Becoming a surrogate is one of the most rewarding decisions you can make. Not only do you help a family grow, but you also earn meaningful compensation and experience the unique bond that comes with giving the gift of life.
We’ve got everything you need to know, from the initial steps to navigating the surrogacy process, so you can confidently start your surrogacy journey today.
Ready to make a difference? Start your surrogacy application now to see if you’re a good fit!
How to Prepare to Be a Surrogate Mother
Step 1: Meet the Surrogacy Requirements
The first step to preparing to become a surrogate is ensuring you meet the necessary requirements. These may vary slightly depending on the agency, but typically include:
- Age range 21-40 years old
- A healthy BMI and good physical health are essential.
- You need to have had at least one healthy pregnancy
- Currently raising a child
- No major complications from previous pregnancies
Additionally, avoid getting tattoos at least 12 months prior to the surrogacy process and refrain from antidepressants for a year before starting.
Step 2: Commit to the Time Frame
Surrogacy is a long-term commitment, often taking 12-18 months from start to finish.
This includes the time spent on medical screenings, fertility treatments, the pregnancy itself and recovery. It’s important to evaluate your personal and professional life to ensure you can make this commitment.
Make arrangements with your job, family and social obligations and ensure you’ll be able to stay in the same geographical area during this period.
Planning for the long haul? Start making arrangements for the coming months by speaking with a surrogacy specialist today.
Step 3: Make the Appropriate Work Arrangements
As you prepare for this incredible journey, you’ll need to consider your work situation.
Some employers offer maternity leave, but if yours doesn’t or if you expect to lose wages during your pregnancy, you can negotiate this into your surrogate compensation package.
Make sure to check with your human resources department or boss to understand their maternity leave policy and inform them of your plans.
We can help make sure your surrogate compensation package covers these potential losses.
Step 4: Talk to Your Family
Becoming a surrogate is a team effort, and your family’s support is crucial for a smooth and positive experience.
Sit down with your spouse, children and other family members to discuss the journey. Open communication helps everyone understand the process and the emotions that may come up.
This step is an important part of creating a positive experience for everyone involved.
Step 5: Cultivate Healthy Habits
Taking care of your body is one of the best ways to ensure you meet the requirements to become a surrogate and to achieve and sustain a healthy pregnancy.
Preparing physically and mentally will not only help you feel your best but also ensure that you’re giving your intended parents the best chance for success.
Here are some tips to get you ready:
- Start taking prenatal vitamins
- Cut back on alcohol and caffeine
- Get moving with light exercise, such as walking or yoga
- Prioritize a balanced, nutritious diet
- Speak with a mental health counselor to ensure emotional readiness
- Connect with a surrogacy specialist to guide you through the process
These healthy habits will help you stay strong, both physically and mentally, throughout the surrogacy process.
Step 6: Legal and Financial Considerations
You’ll earn surrogate compensation starting anywhere in the range of $50,000-$110,000 depending on your experience and the cost of living in your area.
You are compensated for your time and energy that you’re dedicating toward helping someone else have a family. Your compensation will also include reimbursements for medical expenses and any other costs associated with the surrogacy process.
We will also guide you through the legal process, which includes contracts outlining the responsibilities and rights of all parties.
It’s important to have a clear understanding of what to expect and feel confident in the arrangements you’re making.
Questions about surrogate compensation? Contact us today to learn how much you can earn as a surrogate.
Why Surrogacy is Worth It
Becoming a surrogate allows you to bring joy to families who might otherwise never have the chance to experience parenthood while earning compensation to support your family’s future.
It’s a beautiful journey that requires preparation, but the experience is worth every step.
Are you ready to begin your surrogacy journey in 2025? Contact us now to get started, and let’s make your surrogacy dream a reality.