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How Long Does It Take to Find a Surrogate?

Wondering how long it takes to find a surrogate? We can help you find the perfect surrogate.

When you’re on your way to finally becoming parents, you want to get started immediately. One of the most important parts of this process is finding the right surrogate. But how long does this actually take? We have taken our time over the years to perfect our system of matching parents with their perfect surrogate.

We’re breaking down the timeline of surrogacy and how long it takes to find a surrogate. Ready to get started? Contact us today.

Timeline of Surrogacy Process

The surrogacy process is roughly a 12-18 month commitment. From connecting with a surrogacy agency to matching to holding your baby in your arms, it takes time. However, surrogacy can oftentimes move quicker than other options such as adoption. Different aspects of the surrogacy process can take different amounts of time, but we’ve worked on creating an efficient process so you don’t have to wait.

The Matching Process

We pride ourselves on our ability to match parents to the perfect surrogate in an average of 3-6 months. Once you get to this point of the process, everything begins to feel real. When you begin your surrogacy process, you’ll work with your surrogacy specialist to create your goals for the process. This can include how much your budget it, the type of person you want as a surrogate and more. This will all be included in a profile that is shared with prospective surrogates.

We know it’s important to find your perfect surrogate. That’s why we’ve created a trusted system to find that person for you. After this, you’re able to start the legal process and ultimately begin the medical process that will result in your future child.

To connect with other intended parents and hear fist hand accounts of the process from surrogates, check our Instagram.

Steps to Finding a Surrogate

Work with American Surrogacy
We have been working in the family building business for decades. We have built a team of outstanding surrogacy specialists who can ensure you are receiving the best care through the process.
Create a Family Profile
You will work with your surrogacy specialist to create an Intended Parent Profile. This will help you find a surrogate who shares your surrogacy goals. Your profile will include pictures, video and other information about your family and home to present to surrogates.
Connect with a Surrogate
Once you match with a surrogate, your surrogacy specialist will coordinate a meeting through phone, video or in person to meet the person who will potentially carry your child. From here you will all decide if this is the right match for you and begin the next steps of the surrogacy process. You’ll be one step closer to bringing your baby home!

Find Your Perfect Surrogate

We have made it our mission to create a quality and efficient matching process between parents and surrogates. Your surrogacy specialist will work with you to create a profile that stands out and details the information that is important to you. We want you to feel strong about your decision to pursue surrogacy, and the best way to do that is to find the best surrogate partner for you.

Find your perfect surrogate today!

Is Surrogacy Exploitative?

Concerns about exploitation in surrogacy are often prompted by lack of information. Learn about the systems that protect and empower surrogates in the United States.

In the U.S., surrogacy is designed to protect the well-being of the surrogate, intended parents and the new life they bring into the world together.

As the popularity of this family-building method has risen, so have questions about the prevalence of exploitation in surrogacy throughout the world.

Our agency takes every precaution to protect, empower and advocate for the surrogates that want to help others experience the joy of parenthood. To learn more about surrogacy and how our process works, reach out to us today.

Follow us on Instagram to hear from surrogates and intended parents about their surrogacy journey and what it meant to them.

Is Surrogacy Exploitative for Surrogates?

While there are documented cases of exploitation in surrogacy, they are primarily in countries that don’t have the systems in place to protect their surrogates that United States does. Surrogacy in the U.S. is regulated at the state, medical and professional level.

Each state has their own laws pertaining to surrogacy contracts and establishing parentage. Surrogacy professionals in the U.S. regulate their surrogacy processes through carefully curated practices that are designed to protect the surrogate and the child she carries.

What Does the Exploitation of Surrogate Mothers Look Like in Other Countries?

In countries where surrogates aren’t protected, surrogacy exploitation can look like:

Being forced or coerced into the process of surrogacy
Not being given legal representation during the surrogacy process
Being unsure of the surrogacy process or who have not been properly informed about surrogacy
Not being compensated for surrogacy or paying for expenses out-of-pocket
Feeling surrogacy is their only hope for income if they are in dire financial circumstances
Taking advantage of individuals in dire financial circumstances
Being asked to be a surrogate by or for an authority figure abusing their power

How We Protect the Surrogates We Work With

We take steps to prepare, screen and support surrogates during each portion of their surrogacy journey. You can read more below about how surrogacy is empowering with our agency or click here to hear from surrogates who have partner with our agency.

Preparing and Educating Prospective Surrogates

By providing prospective surrogates with information and educational resources, we empower them to make informed decisions and pursue what they want with confidence.

Any woman who is interested in surrogacy can request free information from us with no obligation to begin the process
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Screening and Requirements

We have requirements and thorough screening processes in place that are designed to protect the safety of the surrogate and the child they will carry.

All surrogates must meet surrogacy requirements based on standards set by the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM)
Once she meets all surrogate requirements, she must successfully complete a screening process that consists of a social and medical history form, an in-home assessment and background check, psychological evaluation.
All surrogates undergo a medical screening to ensure she is physically healthy enough to safely carry a pregnancy to term.

Learn more about our surrogate screening process.

Protecting a Surrogate’s Autonomy

Surrogates control their surrogacy journey. In addition to having a surrogacy specialist who will advocate for them every step of the way, the surrogacy process is designed to promote autonomy throughout the process by ensuring surrogates:

Go at their own pace throughout their surrogacy journey
Are represented by a legal professional who will help them draft a surrogacy contract in accordance with their state’s surrogacy laws
Are matched with families that align with their surrogacy goals
Never have to do anything they’re uncomfortable with

Comprehensive Surrogate Compensation

Surrogates are compensated for the time and effort they contribute to the amazing service they’re providing. In addition to receiving base pay, our surrogate compensation package covers:

Medical expenses
Legal fees
Travel and lodging
Lost wages
Maternity clothes
Prenatal vitamins
And more

Learn more about surrogate compensation.

Becoming a surrogate is a choice and one that is made out of generosity and kindness. You can learn more about our surrogacy practices and how we protect our surrogates by speaking with our surrogacy specialists. Contact us today.

Why Are Surrogates Paid?

Learn about paid surrogacy and why we offer the highest compensation possible for our surrogates.

Surrogacy is often surrounded by misconceptions, especially when it comes to paid surrogacy. We’re dedicated to demystifying these misconceptions to provide you with a clear understanding on what it means to receive surrogate compensation.

Our goal is to address the common points of confusion, explaining why surrogate compensation exists and how we protect you throughout the entire process.

To see how much you can be getting paid for surrogacy, contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224

Why Should Surrogate Mothers Be Paid?

Paid surrogacy acknowledges the commitment surrogates make when they agree to carry a child for intended parents. Carrying a child for intended parents is a big responsibility and paid surrogacy ensures that you earn meaningful income for your family for the commitment you invest in the process.

Throughout the surrogacy process, surrogates incur various expenses, including medical bills, childcare, travel costs and more. Paid surrogacy helps alleviate the financial burden associated with the process. This ensures that you can focus on the well-being of the child you’re carrying without having to worry about financial stressors.

“The compensation I received from being a surrogate helped me to alleviate day-to-day stressors. If I needed to take off time from work I wasn’t as stressed about it.” – said Jade, one of our surrogate mothers.

How Do Surrogates Get Paid?

When you choose paid surrogacy, you’ll receive your surrogate compensation through a combination of base payments, expense reimbursements and potential additional payments. Your surrogate compensation can be anywhere from $50,000-$110,000 depending on factors such as you experience with surrogacy, income, and location.

Your base payment compensates you for carrying the pregnancy and typically covers a portion of the overall compensation. Expense reimbursements cover costs associated with pregnancy, such as medical bills, maternity clothing, travel fees, legal fees and more.

Our Commitment to Fair Practices

Our program follows the standards set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). This commitment ensures that our practices meet the highest ethics for paid surrogacy, safeguarding the well-being of everyone involved. Our dedication to fair compensation and adherence to ASRM guidelines protects surrogates from exploitation often observed in other parts of the world.

By prioritizing ethical practices, we create a safe and empowering environment where surrogates can earn meaningful income without having to worry.

“Not only was I able to do some renovations in my home but I was able to set up my sons college and that’s something that we set aside. This journey was for the experience and the financial compensation was definitely a plus for the future.” – said Allisandra, one of our surrogate mothers.

Some of your questions may be best answered by the
first-hand experiences of other surrogates like Allisandra. Connect with other surrogates and intended parents through our Instagram.

Surrogate compensation opens doors to life-changing opportunities, like buying your dream home, paying off debts and starting a college fund for your kids. Through our ASRM standards and commitment to advocating for paid surrogacy, we ensure a supportive environment that prioritizes the safety and well-being of everyone involved.

To start receiving meaningful income for your family, contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to see how much you qualify for.

Is Surrogacy Ethical?

Modern surrogacy prioritizes, safeguards and advocates for surrogates. Explore the ethics of surrogacy with our agency.

Recent conversations around surrogacy have raised questions about the ethicality of this family-building option. We recognize the gravity of these concerns and prioritize the well-being of our surrogates through a comprehensive framework of safeguards.

We’ll delve into the ethical landscape of surrogacy today, shedding light on the measures in place at the state, agency and medical levels to protect surrogates. To learn more about how surrogates are protected, reach out to us today to speak with a specialist.

Hear more about the life-changing opportunity surrogacy provides intended parents and surrogates by checking us out on Instagram.

The Evolving Ethics of Surrogacy

Surrogacy in the U.S. has come a long way, and contemporary practices prioritize ethical considerations more than ever. We believe that transparency, empathy and advocacy are fundamental components of surrogacy ethics. Our commitment is not just to facilitate the surrogacy journey but to empower surrogates with information, support and a reinforced sense of self.

How Surrogacy and Ethics Go Hand-in-Hand

1. Requirements and A Screening Process

We have a set of requirements that all of our surrogates must meet to ensure they are physically and mentally capable of safely carrying a pregnancy to term:

Age 21-40
BMI 19-32
At least one successful prior pregnancy
No more than five vaginal births and three C-sections
Must be currently raising a child
No smoking or illicit drug use

These requirements are based off of standards set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) and exist to protect the well-being of the surrogate and the child she may carry.

Our surrogacy program ensures that each surrogate undergoes a thorough screening process to guarantee physical and emotional well-being of all parties involved. This step is crucial not only for the surrogate’s health but also for the overall success of the surrogacy journey. This will consist of:

Completing social and medical history forms and obtaining a surrogacy recommendation from their OB/GYN
Collect medical records of previous pregnancies and deliveries to confirm that surrogacy is safe for the prospective surrogate.
An in-home visit to ensure that you have a safe and stable home-life where you can safely carry out a healthy pregnancy. During this visit they will also be asked about their motivation for becoming a surrogate, any concerns they have, their partner’s involvement in their surrogacy, etc.
A psychological evaluation for the surrogate and their partner to ensure they’re both mentally and emotionally prepared for the surrogacy journey. They’ll be asked about why they want to be a surrogate, their emotions regarding the journey ahead and their family’s support of your decision.
An insurance review to determine whether or not their policy covers surrogate pregnancy or if we need to find a family that has a surrogacy-friendly policy.

2.cOMPEnsation for their time and effort

We provide all of our surrogates with fair surrogate compensation for the time, physical and emotional commitment involved. This compensation consists of:

Base pay: This is money that is paid directly to the surrogate that they can use to enhance their life and their family’s lives in any way they choose.
Additional expenses: Our surrogacy compensation package covers all pregnancy and surrogacy-related expenses so that surrogates don’t have to worry about finances or using their own surrogate pay.

You can’t put a price on the miracle of bringing new life into the world, nor would we want to. Providing surrogate compensation is our way of acknowledging the generosity and dedication of surrogates to helping others experience the joy and love of parenthood.

3. Legal Protections and Contracts

In the U.S., every state has its own set of surrogacy laws. These laws ensure the ethical conduct of surrogacy arrangements. We prioritize connecting our surrogates with surrogacy attorneys who specialize in their state’s surrogacy laws.

These legal professionals help our surrogates create agreements that address potential challenges, protect their rights, establish expectations and responsibilities and more, offering surrogates a sense of security throughout the process.

How We Advocate for Surrogates

We go beyond being experts in the field – we are advocates. Our goal is to make every surrogate feel confident, valued and in control of their journey, ensuring a positive and fulfilling experience.

We understand that the surrogacy journey is not just a transaction but a life-altering experience. Our specialists have the surrogate’s best interests at heart, serving as compassionate guides throughout the process. Advocacy, in our context, means unwavering support, a commitment to surrogates’ well-being and a dedication to ensuring a positive and empowering journey.

With the right professionals and advocacy, surrogacy can be an ethical, empowering and deeply meaningful journey. We are not just a surrogacy agency; we are partners in the surrogacy journey. You can learn more about our surrogacy practices by reaching out to a specialist now.

What Did the Pope Say About Surrogacy?

Pope Francis’s recent comments about surrogacy have resulted in increased interest in the modern application of this family-building method.

On Monday January 8^th, Pope Francis called for a global ban on surrogacy in an annual speech to diplomats outlining what the Catholic Church considers threats to global peace and humanity.

“I deem deplorable the practice of so-called surrogate motherhood, which represents a grave violation of the dignity of the woman and the child, based on the exploitation of situations of the mother’s material needs,” Pope Francis said.

The Pontiff went on to condemn the commercialization of surrogacy, saying that “a child is a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.”

Pope Francis’ recent statements keep with the Vatican’s oppositional stance on in vitro fertilization. Pope Francis as well as other critics of surrogacy say that compensated surrogacy exploits impoverished women.

These statements have caused a recent surge of interest in surrogacy. Because surrogacy is a family-building method that many people are unfamiliar with, there is also a lot of confusion.

Below, we’ll go into more detail about what surrogacy really is.

What Surrogacy is, and What Surrogacy is Not [Explained]

As a surrogacy agency with our surrogates’ best interests at heart, we empathize with the Pope’s concern for the well-being of gestational carriers. That is why we want to break down some of the Pope’s statements and show how U.S. surrogacy laws protect the surrogate, the intended parents and the baby.

1. “A child is a gift and never the basis of a commercial contract.”

First and foremost, we are in agreement with this sentiment. It’s for this reason that we provide this amazing service. There are so many deserving couples and individuals who want to grow their family, but for one reason or another, are not able to on their own.

Surrogacy allows these hopeful parents to have the family they’ve longed for.

The surrogates we work with have had children of their own and have made the choice to help these couples be able to experience the joy of parenthood.

The compensated surrogacy contract used in the U.S. ensures that the surrogate is able to financially support herself and her family, as well as to maintain her autonomy throughout the surrogacy process. Every surrogate has her own attorney who specializes in the surrogacy laws of her state to ensure that her rights are protected every step of the way.

2. “…based on the exploitation of situations of the mother’s material needs.”

Here, Pope Francis is most likely thinking of the well-documented stories of surrogacy being practiced in other nations in ways that are exploitative, dangerous and unethical. These stories shock the conscious. However, U.S. surrogacy practices are worlds apart from these reports.

In the U.S., surrogacy practices are designed to protect and empower surrogates, and never with the intent to exploit. Through a combination of state laws and medical standards from the ASRM, women considering becoming surrogates in the U.S. can feel confident that their rights and best interests are considered.

Every surrogate we work with starts her surrogacy journey on her own terms. All aspects of the surrogacy journey are done only once she has consented — and no surrogate is ever exploited.

We have surrogacy requirements in place that all of our surrogates must meet before she can begin the surrogacy process, which are based on ASRM standards. Many of these qualifications require her to her already have a strong support system, financial stability, a safe home environment and a healthy lifestyle. These requirements exist to protect the health and safety of her and the child she carries.

3. “… the life of the unborn child in the mother’s womb, which cannot be suppressed or turned into an object of trafficking.”

The safeguards and practices we implement as an agency are designed around the well-being of the child just as much they are the surrogate. Many of the requirements these women must meet before they can become surrogates through our agency pertain to the health and safety of the baby they carry, from conception through delivery.

The compensation provided to the surrogate is not payment for the child. It is for the service she’s providing and so that she can prioritize herself, the hopeful parents’ baby and her own family throughout the surrogacy journey without worrying about covering additional expenses.

Through IVF and gestational surrogacy practices, surrogates are not genetically linked to the child they carry. Before the surrogate begins the medical process of their journey, they work with their attorney to draft a contract that includes acknowledgement of the parentage of the hopeful parents they partner with. They understand that the child they’re carrying is not theirs, nor do they wish for it to be. This is also why we require that our surrogates must be currently raising a child of their own.

Surrogacy is an evolving family-building method, and not every country or organization practices or regulates it the same way. That’s why we as an agency take every measure that we can to protect and empower our surrogates on their journey of helping hopeful parents know the love and joy of building a family.

If you are considering surrogacy as a way to start or grow your family, or if you are thinking about becoming a surrogate, contact us today.

You can also learn more about surrogacy from intended parents and surrogates directly by following us on Instagram.

How to Find a Surrogate Mother

Are you looking for a surrogate? Here’s how to find a surrogate mother in three steps.

Successfully navigating surrogacy involves various steps, and the most important is finding a surrogate mother who aligns with your goals. This person will be your partner throughout the surrogacy journey, significantly impacting both your lives.

However, finding a gestational carrier on your own can be challenging and risky. At American Surrogacy, we offer guidance on finding a surrogate who aligns with your surrogacy plan, while allowing you to choose the surrogate that’s right for you.

Our team is always available to dive deeper into the process and discuss how to find a surrogate mother based on your specific surrogacy goals. We understand how important it is to find a compatible gestational carrier and are committed to supporting you at every step, ensuring a stress-free experience for intended parents.

To begin the process of finding a surrogate mother, please call us at 1-800-875-2229 (BABY). You can also reach out to us online to connect with a specialist who can walk you through how to find a surrogate.

In the meantime, here are three steps that you’ll need to take to find a surrogate.

Step 1: Partner with a Reputable Surrogacy Agency

Working with the right surrogacy agency, like American Surrogacy, can help you find a surrogate who’s been thoroughly screened. With over 20 years of matching experience through our sister agency, American Adoptions, we know what it takes to consistently bring in high-quality surrogates to our agency.

Our outreach means that even if you can’t find a surrogate from our “available surrogates” page, we can help you find the perfect surrogate through our extensive database. We also network with various attorneys, fertility clinics and social workers across the country to give you the highest chance at finding a surrogate that fits your needs.

Step 2: Get to Know Your Surrogate Through a Conference Call

Once you find a surrogate that’s the perfect fit, your surrogacy specialist will set up a conference call. This is your chance to solidify your match by asking the surrogate any questions you may have. This can help you decide if you’re comfortable working with her for the next year or so.

You’ll be able to decide how frequently you want to communicate with the surrogate and we will always be there to help you mediate communication if you need. Your specialist will also help you prepare for this conversation by giving you additional information about the surrogate’s preferences and by suggesting additional topics of conversation.

Step 3: Confirm the Match with a Surrogacy Contract

The final step in how to find a surrogate is drafting a surrogacy contract that outlines all agreements and responsibilities of everyone involved. This contract not only lays out expectations but also addresses any risks and liabilities in case an unexpected event occurs.

You and your surrogate will both need lawyers and your surrogacy specialist will help coordinate this legal process. Once the surrogacy contract is signed, your search to find a surrogate will be complete and you’ll be ready to move forward with the rest of the surrogacy process.

We take great pride in helping both intended parents and surrogates find highly qualified surrogate partners. To hear first-hand stories from intended parents and surrogates, follow us on Instagram. To learn more about how to find a surrogate with American Surrogacy, contact us at any time. We’re always ready to help make your dreams of becoming parents a reality.

5 Questions for Infertile Couples About Choosing Surrogacy

Discover how to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples and how surrogacy can be a great family-building alternative when you’re struggling with infertility.

Struggling with infertility can be an emotionally taxing and lengthy journey. After months or even years of fertility treatments without success, you may be wondering what steps to take next.

For some, surrogacy for infertile couples becomes an option when traditional methods like in-vitro fertilization haven’t worked. However, deciding to transition from infertility treatments to surrogacy is a tough choice, particularly if you still hope to experience pregnancy yourself.

You can always reach out to us now to learn more about choosing surrogacy for infertile couples. We’re always here to help you explore your options.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whether or not you want to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples. If you feel stuck and uncertain about the chances of success, you can explore remaining options, such as surrogacy or other assisted reproductive treatments. If you’re contemplating surrogacy options for infertile couples, then here are some factors to consider.

What to Know About Surrogacy for Infertile Couples

Determining whether you’re ready to shift from infertility to surrogacy varies for everyone. Each individual’s infertility journey is unique, influencing the decision to explore alternative treatments.

Often, those who choose surrogacy for infertile couples have already gone through extensive, unsuccessful fertility treatments. This prolonged effort drains their time and energy, leading to stress that can have an impact on their relationship.

If you and your partner feel drained from continuous unsuccessful attempts, you might want to reconsider your current infertility treatment strategy. If you think that you’re ready to explore other family-building alternatives, then here are some answers to the questions you may have about infertility and surrogacy.

1. If you’re infertile, can you use a surrogate?

Yes, if you’re infertile you can use a surrogate to help fulfill your dreams of becoming parents. In gestational surrogacy, the medical process involves using IVF to complete an embryo transfer. If you’re infertile then a donor’s egg or sperm may be used.

Before choosing surrogacy for infertile couples, you’ll need to consider whether your infertility treatment plan is giving you the results you need. Choosing surrogacy after infertility means putting all your focus and determination into the process.

2. Are you interested more interested in experiencing parenthood than surrogacy?

Surrogacy for infertile couples involves someone else carrying your baby for you. IVF or gamete donation can give you a chance at being pregnant while surrogacy does not. If you feel that being a parent is more important than experiencing pregnancy, you may be ready to explore surrogacy as an alternative family-building option.

3. Are you okay with someone else carrying your baby to term?

When you choose surrogacy after infertility, you may experience a loss by not being in control of your baby’s development. Although there will be a contract that will protect the rights and interests of all parties involved, you must be comfortable knowing that you can’t be there for every minute of your surrogate’s pregnancy.

But don’t worry. All surrogates are thoroughly screened to ensure that they’re emotionally and physically ready for the surrogacy process. If you’re ready to relinquish control, then surrogacy for infertile couples can be an option for you.

4. Do you have embryos leftover from your infertility treatments?

Those who choose surrogacy for infertile couples have embryos remaining from their infertility journey. Instead of taking another chance of failure with other infertility treatments, some choose to transfer an embryo to the uterus of a surrogate. Many intended parents see this as a chance to preserve their remaining embryos.

5. Do you and your partner agree on surrogacy?

This is by far one of the most important questions you should ask yourself when considering surrogacy for infertile couples. If you’re not on the same page about the process there will likely be feelings of resentment, anger and disappointment. Make sure you’re both committed to the surrogacy process before you commit to pursuing surrogacy.

Once you’ve taken these questions into account, you’ll be on the right track toward building the family you’ve always dreamed of. Your journey to parenthood can be one of the most beautiful, life-changing experiences you’ll ever have. With our help, you’ll become parents in no time.

Reach out to us today to pursue surrogacy for infertile couples. Our specialists are ready to help you begin the process, and a full online community is waiting to lend you support.

The Best Surrogate Gift Ideas for the 2023 Holiday Season

Discover some of the best surrogate gifts you can get for the 2023 holiday season with this guide.

The 2023 holiday season is upon us, and it’s the perfect time to show appreciation and gratitude to those who have made a significant impact in your lives. Whether you’re searching for a surrogate or gestational carrier, finding the right gifts for your surrogate can be a heartfelt gesture that speaks volumes.

If you’re still in the process of finding a surrogate this holiday season, contact us online now to begin your surrogacy journey with American Surrogacy. Our specialists are ready to help you become parents.

Surrogate gifts are a thoughtful way to acknowledge and celebrate your surrogate for helping fulfill your dreams of becoming parents. They’re the heroes who are committing over a year of their time and energy to help you reach your dreams of parenthood. Although surrogate gifts are never expected, it can be a great way to show surrogates how much you appreciate them.

Below are seven surrogate gifts to express your gratitude and make this holiday season unforgettable:

1. Personalized Jewelry

Consider a piece of jewelry that holds sentimental value as you look for surrogate gifts. Engraved bracelets, necklaces, or rings with meaningful dates, initials or heartfelt messages can be a cherished reminder of the special bond shared. Some ideas can be a piece of jewelry with her birthstone, a meaningful charm bracelet or something with the baby’s name and birth date on it.

2. Self-Care Gift Baskets

Show appreciation by pampering your surrogate with a self-care gift basket. The surrogate gift basket can be filled with soothing bath bombs, scented candles, organic skincare products and a plush robe for the ultimate relaxation experience.

You can also make a care package that the surrogate can utilize at any point during pregnancy or even right after delivery. Some surrogate gifts you can get her to include in the package can be comfy slippers, books or magazines, hand or body lotion and more. Anything that helps the surrogate relax can be included in the self-care package.

3. Customized Keepsakes

Capture precious moments by gifting personalized photo albums, custom-made photo frames or a collage capturing milestones throughout the journey. These mementos serve as a beautiful reminder of the shared experience. A scrapbook that details her surrogate journey can also be included as a great customized gift for a surrogate mother.

4. Subscription Services

Consider gifting a subscription box tailored to their interests, such as gourmet food, book clubs, wellness products or even a streaming service subscription. It’s a gift for surrogates that keeps on giving throughout the year and can also help them recover post-delivery.

5. Handwritten Letters or Journals

Surrogate gifts don’t have to be something expensive. You can show your appreciation through something simple as heartfelt, handwritten letters or journals. Share your thoughts, appreciation and the impact their support has had on your life. Personalized surrogate gifts often hold sentimental value and remind the surrogate how much you support them.

6. Home Décor and Gift Cards

Help create a cozy and inviting space by gifting home décor surrogate gifts or gift cards to their favorite home goods store. Thoughtful items like decorative throw pillows, cozy blankets or elegant vases can enhance their living space as they prepare for delivery. Surrogates will go through a nesting phase as they prepare for the arrival of the baby and new home décor can help them make their space more comfortable.

7. Thoughtful Experiences

Surrogate gifts can be an experience, such as tickets to a show, a cooking class, a weekend getaway or a spa day. Consider their interests and choose an experience gift for your surrogate that allows them to relax or indulge in something they love. This gift doesn’t have to be extravagant and can be a great way for the surrogate to unwind and have a safe, healthy pregnancy.

Support Your Surrogate This Holiday Season

Remember, the best surrogate gifts are not necessarily the most expensive but those that come from the heart and demonstrate your gratitude for their support.

Before selecting a gift, take the time to understand the surrogate’s preferences and interests. What matters most is the thought and effort put into choosing surrogate gifts that acknowledge their time, energy and sacrifices. This holiday season, let your surrogate know how much they mean to you with a thoughtful, heartfelt gift that reflects your appreciation for their selfless act of kindness.

If you have any questions about how to make your surrogate’s experience better or about the surrogacy process in general, contact us online now to connect with a surrogacy specialist, or consult our online community of surrogates and intended parents.

4 Benefits of Using a Known Egg Donor

Using a known egg donor allows you to know more about your baby’s potential genetic makeup.

The process of finding the right egg donor in your surrogacy journey can be an emotional journey. With the growing popularity of using a known egg donor, anonymous egg donors are a thing of the past.

Now that DNA tests are readily available, more intended parents are exploring the possibilities and advantages of choosing a known egg donor over an anonymous one.

Below, we dive into the four key benefits of using a known egg donor and provide guidance on how to find the perfect fit.

To learn more about the surrogacy medical process, check out this article

1. Establishing a Personal Connection

One of the most significant advantages of using a known egg donor is the potential for establishing a personal connection. This choice allows you to foster a relationship with the donor, leading to a deeper understanding of their personality, values and beliefs.

Choosing a known egg donor can foster a sense of trust and ease, creating a more emotionally supportive environment throughout the process.

2. Comprehensive Knowledge of Medical History

Understanding the medical history of the egg donor can significantly impact the health and well-being of your child. Known egg donors provide you with a comprehensive insight into their family’s medical background, including any hereditary conditions or genetic predispositions.

This can help you prepare for any potential health challenges that may arise throughout your child’s life.

3. Shared Genetic Connection

Using a known egg donor can offer the unique benefit of establishing a shared genetic connection between the donor and the child. This shared genetic link can play a vital role in the child’s sense of identity and belonging, fostering a deeper understanding of their biological roots and heritage.

By choosing a known egg donor, you can ensure that your child has the opportunity to learn about their biological origins and family medical history, fostering a sense of connection and understanding. This knowledge enables them to develop a comprehensive understanding of their identity, promoting a stronger sense of self-awareness and emotional well-being as they grow and navigate their own personal journey.

4. Openness to Future Communication

Unlike the anonymity associated with traditional egg donation, choosing a known egg donor allows for the possibility of open communication in the future.

This openness can facilitate a healthy and transparent relationship, enabling your child to have access to information about their biological origins and potentially establish a meaningful connection with the donor later in life.

How to Find a Known Egg Donor

Finding a known egg donor involves careful consideration and planning. Here are some practical steps to help you navigate the process:

Work with a fertility clinic or agency that specializes in known egg donor arrangements.
Network within your community and reach out to friends, family or acquaintances who may be willing to serve as an egg donor.
Consult with legal professionals to ensure that all aspects of the donation process, including legal agreements and rights, are thoroughly understood and documented.

The decision to use a known egg donor comes with its own set of considerations and benefits. While weighing the pros and cons of different options, you’ll want to find a suitable and trusted known egg donor who aligns with your values and aspirations for your future family.

To speak with a surrogacy specialist about the process of using a known egg donor, contact us online now to get more free information. You can also connect with a community of intended parents just like you through our Instagram page.

What are the Benefits of Surrogacy for Parents?

Surrogacy is a family-building option that will empower you in ways other paths may not be able to on your journey to parenthood.

As one of the leading surrogacy agencies in the U.S., we know what it takes to fulfill your dreams of becoming parents. The benefits of surrogacy plus the unconditional support we offer can pave the way on your journey to parenthood. We know the road hasn’t been easy and with our help you’ll be on the right track toward holding your baby for the first time.

We’ve helped thousands of parents start a family and we’re ready to do the same for you.

If you have any questions about the surrogacy process, check out this article.

What Are the Benefits of Surrogacy?

Becoming a parent through surrogacy has never been easier. At American Surrogacy, you don’t have to wait any longer to become parents. One of the main advantages of choosing surrogacy as a path to parenthood is that the wait times are significantly lower. We offer an exclusive program designed to only work with quality surrogates who are American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) qualified.

This can significantly lower your wait time because all our surrogates have been screened to ensure they’re ready for the process. One of the benefits of surrogacy with our agency is that we carefully balance our list of surrogates and intended parents so you aren’t competing with other families for a match.

Why Become a Parent Through Surrogacy? [4 Reasons]

1. An Opportunity to Grow Your Family

Surrogacy is an amazing family-building option, offering hope to parents whose journey to parenthood has been marked by hurdles and setbacks. When other methods such as natural conception or adoption have proven elusive, surrogacy can help you realize your dreams of expanding your family. This method is particularly invaluable for individuals struggling with infertility, same-sex couples or those facing medical conditions that make pregnancy impossible.

With the support of modern medical advancements and legal frameworks, surrogacy has the power to transform heartbreak into joy, uniting parents and surrogates to bring new life into the world.

Connect with the surrogacy community through our Instagram.

2. More Control Over Your Family-Building Journey

Surrogacy stands out as a more controlled process for parents when compared to other family-building methods. Unlike adoption, where the process can be unpredictable and may involve complex legal and emotional factors, surrogacy offers a greater level of predictability. In surrogacy, parents can actively participate in the selection of their surrogate, ensuring compatibility and trust, which is often not possible in adoption.

The medical aspects of surrogacy are more manageable, allowing parents to closely monitor the prenatal environment and have a more direct influence on the pregnancy experience. This control is particularly essential for individuals or couples with specific medical concerns or those seeking a specific genetic makeup for their child. Surrogacy provides a structured, customizable, and well-regulated path to parenthood, offering a sense of assurance and empowerment throughout the family-building journey.

3. The Quickest Path to Parenthood

We know how much you’ve wanted to start or grow your family. One of the benefits of surrogacy with our agency is that we bring that wait to an end by helping you find the best surrogate for your family in the shortest amount of time. With our one of a kind 1:1 intended parent to surrogacy ratio, we can help you find a surrogate in an average of 30-90 days.

Because we balance this list so effectively, we’re able to help you become a parent through surrogacy as quickly and efficiently as possible.

3. Partner with High-Quality Surrogates

Opting for surrogacy affords parents the opportunity to collaborate with high-quality surrogates, ensuring a level of professionalism, commitment and medical suitability that may be challenging to find in other family-building methods. Surrogates who choose to embark on this extraordinary journey are meticulously screened, both physically and psychologically, to guarantee their ability to provide a safe and nurturing environment for your child.

They are often well-informed and dedicated individuals who genuinely want to help prospective parents achieve their dreams of having a family. This selection process ensures that you can trust in the surrogate’s reliability, health and emotional stability. This level of quality and preparedness, combined with the legal and medical support provided, makes surrogacy a prime choice for parents seeking a secure and positive path to parenthood.

4. Experienced Staff Ready to Support You

Our staff has years of experience helping those who want to become a parent through surrogacy. As you work with us on your path to parenthood, you can be comfortable and confident knowing that our staff has more than 40 years of experience building families through surrogacy and adoption.

Through our financial protection and unlimited matching, we work hard to make sure you experience a safe, secure process.

You shouldn’t have to wait any longer for your child. The benefits of surrogacy with our program are designed to specifically help you become parents as quickly and efficiently as possible. With our thorough surrogate screening process, you’ll be able to connect with a highly qualified surrogate you feel confident moving forward with.

To begin looking at potential surrogates, check out some of the available surrogate situations here. If you would like to connect with a surrogacy consultant, contact us online now.