While medical reasons and physical limitations often lead hopeful parents to surrogacy, we understand that some may consider this path for other deeply personal or social reasons.
Many agencies and clinics often requires a letter of medical recommendation from your doctor, however, if a medical reason cannot be provided in writing, we may still be able to assist in specific, legally permissible cases through social surrogacy.
To learn more about whether social surrogacy is a family-building option for you, contact us today.
Whether you’re exploring surrogacy due to documented medical necessity or other reasons, we provide comprehensive guidance on requirements, ethical considerations, and alternatives.
Why Do People Choose Surrogacy?
Surrogacy is an opportunity to grow your family if doing so on your own is out of the realm of possibility.
Everyone deserves the chance to have a family and you may decide to use a surrogate for reasons such as:
- Infertility
- Being a same-sex couple
- Age
- Being unable to carry a baby to term
- Not wanting to pass on health conditions or genetic defects
- You’re a single parent
- Trauma during pregnancy or childbirth
What Is Social Surrogacy?
Typically surrogacy is a family-building method for those who cannot physically conceive on their own for medical reasons or because they’re a same-sex couple.
Elective surrogacy is term used to refer to surrogacy chosen by intended parents who are able to become pregnant on t their own, but do not want to experience pregnancy or child birth, don’t want to take time off work, or they have a career or hobbies that don’t align with a safe pregnancy.
Can You Have A Surrogate Without a Medical Need?
Possibly. While we do not support choosing surrogacy without a medical reason, having a formal medical diagnosis is not a hard denial.
The couples and individuals we work with primarily seek surrogacy because pregnancy is unlikely, impossible, or dangerous for them.
Depending on your situation, we can facilitate social surrogacy arrangements for intended parents who cannot obtain a medical diagnosis letter.
Social surrogacy options are not available in all states and are not offered by all fertility clinics. We must carefully match intended parents with the appropriate clinic and ensure the arrangement complies with relevant state laws.
Why is a Medical Diagnosis Often Preferred or Required?
We understand that the desire to be a parent is a powerful, fundamental need, and we are committed to helping you fulfill that dream.
Surrogacy journeys often involve a letter from a physician outlining a medical need for surrogacy because agencies and clinics typically seek to prioritize their time and resources to ethically assist intended parents whose path to parenthood has been made medically unlikely, impossible, or dangerous.
We have deep experience working alongside infertile couples who have endured the heartache of trying to conceive on their own, as well as LGBT couples who have long yearned to build a family through third-party options like surrogacy.
However, if you are unable to secure a medical letter, please know that we may still be able to assist you through social surrogacy.
This option allows us to extend our commitment to family-building, though eligibility is strictly dependent on the policies of your chosen fertility clinic and the laws of the intended state.
Valuing Our Surrogates
The surrogates we work with share our profound goal of wanting to help others realize their dream of family, especially those who cannot carry a pregnancy on their own.
We want to ensure that when they match with you, you fully appreciate their brave decision to offer you the incredible gift of experiencing parenthood.
We also want to protect our surrogates’ time and well-being by partnering exclusively with intended parents who truly value and appreciate the profound service our surrogates provide, regardless of the specific circumstances—medical or otherwise—that led you to surrogacy.
Possible Alternatives to Surrogacy
If you want to grow your family but don’t want to carry a pregnancy, and the genetic connection is not a primary concern, adoption may be an excellent option for you.
While you won’t be genetically related to your child, you will have the unique opportunity to be chosen as adoptive parents by a mother seeking to give their child the best possible future with an amazing, loving family. You can reach out to our adoption specialists today to learn more.
Find out if Social Surrogacy is an Option for You
We understand that for many intended parents, the desire for a genetic link is paramount.
While we primarily work with intended parents who have faced medical barriers to pregnancy, we encourage couples or individuals pursuing surrogacy for non-medical reasons to reach out.
We believe everyone deserves the chance to experience the profound joy of parenthood.
To learn more about the specific surrogacy options available to you, contact us today.