipt and storage.
This experience helps us identify potential logistical issues early and resolve them before they impact your timeline.
Vendor Network Management
Our team works with proven embryo shipping companies and can recommend services based on your specific needs, location, and budget.
You won’t need to research and vet shipping companies yourself because we handle all vendor coordination.
Communication Bridge
Throughout the shipping process, we serve as a central
communication hub between you, your original clinic, your surrogate’s clinic,
and the shipping company. You’ll receive regular updates without needing to
manage multiple points of contact.
If Unexpected Issues Come Up
If unexpected issues arise during shipping, our team
provides immediate problem-solving support. Weather delays, documentation
problems, clinic scheduling conflicts—we’ve handled various shipping challenges
and know how to resolve them quickly.
Beyond logistics, we understand the anxiety many intended
parents feel about shipping embryos. Our team provides emotional support and
reassurance throughout the process, helping you feel confident in your
decision.
Program Options and Financial Protection
Our programs include full-service
support and independent program options with embryo shipping coordination as part of our
comprehensive services.
Whichever program you select, we’ll manage all embryo shipping logistics so you can focus on your approaching parenthood. Our financial protection programs safeguard your investment from the moment your embryos leave storage until they arrive at your surrogate’s clinic.
Contact us today to discuss your shipping coordination needs and take the next step toward your journey to parenthood.
Your existing embryos represent the foundation of your future family, and we’re here to ensure they reach your surrogate safely and efficiently.
Learn why some intended parents prefer a surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine—and how to find one who aligns with your values.
Your surrogacy journey is deeply personal—and every detail
matters when it comes to protecting your growing family.
In today’s world, health and safety are more important than
ever, which is why many intended parents are wondering if they should look for
a surrogate who has received the COVID-19 vaccine.
If vaccination is part of your vision for a safe and supported surrogacy experience, we can help you find a surrogate who aligns with your priorities—without delaying your timeline. Fill out our form today.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider when making medical decisions related to COVID or vaccination.
Should You Choose a Surrogate Who Has Received the COVID Vaccine?
Choosing a surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine is a
personal decision, and one that many intended parents make for peace of mind.
While not medically required, vaccination can offer an added
layer of reassurance and may align with guidance from medical professionals and
fertility clinics.
It’s not about right or wrong—it’s about what feels right
for your family. If this is something that matters to you, American Surrogacy
can help you find a surrogate whose health choices reflect your preferences.
Is It Safe to Work With a Surrogate Who Isn’t Vaccinated Against COVID?
Medical experts, including
the CDC and ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists),
have strongly recommended COVID-19 vaccination for pregnant women and those
planning to become pregnant.
These recommendations extend to gestational surrogates, who
undergo intensive health screening and are responsible for carrying a pregnancy
on behalf of someone else.
While it’s not illegal or medically disqualifying for a
surrogate to be unvaccinated, there may be increased risks. Pregnancy itself
can heighten vulnerability to severe complications from COVID-19.
Choosing a surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine can
offer added peace of mind and protection for all parties involved.
Understanding Vaccine Policies in
Surrogacy
Vaccination policies vary by agency and clinic. At American
Surrogacy, we do not mandate COVID vaccination as a requirement for all
surrogates—but we do document each candidate’s vaccine status during our
thorough screening process.
If having a surrogate
who has received the COVID vaccine is important to you, we can absolutely
filter your matches accordingly.
This gives you the ability to make informed decisions
without alienating qualified surrogates who may have different health choices.
Our role is to create a respectful, values-aligned match that supports everyone
involved.
Will Asking for a Vaccinated Surrogate Limit Your Options?
It’s natural to wonder whether setting vaccine-related
preferences could slow down the matching process or reduce the number of
available candidates.
Fortunately, many of our active surrogate candidates have
chosen to be vaccinated, especially those working closely with fertility
clinics that recommend or require the vaccine.
Our team is skilled in identifying and matching you with a
surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine—without compromising your timeline
or overall surrogacy journey.
Why Some Intended Parents Prefer a Vaccinated Surrogate
At American Surrogacy, we help you build a detailed intended
parent profile that outlines your values, preferences and
priorities—including health-related criteria like COVID vaccination status.
This profile becomes the foundation for identifying
surrogates who align with your expectations, lifestyle, and overall vision for
the journey.
We can:
Include vaccine status as a matching filter
Help you clearly communicate your health values
from the start
Offer education and resources to support
informed decision-making
Facilitate transparent conversations between you
and potential surrogates
We believe thoughtful, intentional matching leads to
stronger partnerships—and a more confident, fulfilling surrogacy experience.
Learn more about how
we can help you find
a surrogate quickly so you can hold your baby in your arms sooner.
How We Help You Create a Match That Reflects Your Values
At American Surrogacy, we believe your surrogate should
reflect your values—not just medically, but personally and emotionally as well.
If you prefer a surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine, we can:
Prioritize your match based on vaccine status
Provide information about each candidate’s
health and vaccination history
Educate surrogates on medical guidance and
vaccine benefits
Ensure transparency and shared expectations from
the beginning
Our team works closely with both intended parents and
surrogates to ensure everyone is on the same page—and that no one feels forced
into decisions that don’t reflect their values.
Making the Right Choice for Your Family
Deciding whether to request a surrogate who has received the COVID vaccine is a deeply personal choice.
What matters most is working with an agency that respects your preferences, supports your values, and helps you feel confident every step of the way.
Contact American Surrogacy today to learn more about our matching process and how we can help you move forward safely and confidently.
Learn how inducing lactation for surrogacy helps intended mothers breastfeed, bond, and plan feeding arrangements with confidence.
Breastfeeding your baby after surrogacy may seem out of
reach—but it’s more possible than you think.
Many intended mothers have successfully induced lactation for surrogacy,
giving them the chance to nourish their baby and experience the same intimate
bond as parents who carried their child.
If you’re considering
inducing lactation for surrogacy,
our specialists at American Surrogacy can help you explore feeding arrangements
with your surrogate during the contract stage. Fill out our
form today to get quick support.
With the right preparation, medical guidance, and support,
your body can produce milk—even without pregnancy.
What Is Inducing Lactation for Surrogacy?
Inducing lactation for surrogacy is the process of
stimulating your body to make breast milk without having been pregnant.
By combining hormonal treatments, pumping, and ongoing
support, you can prepare your body to provide milk for your baby once they
arrive.
This process isn’t just about nutrition—it’s also about
bonding. For many intended parents, breastfeeding is a powerful way to feel
fully involved in their child’s earliest days.
How to Induce Lactation for Surrogacy: The Newman-Goldfarb Protocol
The most widely used method for inducing lactation for
surrogacy is called the Newman-Goldfarb
protocol. It was designed specifically for mothers who want to
breastfeed but did not carry the pregnancy. Most lactation consultants are
familiar with it.
The protocol includes two stages:
Hormonal preparation: Birth control pills
mimic pregnancy, while a medication like metoclopramide boosts prolactin (the
hormone responsible for milk production). This stage usually lasts several
months to prepare breast tissue.
Pumping phase: About 6–8 weeks before
your baby’s birth, you’ll begin pumping 8–12 times per day. This frequent
stimulation signals to your body that it’s time to produce milk.
Note: In some countries, domperidone is used to
support lactation, but it is not approved for use in the U.S. American parents
typically use metoclopramide.
For more detailed guidance, La Leche League
provides resources that can help you understand how this process works.
Is Induced Lactation Breastmilk as Good as Natural Breastmilk?
Yes—milk produced through induced lactation contains the
same nutrients, antibodies, and growth factors that help protect and nourish
your baby.
According to Folx
Health, while it may take some time to reach full composition, induced
breast milk provides the same essential benefits as traditional breastfeeding.
Benefits of Induced Lactation for Intended Parents
Wanting to breastfeed after surrogacy isn’t really about the
nutrition (though that’s great too). It’s about so much more than that.
After watching someone else carry your baby for nine months,
breastfeeding can feel like finally getting to be the mom in a really tangible
way.
There’s something really special about that skin-to-skin
contact and the bonding
that happens during nursing. Your body releases oxytocin – the love hormone
– which helps you and your baby connect.
After a surrogacy journey where you might have felt a bit on
the sidelines, breastfeeding is something that’s just between you and your
baby.
Considering the Cost of Medications for Inducing Lactation
The cost of inducing lactation for surrogacy varies
depending on treatment length and insurance coverage. On average, families
should consider:
Metoclopramide: $20–$60/month
Birth control pills: $15–$50/month (often
covered by insurance)
Lactation consultant visits: Varies by
provider
Breast pump rental or purchase:
Hospital-grade pumps are most effective
While these expenses add to overall surrogacy costs, many
families find them manageable with advance planning.
How Long Does it Take to Induce Lactation for Surrogacy?
The process usually takes 4–6 months:
Hormonal prep: 2–4 months
Pumping: 6–8 weeks before the baby’s
arrival
Some parents notice milk production within days of pumping,
while others take several weeks. Factors like age, medical history, and consistency
with the protocol all play a role.
Challenges and Limitations to Consider
Inducing lactation for surrogacy can be amazing, but it’s not always smooth sailing. Not every mom ends up with a full milk supply, and some only make small amounts even when they do everything perfectly.
The medications can make you feel pretty crummy sometimes, nausea,
tiredness, mood swings, stomach issues.
And honestly, it can be emotionally tough if things don’t go
as planned. Some moms feel really disappointed or stressed if their milk supply
doesn’t develop like they hoped.
How to Increase Breastmilk Supply When Inducing Lactation for Surrogacy
If your milk supply is lower than expected, try:
Pumping every 2–3 hours (including overnight)
Using “power pumping” sessions (10 minutes
pumping, 10 minutes rest, repeated for an hour)
Ensuring your pump fits properly; hospital-grade
pumps are most effective
Exploring natural supply boosters like oats or
fenugreek—with your doctor’s approval
These specialists really know their stuff and can give you
personalized advice for your situation.
They’ll help you navigate the whole process and troubleshoot any issues that come up.
When you’re looking for a lactation specialist for surrogacy, make sure they’re IBCLC certified and have experience with induced lactation specifically.
Many of them do virtual appointments too, which is super
convenient when you’re still in the preparation phase.
Alternatives if Inducing Lactation Isn’t Possible
If inducing lactation for surrogacy doesn’t work or doesn’t
feel right, you still have other nourishing options:
Surrogate-provided milk: Some surrogates
are willing to pump and supply breast milk.
Donor milk: Certified milk banks offer
screened donor milk, though it can be costly.
Formula: A safe, reliable feeding option
used by many families.
Many parents use a combination of these methods to meet
their baby’s needs.
How American Surrogacy Supports Your Feeding Journey
At American Surrogacy, we understand that feeding choices
are deeply personal. Our team helps you:
Discuss breast milk arrangements during your
surrogacy contract (including whether your surrogate may pump after birth)
Connect with trusted lactation consultants
experienced in inducing lactation for surrogacy
Explore all feeding options—induced lactation,
surrogate-provided milk, donor milk, or formula—so you feel empowered to make
the best choice for your family
Our specialists can answer your questions about breastfeeding and help ensure your feeding preferences are included in your surrogacy contract.
Reach out
today to begin planning for the
feeding journey that feels right for your family.
Find a surrogacy lawyer near you. Learn what to ask, why local expertise matters, and how American Surrogacy connects you to vetted attorneys.
Finding a qualified surrogacy lawyer is one of the most
critical steps in your journey to parenthood. With the right legal
representation, you can navigate complex state laws, secure your parental
rights, and move forward with confidence.
The peace of mind that comes from having an experienced
attorney ensures that your legal foundation is as strong as your hope for the
future.
Start your journey
today by contacting
a surrogacy specialist today. We’ll connect you with a vetted surrogacy
lawyer near you who understands your state’s laws and your unique needs.
Below, we’ll walk you through exactly how to find a surrogacy lawyer nearby, what questions to ask, why state-specific expertise matters, and how American Surrogacy’s attorney network can streamline this crucial step in your journey.
How to Find a Surrogacy Lawyer Near Me
Searching “surrogacy lawyer near me” is only the beginning.
Because surrogacy law is highly specialized, you need an attorney with deep
experience in reproductive law.
The right lawyer understands assisted reproduction,
state-specific statutes, and parentage
orders, giving you the protection a basic internet search can’t guarantee.
Focus your search through these trusted channels:
Professional Directories: Use the
American Bar Association’s lawyer referral directory or your state bar
association, filtering for “assisted reproductive technology” or “reproductive
law.”
Agency Referrals: Agencies like American
Surrogacy maintain a network of vetted attorneys who have proven expertise with
surrogacy contracts, parentage orders, and state-specific requirements.
Why it matters: An attorney who
excels in divorce or adoption may not understand gestational surrogacy. You
need someone who practices this law regularly in your state.
The Role a Surrogacy Lawyer Plays in the Surrogacy Contract Process
Your lawyer is the architect of your legal protection. They
will:
Draft and negotiate your surrogacy contract.
Ensure compliance with state-specific
requirements.
Coordinate with your fertility clinic.
Guide you through parentage proceedings so your parental
rights are recognized before or immediately after birth.
Because laws vary by state, having an attorney licensed in
your jurisdiction is essential to avoid costly delays.
Yes. Independent legal representation is required for all
parties in surrogacy arrangements. Beyond this requirement, your lawyer
protects your interests at every step—from contract negotiations to
establishing legal parentage.
What
type of lawyer handles surrogacy?
Specialized family lawyers or assisted reproductive technology (ART) attorneys.
They must be licensed in your state and have experience with surrogacy-specific
statutes and court procedures.
What should be in a
surrogacy contract?
A strong
surrogacy contract leaves no room for uncertainty. Your attorney will walk
you through each element, ensuring that both your rights and your surrogate’s
rights are fully protected.
The most common areas your contract should cover include:
Medical decision-making authority: Who
can make decisions during pregnancy and delivery.
Financial responsibilities: Compensation
for your surrogate, medical expenses, and additional costs.
Communication expectations: How updates
will be shared and what level of contact is expected.
Contingency plans: Provisions for
unexpected circumstances, such as medical complications.
Parental rights protection: Language that
establishes you as the baby’s legal parents.
Boundaries and responsibilities: Clear
definitions of roles for everyone involved.
When written by an experienced surrogacy lawyer, these
provisions become enforceable protections that safeguard your journey.
Questions to Ask When Choosing a Surrogacy Attorney
The right questions during your consultation can reveal
whether an attorney has the expertise and communication style you need. Key areas
to explore include:
Experience: “How many surrogacy cases
have you handled in the past two years?” and “What percentage of your practice
focuses on reproductive law?”
Fees: Do they charge a flat fee or hourly
rate? What does their quoted fee include, and what additional costs could come
up?
Communication: What’s their preferred
method of communication, and how quickly do they typically respond?
Case management: Will they personally
handle your case, or delegate to associates?
Community connections: Do they regularly
work with local surrogacy agencies and fertility clinics?
Most surrogacy attorneys charge between $3,000 and $7,000, covering contract
drafting and parentage proceedings. While cost matters, the right fit often
comes down to trust, responsiveness, and proven experience in surrogacy law.
State-by-State Differences in Surrogacy Law
Surrogacy laws vary significantly from state to state. Some
jurisdictions allow pre-birth parentage orders, while others require post-birth
adoption.
Compensation rules, court timelines, and even judge
preferences can differ widely, shaping how quickly and smoothly your case moves
forward.
This is why local expertise is so important. A surrogacy
lawyer who practices regularly in your jurisdiction understands the nuances of
local statutes and court systems, ensuring your parental rights are secured
without unnecessary delays.
Is your state truly
surrogacy-friendly? Find
out now.
Agency vs. Independent Search for a Lawyer
If you conduct your own search, you’ll need to vet
credentials, evaluate experience, and confirm that the attorney understands
surrogacy law in your state—a process that can be both time-consuming and
stressful.
By contrast, working with an agency like American Surrogacy
connects you with attorneys who have already demonstrated competence in
surrogacy cases.
These lawyers are familiar with agency processes,
collaborate seamlessly with your support team, and often provide more competitive
pricing thanks to their established relationships with agencies.
Choosing an agency-referred attorney gives you the
confidence that you’re working with someone proven, not just someone you found
online.
Can one lawyer represent
both the surrogate and the intended parents?
No. Independent legal representation is required for both the intended parents and the surrogate.
This safeguard ensures fairness, prevents conflicts of interest, and protects the rights of everyone involved in the surrogacy process.
What’s the role of a
surrogacy attorney vs. agency?
Surrogacy agencies and attorneys play different but
connected roles. The agency manages matching, screening, and coordination,
while the attorney focuses exclusively on legal protection and compliance.
When your agency refers you to independent counsel, you
benefit from a partnership where both professionals are working toward the same
goal: protecting your family’s journey and ensuring every step is completed
correctly.
Why Agency-Connected Attorneys Are Preferable to In-House Legal
While some agencies employ in-house lawyers, this
arrangement can create conflicts of interest between agency priorities and
client rights. Independent attorneys recommended by your agency offer the best
balance.
They’ve already proven themselves through successful cases,
but because they are not on staff, their sole duty is to advocate for you.
This independence ensures you get personalized guidance,
reliable communication, and continuity of legal support even after your initial
surrogacy journey is complete.
How American Surrogacy Supports Your Legal Needs
At American Surrogacy, we take the guesswork out of finding the right surrogacy lawyer.
Our vetted attorney network includes professionals who focus exclusively on reproductive law, maintain excellent track records in surrogacy cases, and understand the unique aspects of our agency’s matching and support services.
Fill out our
form today to get matched with a surrogacy lawyer near you and take the
next step toward building your family.
With this support, you can move through your surrogacy
journey with confidence, knowing your parental rights are fully protected.
Single embryo transfers provide safer outcomes with success rates close to double transfers—without the risks of multiples.
It’s natural to think that transferring two embryos might
double your chances—or even lead to twins. But the truth is, double embryo
transfer (DET) is not always the safest or most successful choice.
Research shows that single embryo transfer (SET) often
provides better outcomes for both surrogates and babies.
Ready to explore your options? Contact a surrogacy specialist today and get guidance tailored to your family-building goals.
Whether you’re hoping for twins or simply want to shorten your journey, there are proven alternatives that protect your surrogate’s health while giving you the best chance of growing your family quickly.
Can You Do a
Double Embryo Transfer in Surrogacy?
Yes, DET is possible, but most fertility specialists and
surrogacy agencies recommend single
embryo transfer as the gold standard.
Why: The American Society for
Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) guidelines generally advise SET when high-quality
embryos are available.
Who Decides: The choice ultimately rests
with you, your surrogate, and your fertility team. Factors include embryo
quality, medical history, and your surrogate’s comfort.
Surrogate Preference: Many surrogates
favor SET because it reduces health risks and complications—a preference that’s
both personal and medically sound.
Honest conversations about transfer preferences should
happen early in the matching process to ensure everyone is aligned.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Decisions about embryo transfer protocols should always be made in consultation with a qualified reproductive endocrinologist or fertility specialist.
Multiple Single Transfers vs. Double
Embryo Transfer: Success Rates, Risks, and Safer Alternatives
Studies show that transferring two embryos at
once can lead to higher chances of a live birth compared to transferring
just one—about 42% with double embryo transfer versus 27% with a single
transfer.
However, the risk of twins or multiples is much higher with
double transfers, occurring in nearly 29% of cases compared to only 2% with
single transfers.
When doctors follow up a single transfer with an additional
frozen single embryo transfer, the overall live birth rate (38%) ends up very
close to that of a double transfer (42%), but with almost no risk of multiples.
These outcomes held true regardless of the woman’s age,
fertility history or embryo quality.
Will Transferring Two
Embryos Guarantee Twins?
Yes, double embryo transfer significantly raises the
likelihood of twins by 27% but the outcomes can vary. Both embryos may
implant, resulting in twins, or just one may implant, leading to a singleton
pregnancy.
In some cases, neither embryo implants, which means the
cycle fails, and there’s also the rare possibility that one embryo could split,
creating a triplet pregnancy with very high risks.
Importantly, DET does not guarantee higher success rates,
since high-quality single embryo transfers often achieve similar outcomes without
the additional risks.
The Hidden Risks of Double Embryo
Transfer for Surrogates
Multiple pregnancies create greater medical risks for
surrogates:
Higher rates of gestational diabetes,
preeclampsia, and preterm labor.
Longer NICU stays and greater risk of
developmental complications for babies.
Increased likelihood of C-section delivery and
longer recovery times for surrogates.
Emotional and lifestyle impacts: more
restrictions, bed rest, and strain on family life.
These risks explain why many surrogates prefer SET and why
medical professionals increasingly recommend it.
Want Twins or a Quicker
Path to Parenthood? Here’s a Safer Way
The longing for twins—or to complete your family sooner—is
real. Fortunately, there’s a safer, smarter approach: dual staggered journeys.
A dual staggered journey allows intended parents to work
with two surrogates on overlapping timelines, offering a safer and more
efficient path to family building. The benefits include:
Safer pregnancies: Each surrogate carries
a singleton, avoiding the higher risks of twin or triplet pregnancies.
Two chances at success: You increase the
odds of at least one successful pregnancy instead of relying on a single
transfer.
Shorter timeline: Children can be born
close in age, giving you the experience of siblings growing up together.
Reduced emotional pressure: If one
journey encounters complications, the other may still progress, offering
reassurance and stability.
Better long-term value: While the upfront
investment is higher, dual journeys are often more cost-effective than double
embryo transfer or waiting through back-to-back surrogacy processes.
While this requires
more upfront investment, many families find it more cost-effective than risking
DET or waiting through back-to-back journeys.
How We Provide The Ability to Work
with Two Surrogates so You Can Grow Your Family Faster
At American Surrogacy, we’ve designed our dual staggered journeys to give
families a safer alternative to double embryo transfer while still helping them
grow faster.
This approach allows both women to carry single
pregnancies—dramatically reducing health risks—while still making it possible
for your children to be born close in age.
We recommend beginning the second journey once the first
surrogate reaches 20 weeks, which helps balance safety with efficiency.
We also personalize matches based on geography,
communication style, and family preferences, ensuring strong, healthy
relationships on both journeys.
Take the Next Step Toward a Safer, Smarter Family-Building Journey
Building your family is one of the most important journeys
of your life, and you deserve a path that is safe, effective, and designed for
long-term success.
At American Surrogacy, we combine medical expertise with
compassionate support to help you make confident decisions about embryo
transfer and family building.
Don’t leave your family’s future to chance. Fill out our
form today to speak with a surrogacy specialist and begin your journey
toward parenthood.
