The Surrogate’s Guide to the Two-Week Wait

Waiting for pregnancy confirmation can be challenging for surrogates. Whether you’re feeling anxious or just need advice, we’ve got you covered every step of the way.

The two week wait (TWW) after an embryo transfer is the critical period when surrogates and intended parents await pregnancy confirmation.

Focusing on your physical and emotional well-being can help these next two weeks will fly by.

Keep reading to learn how to increase your implantation chances, and navigate the next two weeks physically and emotionally.

The two-week wait can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone. Reach out today and let’s talk about how we can support you through this phase of your surrogacy journey.

What is the Two Week Wait?

The two week wait refers to waiting two weeks after embryo transfer before testing for pregnancy.

Pregnancy tests look for a hormone called human chorionic gonadotropin, or HCG. Your body always has a small amount of HCG, but on a successful implantation, production of the hormone ramps up.

It takes between two and three weeks for HCG to build up enough to detect a pregnancy. This means if you take the test too soon, it won’t be able to make an accurate determination, and will likely read as negative.

For the most accurate results, wait between 14 and 16 days before testing.

Two Week Wait Symptoms

Some women experience many early pregnancy symptoms and some don’t experience any at all. Early pregnancy symptoms can present as very similar to premenstrual symptoms.

This means, whether you have symptoms or not isn’t necessarily predictive of pregnancy.

Some of the more common two week wait symptoms include:

  • Cramping. Mild uterine cramping can be expected early on after implantation.
  • Fatigue. It’s thought that the rapid hormone production is partially responsible for the common feelings of tiredness that occur throughout the first trimester.  
  • Increased urination. During pregnancy your body has much more blood than usual, which causes your kidneys to produce more urine.
  • Irritability. The influx of strong new hormones can cause mood swings and extreme emotions.
  • Light spotting. This may be one of your first signs of pregnancy. Implantation causes some minor bleeding as embryos attach to the lining of your uterus. This usually happens between 10 and 14 days after implantation.

If you have any questions or concerns about symptoms during the two-week wait, contact your physician immediately.

Learn more about what symptoms and side-effects you may experience during the two week wait by reading our article about what to expect after the embryo transfer.

When to See a Doctor

Severe symptoms should be taken seriously. If you experience any of these, contact your doctor and seek medical attention immediately.

  • Heavy bleeding
  • Severe pain
  • Fever

How to Support Implantation in the Two Week Wait

There are plenty of ways during the two week wait to help embryos implant. The most important thing during this period is taking care of yourself.

Be intentional about your self-care, and pay attention to your mood, your stress levels and your physical symptoms.

Remember, you’re not alone. Your intended parents are on this journey right alongside you, and are likely experiencing much of the same anxiety and anticipation as you are.

Relying on and communicating with each other through this time can lead to an enduring and greatly fulfilling support system.

What to Do During the Two Week Wait:

  • Rest and relax: Rest allows your body to conserve energy and focus on nurturing the embryo during the critical implantation period.  
  • Stay hydrated: Staying hydrated supports healthy blood circulation and hormonal balance.
  • Eat a balanced diet: A nutrient-rich diet can help your body create a healthy environment for embryo implantation. Focus on whole, unprocessed foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins and healthy fats.
  • Take prenatal vitamins: Prenatal vitamins contain essential nutrients that help support implantation. Continue taking prenatal vitamins as prescribed by your healthcare provider.
  • Practice gentle movement: Gentle physical activity increases blood flow to the reproductive organs, which can help facilitate implantation. With your doctor’s approval, engage in low-impact activities like walking, swimming or yoga.
  • Avoid stressors: Stress hormones can disrupt your body’s hormonal balance and interfere with the implantation process.
  • Stay in touch with your doctor: Keep your doctor informed about any unusual symptoms or changes you experience during this time.

What to Avoid During the Two Week Wait

  • Overexert yourself: Intense physical activity can elevate cortisol levels, which might disrupt hormone balance. Avoid strenuous workouts, heavy lifting or any activity that puts undue pressure on your body.
  • Overanalyze symptoms: Obsessing over symptoms can increase anxiety and lead to unnecessary stress. Instead, trust the process and give your body the time it needs to adjust.
  • Test too early: Pregnancy tests rely on the hormone HCG, which may not be detectable until about 14 days after the embryo transfer. Avoid taking pregnancy tests early on in the two week wait.
  • Isolating: The emotional stress of the two week wait can feel overwhelming. Reach out to your support system, including your intended parents, friends or a counselor if you need additional emotional support.
  • Smoking: Avoid smoking and recreational drugs. Certain substances or lifestyle choices can interfere with the success of embryo implantation.

Foods and Drinks to Avoid During the Two-Week Wait

  • Caffeine: Caffeine can constrict blood vessels, potentially affecting the uterine lining and implantation success. Excessive caffeine can also lead to dehydration. Avoid coffee, black tea, energy drinks and sodas that contain caffeine.
  • Alcohol: Alcohol is linked to an increased risk of miscarriage, failed implantation and developmental issues.
  • Unpasteurized dairy: Unpasteurized dairy products, like certain cheeses, milk and yogurt, carry a risk of bacterial infection (such as Listeria), which can negatively impact implantation and pregnancy.
  • Processed or junk foods: Highly processed foods are often high in sugars and additives that can disrupt hormones necessary for implantation. Avoid fast food, packaged snacks, sugary drinks and foods high in trans fats.

How to Involve Your Intended Parents During the Two Week Wait

The two-week wait is a unique and emotionally charged time for both surrogates and intended parents. Involving your intended parents in the process can help strengthen your bond and provide mutual support.

Have questions about how to support your intended parents? Reach out to us for guidance today.

Here are some ways to keep them engaged and informed while maintaining emotional balance:

1. Share Milestones and Updates

While waiting, keep your intended parents updated on any milestones, no matter how small.

Whether it’s a positive feeling you’re experiencing or a health update, involving them in the journey can help them feel connected and reduce their anxiety.

2. Keep Them in the Loop with Symptom Tracking

Consider sharing your symptoms and how you’re feeling physically. If you’re experiencing fatigue, cramping or mood changes, let your intended parents know.

This involvement can help them feel a part of the process while also providing them reassurance.

3. Encourage Positive Communication

Encourage your intended parents to reach out, even if it’s just a quick message of support. Regular check-ins, even if brief, can help you feel supported while also easing their anticipation.

Sharing positive thoughts, encouragement and excitement can create a hopeful atmosphere.

4. Reassure Them with Your Self-Care

Let your intended parents know that you’re taking great care of yourself. Share the steps you’re taking to relax, de-stress, and stay healthy, whether it’s yoga, walks or extra sleep.

This can help ease their worries, knowing that you’re physically and emotionally prepared for whatever comes next.

5. Ask for Their Support When You Need It

If you’re feeling anxious or uncertain, it’s okay to lean on your intended parents for emotional support. Even if they can’t take away the uncertainty, their words of encouragement can make a big difference.

Sharing your vulnerability can strengthen the trust and connection between you.

Coping During the Two-week Wait for Surrogacy

This can be a challenging wait, so remember to be gentle with yourself. While you wait, try to stay positive, practice self-care, reach out to your community and find ways to stay busy.

  • Maintain a routine: A predictable daily routine can provide structure, reduce anxiety and gives you a sense of control during a time when much feels uncertain.
  • Limit online searches: The temptation to research every possible symptom or read about others’ experiences is high, but this can lead to unnecessary stress or confusion. Set limits on how often you check online forums or search symptoms.
  • Lean on your community: Reach out to your family, friends and other connections you value. Surrounding yourself with caring, compassionate voices during this critical time can be uplifting.
  • Stay busy: Keeping your mind occupied can prevent overthinking and make the time pass more quickly. Pass the time with books, TV, crafts, talks with friends, exercise or whatever makes you happy.
  • Be prepared for the possibility of any outcome: Keeping an open mind and setting realistic expectations can reduce the emotional blow if the outcome is not what you hoped for. Talk with your partner about what you would both do if the test is positive or negative.

Two Week Wait FAQ:

Can you Exercise during the Two Week Wait?

Yes, generally you can exercise during the two week wait, but try to keep to low-impact activities and avoid strenuous exercise.  Talk with your physician for personalized direction.

Can you Use a Hot Tub during Two Week Wait?

No, avoid entering a hot tub during this time period.

Can you do Hot Yoga during Two Week Wait?

No. Hot yoga is considered strenuous exercise. Light aerobic activity (like yoga at a regular temperature) is a better option for surrogates.

Can you fly during Two Week Wait?

Yes, flying will not affect your chances of implantation.

Can you swim during the Two Week Wait?

Yes. Generally swimming is not advised against. Talk with your physician for personalized direction.

Can you Drink Coffee during the Two Week Wait?

No. It’s thought that caffeine causes blood vessels in the uterus to constrict, which will negatively impact your chances of implantation. Avoid all forms of caffeine, including coffee, decaf coffee, dark sodas, black tea and decaf tea.

Can you Eat Sushi during the Two Week Wait?

No. Raw food carries a heightened risk of causing infection or food poisoning, which will negatively impact your chances of implantation. Avoid any food that contains raw meat or eggs, like sushi, torisashi, steak tartare, eggnog, cookie dough and other similar foods.

Can you drink during the Two Week Wait?

No. Drinking alcohol is not advised during this wait or at any point during gestation. Alcohol use in early pregnancy or even pre-pregnancy is linked to miscarriages and failed implantations.

Can you have Sex during Two Week Wait?

No. While sex may not have negative effects during this time for naturally conceiving couples, it’s generally advised against after an embryo transfer. It could also go against the terms of your surrogacy contract. Check with your physician and your surrogacy coordinator.

Can you take Advil during the Two Week Wait?

No. Anti-inflammatory medication like ibuprofen (the primary active medication in Advil) changes your blood pressure. Usually, this change is small enough to not cause problems; however, there are some studies that link ibuprofen and its side effects to early-pregnancy miscarriage.

Can you take Antibiotics during the Two Week Wait?

Yes. Antibiotics will not affect your chances of implantation.

Can you take Benadryl during the Two Week Wait?

Yes. Benadryl is safe to use during the two week wait, however, it becomes unsafe later in pregnancy. Talk with your physician for personalized direction.

Surrogacy Support

Your two week wait is a delicate time, full of anticipation, but we believe you can make it through. Wherever you are in the process, we’ll be here with you every step of the way.

Are you ready to begin your surrogacy journey? We’re here to provide support, from the two-week wait to your delivery day. Contact us today.

Surrogacy for Cancer Survivors: Building Your Family After Treatment

Surrogacy for couples with a history of cancer treatment can provide a path to parenthood, especially when fertility is impacted. If you’re a cancer survivor considering surrogacy, this article offers the information and resources you need to take the next step toward growing your family.

If you’re a cancer survivor or have a history of cancer treatment, surrogacy can offer a path to parenthood.

Whether your reproductive organs were affected by cancer treatments or for other reasons, surrogacy can provide the opportunity to fulfill your dream of becoming a parent.

Get in touch with us online to find out more about how to become a parent through surrogacy. We’re here for you whenever you need us.

This article will take a look at certain situations where surrogacy may need to play a role in your journey to becoming a parent and how you can start that process.

How Surrogacy for Cancer Survivors Can Help Build Your Family

For cancer survivors, surrogacy can be a more effective option for parenthood. If your fertility was impacted by treatment, using a surrogate allows you to overcome those challenges.

Surrogates are thoroughly screened to ensure they’re capable of achieving and safely carrying a pregnancy, which includes verifying medical histories and providing records of successful past pregnancies and births.

By using a surrogate, cancer survivors can increase the chances of a successful pregnancy, while avoiding complications that could arise from carrying a pregnancy themselves.

If you already have embryos created, we can match you with a surrogate quickly. Fill out our simple form to view our highly-qualified surrogates.

If you’re in the embryo creation process we can walk you through the necessary paperwork to get started so that you have one less thing to tackle when your embryos are ready.

Reasons to Consider Surrogacy After Cancer Treatment

Surrogacy for cancer survivors is a viable option for growing a family. Several circumstances may lead you to consider surrogacy:

  • Reproductive organ damage from cancer treatment, such as chemotherapy or radiation.
  • Reproductive organ removal as part of your cancer treatment plan.
  • You froze eggs or embryos before undergoing cancer treatment but IVF has been unsuccessful.
  • IVF with donor eggs has been unsuccessful.
  • Low egg quality or low ovarian reserve due to effects from cancer treatment.

If you or your partner has faced fertility challenges due to cancer treatment, surrogacy provides an opportunity to build the family you’ve always envisioned.

Can cancer treatment cause infertility?

Yes, cancer treatments, including chemotherapy and radiation, can have significant impacts on fertility. These treatments may damage reproductive organs, disrupt hormone levels or lead to infertility.

As a result, many cancer survivors experience infertility after cancer treatment.

Your doctor should discuss how specific treatments may affect your fertility and explore the option of surrogacy for cancer patients.

Several factors influence how cancer treatment affects fertility, such as:

  • Age at the time of treatment: Younger patients may have better fertility preservation options.
  • Type of cancer: Uterine and ovarian cancers may impact your reproductive organs, resulting in infertility.
  • Extent and duration of treatment: More intensive or prolonged treatments may have a greater impact.
  • Baseline fertility: You may have been struggling with infertility prior to your cancer diagnosis and/or treatment.
  • Other health conditions: Other personal health factors like autoimmune and thyroid disorders can affect fertility outcomes after cancer.

Affording Surrogacy: Grants for Cancer Patients

While surrogacy for couples with a history of cancer treatment is a valuable option, the process can be expensive.

If you have been through cancer treatment, the medical costs associated with that could have you concerned about the costs associated with surrogacy.

Fortunately, several surrogacy grants for cancer patients are available.

These include grants for surrogacy after chemo, surrogacy after cancer and more. Here are a few:

  • Heart Beat Program: Provides certain fertility medications for free to eligible patients who have received a diagnosis of cancer and had no chemotherapy within the past 12 months.
  • LIVESTRONG Fertility: Provides financial assistance for fertility treatment for those diagnosed with cancer.
  • Worth the Wait: Provides financial support for fertility treatments, adoption and surrogacy to young adult cancer survivors pursuing parenthood.
  • The SAM Fund:Provides scholarships to young adult cancer survivors for cancer-associated costs in two categories: Storage of eggs, embryos or sperm (up to $1000.00) and Expenses for fertility procedures such as testing, IUI, IVF, gestational carrier, adoption, etc. (up to $4000).
  • Starfish Infertility Foundation: The Bexleigh and Braxton grants give couples that do not have infertility insurance or financial resources to pay for infertility treatments.

We understand the financial strain that cancer treatment and surrogacy can place on families. Learn about financing options that may help you cover the cost of your surrogacy journey.

Exploring Surrogacy After Cancer [Get the Support You Deserve]

People from all walks of life and background pursue surrogacy for various reasons. Surrogacy after cancer is one of them.

Surrogacy after cancer treatment follows the same general steps as any surrogacy journey, but with additional emotional and medical support tailored to your specific needs as a cancer survivor.

Here’s a breakdown of what you can expect:

  • Step 1. Contact Us: Reach out to our team to discuss your options and get a personalized consultation on surrogacy after cancer treatment. Fill out our quick and easy form now.
  • Step 2. Find the Perfect Surrogate: Based on your needs and preferences, we will help you find a surrogate in as quickly as 1-6 months.
  • Step 3. Begin the Legal Process: Your surrogacy attorney will guide you through the contract process, ensuring you are protected legally.
  • Step 4. The Embryo Transfer: Once the surrogate is ready, the embryo transfer is scheduled. This step involves transferring a fertilized embryo into the surrogate’s uterus.
  • Step 5. The Birth of Your Baby: As you welcome your new child into the world, you’ll experience the joy and fulfillment of becoming parents.

Get in Touch to Learn More About Surrogacy for Cancer Survivors

If you’re considering surrogacy after cancer treatment, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

Contact us to learn more about how we can assist you on your path to parenthood.

Should I Quit My Job For IVF?

Balancing IVF and your career is a deeply personal decision influenced by stress, finances and long-term goals. Learn how surrogacy can provide a path forward if IVF feels overwhelming.

It’s not always easy to know how to balance your career and your fertility journey.

Each individual will have their own answer to this question; hopefully we can help you consider the possible effects of quitting work for IVF from all angles.

This article will help you weigh the pros and cons, from financial factors and appointment flexibility to maintaining your career and exploring other options.

If you’re struggling to balance your career and fertility journey, we’re here to help. Contact us today for guidance to find the best path forward for your family.

Should I Quit my Job for IVF?: 5 Considerations

Deciding between working during IVF and quitting your job depends on factors like job stress, financial stability and your personal IVF journey.  

Leaving a job is a major life event for anyone, especially prospective parents. Any decision you and your family make is valid. Before making up your mind, consider the situation from these points of view.

1. Is Your Job Adding Stress to Your IVF Journey??

A stressful job and IVF can be a lot to cope with at once, the stress of one adding to the stress the other.

Some women experience the stress of their careers as negatively impacting their pregnancy. It’s well established that stress can affect fertility; whether or not your job adds stress to your life is contingent on your individual circumstances.

2. Can You Afford IVF Without Your Income?

IVF is an expensive process, costing an average of $25,000 – and most prospective parents will need more than one round.  Affording IVF can be challenging for a single or no-income family.

Before quitting, explore alternatives like IVF grants, insurance benefits or adjusting your budget.

Need help exploring financial options for IVF or surrogacy? Contact us today to learn about grants, insurance coverage and alternative solutions like surrogacy or check out our article on financial resources for your fertility journey.

3. Are You Able to Take Time off Work for IVF Appointments?

IVF requires strict scheduling for medical procedures, and appointment timing can conflict with work hours.

If your job is time-consuming and not flexible with granting time off, IVF while working full-time may make difficult to attend appointments.

Talk to your employer about taking time off work for IVF appointments or consider remote work options.

4. Will You Be Able to Return to Your Old Job?

A career break might leave gaps on your resume, which could affect future job prospects. While resume gaps are becoming a bit more acceptable, they still may not be ideal.

Consider whether or not your job will be protected, and for how long, if you take time off work for IVF, or if you’d feel comfortable re-entering the workforce later. 

5. Are You Fulfilled Outside of IVF?

For some, working during IVF can be a welcome escape from stress as they wait for their results. Others prefer to dedicate all their energy and attention into the process. Reflect on what helps you feel most supported and balanced.

IVF and Working Full-Time: Managing Time and Stress

IVF is stressful enough on its own. Depending on the kind of career you have, IVF and working full-time can be physically and emotionally exhausting.

If you’re juggling a stressful job and IVF, quitting may benefit your mental and physical wellbeing, which can translate to higher success rates in your fertility journey.

However, some women experience their job as a sense of joy and security through the IVF process. The day-to-day routine and sense of tangible progress work can provide may reduce stress and foster a more positive mindset.

If your employer has a strict policy on time off, it may require more strategic planning.

Tips for Time Management

  • Plan Appointments in Advance: As soon as you receive your IVF treatment schedule, mark all key dates on your calendar. Try to book appointments for early mornings or after work hours, if possible, to minimize disruptions to your workday.
  • Take Advantage of Remote Work or Flexible Hours: If your job offers flexibility, adjust your hours around your IVF appointments. A more adaptable work schedule can significantly reduce stress.
  • Communicate with Your Employer: Be upfront with your employer about the time-sensitive nature of IVF appointments. Having open communication can help them understand your situation and may lead to a more supportive work environment.
  • Create a Buffer for Recovery: Plan a few extra days off after major procedures like egg retrieval. Having time to rest and recuperate before returning to work can make a significant difference in how you feel both physically and emotionally.

To help manage the emotional challenges of IVF and working full-time, here are some practical strategies that can provide support during this demanding time.

Tips for Coping Emotionally

  • Set Boundaries: Be clear with yourself and your employer about the emotional toll IVF is taking. It’s okay to admit that you’re struggling and may need a bit more flexibility in your work hours or responsibilities.
  • Seek Emotional Support: Whether it’s a partner, family member, close friend or therapist, having someone to lean on during the IVF process can help you manage the emotional rollercoaster.
  • Practice Stress-Relief Techniques: Integrating practices like deep breathing, meditation, or yoga can help you remain calm and centered during stressful moments. Even 10-minute breaks can make a difference.
  • Be Kind to Yourself: IVF is hard, and you’re doing the best you can. Accepting that it’s okay to not be at your best during this time can reduce unnecessary self-pressure.

The decision to continue working during IVF or stepping away is deeply personal.

We know you’re dedicated to your parenthood journey. This decision comes down to you, what you feel and what your body is telling you.

Do I Tell My Boss I’m Doing IVF?

Telling your boss you’re undergoing IVF may allow you to request special considerations, like flexible hours or extra time off.

The answer really depends on your workplace culture, your relationship with your employer, and your comfort level.

Many employers, especially those with family-friendly policies, may be more than willing to offer accommodations that make balancing IVF and work easier.

Here are some tips to help you approach the discussion with confidence and clarity:

  1. Plan Ahead: If you’re preparing to speak with your boss about your IVF journey, be sure to prepare ahead of time. Being clear about your needs can help your boss understand the situation and find ways to support you. If you need more flexibility with your schedule or deadlines, communicate that clearly.
  2. Keep It Professional, But Personal: While IVF is a deeply personal experience, you don’t need to go into every detail. Share only what you’re comfortable with, and keep the focus on how it may affect your work. Keep the tone positive and solution-oriented, focusing on how you plan to manage your work responsibilities.
  3. Maintain Open Communication: Check in with your boss periodically to ensure that everything is still working smoothly and to discuss any new developments. This helps build trust and shows that you’re committed to balancing work and your IVF journey.

If you approach the conversation with confidence, clarity and professionalism, you’ll likely find your boss is more willing to accommodate your needs.

Feeling Overwhelmed after Multiple Failed IVF Attempts? Consider Surrogacy

If IVF and working full-time is taking a toll, especially after multiple failed IVF attempts, you may want to look at other options.

Surrogacy could be that path forward.

Surrogacy retains many of the benefits of IVF, such as using your genetic material to have a child but carries very few of the facets that make IVF difficult to manage alongside a successful career.

When you choose surrogacy, you’ll partner with a surrogate who carries your child for you. You won’t have to worry about taking time off for repeated treatments or dealing with the physical and emotional toll of unsuccessful cycles.

How American Surrogacy Can Help

We specialize in supporting intended parents through every stage of the surrogacy process. Whether you’re just starting to consider surrogacy or you’re ready to take the next step, we’re here to:

  • Guide You Through the Process: Our experienced team will help you understand what surrogacy entails and how it fits with your unique needs.
  • Match You with a Surrogate: We’ll help you find the right surrogate for your family in as little as 1-6 months, helping you become parents quicker.
  • Coordinate Medical and Legal Support: From medical screenings to legal agreements, we’ll handle the details so you can focus on what matters most—your family.
  • Protect Your Investment: Surrogacy is a significant financial commitment. Our Limited Risk Program offers transparency and protections that fit your situation, reducing financial risk.

Surrogacy can offer the balance you’re looking for, allowing you to keep building your career without putting your dreams of parenthood on hold.

If IVF feels overwhelming or you’re ready to explore other family-building options, surrogacy could be the perfect solution. Contact us today to get personalized support to take the next step in your journey to parenthood.

How Many Times Can You Do Egg Retrieval?

Egg retrievals are essential in IVF, but repeated cycles can come with risks and emotional challenges. We are here to support you through every stage of your family-building journey.

The number of egg retrievals is determined by factors like age, ovarian reserve and overall health.

On average, multiple retrievals are common, but it’s important to weigh the potential benefits and risks with your fertility specialist.

Whether you’ve experienced multiple unsuccessful egg retrievals or are just starting your fertility journey, we can help you assess alternatives like donor eggs and when it might be time to find a surrogate. Contact us today.

In this article, we’ll break down everything you need to know about egg retrieval cycles, including safety considerations, the number of attempts you can try and when to consider alternative paths like surrogacy.

For more guidance and support throughout your journey, follow us on Instagram @american_surrogacy.

How many Times can you Do Egg Retrieval?

There is no set limit on the number of egg retrievals, however, the ASRM states that 2 to 6 IVF cycles are recommended for women under 35.  

Due to IVF success rates decreasing with age, if you are 35+ you may want to consider other options after 2-4 failed cycles.

Curious about how your age may impact your egg retrieval outcomes? Read our article about the average number of egg retrieved.

How many Times is Safe to do Egg Retrieval?

Egg retrieval is typically a safe process and any limitations are typically based on the IVF cycle as a whole, not just the egg retrieval.  It is standard to wait one full menstrual cycle between IVF cycles.

It is generally not recommended to undergo egg retrieval two months in a row without a menstrual cycle in between.

The safety of multiple egg retrievals depends on several factors, including your overall health, ovarian reserve and how your body responds to the stimulation protocol.

Can you do Back to Back Egg Retrievals?

Yes. This process is known as duo stimulation, which is when there are two ovarian stimulations during the same IVF cycle.

This procedure may be recommended if time is a factor, such as for patients with diminished ovarian reserve or that have less than antral follicles.

In a study conducted by Alberto Vaiarelli, the second egg retrieval resulted in more eggs than the first.

However, there may be some drawbacks to consider:

  • OHSS: this approach may increase the risk of ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (OHSS) and requires close monitoring by your doctor.
  • Cost:  Egg retrievals can range between $2,000-$$5,000 per retrieval, not including medications. For back-to-back egg retrievals, the costs will double while also leaving less time in-between procedures to save up additional funds for the second retrieval.

What Are the Risks of Multiple Egg Retrievals?

While egg retrieval is generally safe, undergoing multiple cycles can increase certain risks, including:

  • Ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome (OHSS).
  • Surgical complications.
  • Emotional and financial strain.

Alternatives to Multiple Egg Retrievals

If you’ve undergone several cycles without success, it may be time to explore other family-building options, such as:

  • Using Donor Eggs: Egg donation offers a higher success rate, particularly for individuals with low ovarian reserve.
  • Embryo Donation: This option allows you to use donated embryos from other families who have completed their fertility journey.
  • Surrogacy: If you’ve had to undergo multiple egg retrievals for IVF due to failed transfers or miscarriages, there may be uterine issues or maternal health problems making pregnancy difficult or impossible. Surrogacy can help you achieve parenthood using your own eggs and sperm or a donor’s.

Egg Donor Surrogacy after Failed Egg Retrieval

If there are no eggs retrieved during IVF for surrogacy, it can be a deeply emotional and unexpected setback.

Using donor eggs is a common solution when egg retrieval is unsuccessful.

You can find an egg donor through a fertility clinic, an egg bank or even consider a known donor such as a family member.

Donor eggs can be fertilized with your or your partner’s sperm, creating embryos for use for your surrogacy journey.

Surrogacy After Failed IVF

For a variety of reasons, IVF isn’t viable for some families or individuals. In these situations, you may want to consider an alternative family building method like surrogacy.

You’re already familiar with much of the beginning steps involved in surrogacy. If your IVF issues began with implantation, you may even have viable embryos ready for surrogacy.

Here are a few things you should know about switching from IVF to surrogacy:

  • Short Wait Times: We know that the waiting involved in fertility treatments like IVF and egg retrieval is one of the most frustrating parts of the process. Luckily, with a surrogacy agency like us, your wait is almost over. We estimate wait times between 1 and 6 months.
  • Qualified Surrogates: For certain individuals with complicated fertility stories, surrogacy may be more successful than previous endeavors. All of our surrogates have been thoroughly screened and must meet requirements.
  • Financial Protection: After all the work you’ve done to get here, you may rightly feel protective of your surrogacy funds. Our built in financial protection will help you ensure your funds even in the unlikely event of a surrogacy interruption.

If you’re finding yourself considering surrogacy after failed IVF, know that you’re not alone.

We specialize in helping families move forward with confidence. Get in touch with us today to discuss your options, connect with a qualified surrogate and start planning your next steps toward parenthood.

Planning Your Second Surrogacy Journey

Building your family with a second surrogacy journey can be a rewarding experience. Learn about sibling surrogacy journeys, the benefits of working with the same surrogate, cost considerations, financing options, and tips for planning a smooth process.

Expanding your family is an exciting milestone, and for many families who’ve already experienced the joy of surrogacy, a second surrogacy journey for a sibling can help you expand your family even further.

Whether you’re pursuing a surrogacy sibling journey with the same surrogate or starting fresh with someone new, American Surrogacy is here to support you every step of the way.

Contact us now to speak with a surrogacy specialist who can help you plan your second surrogacy journey.

From understanding the benefits of repeat surrogacy journeys to navigating costs and timelines, this guide will help you plan for a smooth and fulfilling experience.

What Is a Surrogacy Sibling Journey?

A sibling surrogacy journey involves using surrogacy to have a second child after previously using surrogacy to have a child.

Many intended parents prefer working with the same surrogate, as it fosters continuity and strengthens bonds between both families.

Benefits of a Repeat Journey with the Same Surrogate

If your first surrogacy journey was a success, continuing with the same surrogate offers numerous benefits:

Established Trust and Relationship

The connection you built during your first journey allows for seamless communication and mutual respect, creating a positive foundation for your second journey.

Familiarity with the Process

Both you and your surrogate already understand the steps involved. From medical procedures to emotional preparation, this familiarity often makes a second surrogacy journey smoother.

Proven Success

A surrogate with a successful pregnancy history gives you peace of mind, knowing she’s capable of carrying your child to term.

Time Savings

You won’t need to undergo the time-intensive matching process again if your surrogate is available and willing to help.

If your surrogate cannot continue, our thorough pre-screening and active marketing ensure you’ll be matched with a new qualified surrogate quickly and confidently. Contact us today to learn more.

How Much Does a Second Surrogacy Journey Cost?

Surrogacy costs around $169,000-$179,000+ on average.

Costs can vary depending on your circumstances, but here are a few key points to consider before you begin a second surrogacy journey:

  • No Matching Fees (in Some Cases): If you’re continuing with the same surrogate, you may save on the matching process fees.
  • Higher Surrogate Compensation: Surrogates often receive higher compensation for a second journey, reflecting their experience and commitment.
  • Additional Medical Costs: Depending on the time between pregnancies, you may need updated medical screenings or fertility treatments, such as embryo creation or transfer procedures.

Affording a Second Surrogacy Journey

Surrogacy is a significant investment, and a surrogacy sibling journey may feel financially daunting — especially if your first surrogacy experience was recent.

Here are some financing tips to help make the costs more manageable:

Surrogacy Loans

Surrogacy loans can be an excellent option for intended parents looking to spread out the cost of their second surrogacy journey.

Several lenders specialize in fertility and surrogacy financing, offering flexible terms to fit your budget:

  • BetterMed: This company offers low-interest loans tailored to fertility treatments and surrogacy expenses, with quick approval times and flexible repayment options.
  • Sunfish: A popular choice for family-building loans, Sunfish provides customizable loan amounts and extended repayment periods to make surrogacy more accessible.
  • CapexMD: Known for its expertise in fertility financing, CapexMD partners with clinics and agencies to provide seamless payment options and affordable interest rates.

By choosing a specialized lender, you can ensure that your financing is tailored to the unique needs of your surrogacy journey.

Grants for Family-Building

Grants are another valuable resource for families wanting to have a second child through surrogacy.

While these grants can be competitive, they offer significant financial support:

Personal Savings or Fundraising Campaigns

Many families choose to rely on personal savings or creative fundraising efforts to finance their second surrogacy journey.

Here are some ideas to consider:

  • Savings Plans: Start a dedicated savings account specifically for surrogacy expenses. Automating monthly contributions can help you stay on track.
  • Crowdfunding Platforms: Websites like GoFundMe allow you to share your family-building story and raise funds from friends, family, and even strangers who want to support your journey.
  • Community Fundraisers: Host events such as bake sales, charity runs, or online auctions to generate funds while sharing your story.
  • Employer Benefits: Check with your workplace to see if they offer family-building assistance or reimbursement programs. Some companies have begun to recognize the importance of supporting employees with fertility and surrogacy benefits.

Take time to assess your financial situation before beginning. If you’re pursuing surrogacy soon after your first journey, consider the impact of consecutive costs on your budget.

We offer financial protection and transparent cost estimates to help you stay prepared. Contact us now to speak with a specialist about your financing options.

Tips for Planning a Smooth Surrogacy Sibling Journey

Evaluate Your Family Goals

Consider your ideal timeline for expanding your family and whether additional embryos need to be created.

Connect with Your Agency

Your agency can guide you through every step, from determining your timeline to ensuring your surrogate is ready.

Give the Surrogate Time to Recover

Medical guidelines recommend a minimum of 12-18 months between pregnancies to allow a surrogate’s body to heal fully.

Communicate Early and Openly

If you’re hoping to work with the same surrogate, check in with her early to discuss her availability and interest in a second journey.

Plan for Additional Screenings

Depending on the time elapsed; you may need to update medical and psychological evaluations for both the surrogate and yourself.

Start Your Second Surrogacy Journey Today

A surrogacy sibling journey offers the unique opportunity to grow your family while strengthening bonds with your first child’s surrogate — or creating new connections with a different surrogate.

At American Surrogacy, we’re committed to guiding you through every step, whether you’re planning a repeat journey or starting fresh.

Ready to grow your family? Contact us today to get personalized support and start planning your second surrogacy journey with confidence.

Surrogacy Escrow Services: Third-Party vs. In-House

Surrogacy escrow services play a vital role in protecting funds during the surrogacy process. Learn which service best safeguards your financial interests and ensures smooth, trustworthy management of surrogacy funds.

One of the biggest concerns for intended parents during surrogacy is ensuring that their funds are safely managed and distributed.

Surrogacy escrow services provide a secure, neutral way to handle payments throughout the surrogacy process, giving both intended parents and the agency peace of mind.

To learn more about how escrow works and how we protect your funds every step of the way, fill out our quick form now. Our surrogacy specialists are ready to help you.

In this article, we’ll explain what surrogacy escrow is, how it works, and the differences between in-house and third-party escrow services.

Third-Party Vs. In-House Surrogacy Escrow Services

Surrogacy escrow services are a financial arrangement that ensures funds are safely managed and distributed during the surrogacy process.

As you progress through your surrogacy journey, your escrow manager will distribute funds based on predetermined milestones established in your contract.

Think of a surrogacy escrow account like a prepaid gift card. You deposit funds into the account, and as your surrogacy agency provides services, the escrow manager releases the funds based on your agreed-upon milestones.

Funds you deposit in escrow are used for all your surrogacy costs, from medical expenses to surrogate compensation.

There are important differences between in-house escrow and third party escrow:

Third-Party Surrogacy Escrow Services

Some surrogacy agencies offer in-house escrow services, which intended parents working with the agency are encouraged or required to use instead of a third party escrow service.

Pros:

  • Financial Protection: Funds that are managed by a trusted third-party are often insured for extra protection.
  • Neutrality: Completely neutral, as third-party companies are independent.
  • Transparency: High transparency as the third-party can independently report on transactions.

Cons:

  • Additional Cost: Typically more expensive due to third-party fees, but offers greater protection.

In-House

In-house escrow is an arrangement where the escrow funds are held in accounts owned by the surrogacy agency. The escrow manager is a staff member of the agency. This is often done to save on the costs of hiring an escrow firm.

Pros:

  • Lower Cost: Often less expensive because no third-party company is involved.

Cons:

  • Conflict of Interest:  May lack neutrality since the agency manages the funds.
  • Risk of Abuse: Higher risk of misuse or misunderstandings due to the lack of impartial oversight.
  • Lack of Oversight: Funds are handled by the agency itself, which may create risks.

Contact us today to learn how we can assist you with budgeting, managing expenses, and securing your funds every step of the way.

Why Surrogacy Escrow Services Are Important

Escrow services protect both parties by ensuring that the surrogate is compensated only after her milestones are met and that intended parents’ funds are not misused.

They also provide clear, documented proof of payments, adding a layer of transparency and accountability.

How Payouts Work in Surrogacy Escrow

Payouts in a surrogacy escrow follow the guidelines laid out in the surrogacy contract. The contract will outline milestones and the funds allotted to cover these.

Once the agency can provide evidence a milestone has been reached and the escrow agent can verify this, payments will be released.

For example, your contract may specify that the surrogate will begin receiving her base compensation payments once a pregnancy is confirmed at her clinic.

How to Establish an Escrow Account for Surrogacy

Establishing an escrow count can be fairly simple, especially when working with an agency.

Many surrogacy agencies already have trusted partnerships with third-party escrow services, ensuring that your funds are managed securely and fairly from the start. Here’s how the process typically works:

  • Step 1. Reach Out to a Surrogacy Agency: A reputable agency will have established relationships with third-party escrow companies that specialize in surrogacy. They will ensure that your funds are in safe hands and properly managed.
  • Step 2. Review the Surrogacy Contract: Once you choose an agency, you’ll sign a surrogacy contract that outlines all the terms of your arrangement, including milestones and payment schedules.
  • Step 3. Fund Your Escrow Account: After the contract is in place, you’ll deposit the necessary funds into the escrow account. Your agency will then be able to draw from the account to cover surrogacy-related expenses as agreed upon in the contract.
  • Step 4. The Agency Takes Care of the Rest: The agency will work directly with the escrow company, ensuring that all payments are handled according to the terms set in your contract. You won’t need to worry about managing payments yourself – your agency and the escrow manager will handle it all.

We will set up the accounts for you – the only thing you’ll need to worry about is making sure the surrogacy contract outlines a process you find agreeable.

Surrogacy Escrow with American Surrogacy

At American Surrogacy, we prioritize the safety and security of your escrow funds throughout your surrogacy journey. We work exclusively with trusted third-party escrow companies that are fully independent of our agency, ensuring transparency and neutrality.

Your funds are securely held by a neutral third-party, and disbursements are made only when specific milestones in your surrogacy contract are met.

We understand how important it is to have peace of mind when it comes to your finances.

That’s why our professional team works closely with the escrow company to monitor and protect your funds.

Our experienced staff, including financial experts and contract law professionals, is always available to answer any questions you may have and ensure your funds are handled with the utmost care and integrity.

You can learn more about surrogacy escrow services by contacting a surrogacy specialist today.

How to Prepare to Be a Surrogate Mother in 2025

With these tips and guidance, you’ll be well on your way to preparing for a successful surrogacy journey in 2025. Our team is here to support you every step of the way.

Becoming a surrogate is one of the most rewarding decisions you can make. Not only do you help a family grow, but you also earn meaningful compensation and experience the unique bond that comes with giving the gift of life.

We’ve got everything you need to know, from the initial steps to navigating the surrogacy process, so you can confidently start your surrogacy journey today.

Ready to make a difference? Start your surrogacy application now to see if you’re a good fit!

How to Prepare to Be a Surrogate Mother

Step 1: Meet the Surrogacy Requirements

The first step to preparing to become a surrogate is ensuring you meet the necessary requirements. These may vary slightly depending on the agency, but typically include:

  • Age range 21-40 years old
  • A healthy BMI and good physical health are essential.
  • You need to have had at least one healthy pregnancy
  • Currently raising a child
  • No major complications from previous pregnancies

Additionally, avoid getting tattoos at least 12 months prior to the surrogacy process and refrain from antidepressants for a year before starting.

Step 2: Commit to the Time Frame

Surrogacy is a long-term commitment, often taking 12-18 months from start to finish.

This includes the time spent on medical screenings, fertility treatments, the pregnancy itself and recovery. It’s important to evaluate your personal and professional life to ensure you can make this commitment.

Make arrangements with your job, family and social obligations and ensure you’ll be able to stay in the same geographical area during this period.

Planning for the long haul? Start making arrangements for the coming months by speaking with a surrogacy specialist today.

Step 3: Make the Appropriate Work Arrangements

As you prepare for this incredible journey, you’ll need to consider your work situation.

Some employers offer maternity leave, but if yours doesn’t or if you expect to lose wages during your pregnancy, you can negotiate this into your surrogate compensation package.

Make sure to check with your human resources department or boss to understand their maternity leave policy and inform them of your plans.

We can help make sure your surrogate compensation package covers these potential losses.

Step 4: Talk to Your Family

Becoming a surrogate is a team effort, and your family’s support is crucial for a smooth and positive experience.

Sit down with your spouse, children and other family members to discuss the journey. Open communication helps everyone understand the process and the emotions that may come up.

This step is an important part of creating a positive experience for everyone involved.

Step 5: Cultivate Healthy Habits

Taking care of your body is one of the best ways to ensure you meet the requirements to become a surrogate and to achieve and sustain a healthy pregnancy.

Preparing physically and mentally will not only help you feel your best but also ensure that you’re giving your intended parents the best chance for success.

Here are some tips to get you ready:

  • Start taking prenatal vitamins
  • Cut back on alcohol and caffeine
  • Get moving with light exercise, such as walking or yoga
  • Prioritize a balanced, nutritious diet
  • Speak with a mental health counselor to ensure emotional readiness
  • Connect with a surrogacy specialist to guide you through the process

These healthy habits will help you stay strong, both physically and mentally, throughout the surrogacy process.

Step 6: Legal and Financial Considerations

You’ll earn surrogate compensation starting anywhere in the range of $50,000-$110,000 depending on your experience and the cost of living in your area.

You are compensated for your time and energy that you’re dedicating toward helping someone else have a family. Your compensation will also include reimbursements for medical expenses and any other costs associated with the surrogacy process.

We will also guide you through the legal process, which includes contracts outlining the responsibilities and rights of all parties.

It’s important to have a clear understanding of what to expect and feel confident in the arrangements you’re making.

Questions about surrogate compensation? Contact us today to learn how much you can earn as a surrogate.

Why Surrogacy is Worth It

Becoming a surrogate allows you to bring joy to families who might otherwise never have the chance to experience parenthood while earning compensation to support your family’s future.

It’s a beautiful journey that requires preparation, but the experience is worth every step.

Are you ready to begin your surrogacy journey in 2025? Contact us now to get started, and let’s make your surrogacy dream a reality.

Trauma-Informed IVF for Surrogacy

Trauma-informed IVF is a specialized approach to fertility treatments for individuals who have experienced sexual assault, medical trauma or previous IVF failures.

Trauma-informed IVF can help you make informed decisions about your care, while prioritizing your emotional well-being.

Your wellbeing is important to us. We can connect you with fertility clinics that specialist in trauma informed IVF care. Reach out to our team today.

In this article, we explain trauma informed IVF, potential triggers of IVF and how you can ensure your needs are met during your IVF and surrogacy journey.

What Is Trauma Informed IVF?

Trauma-Informed IVF refers to a specialized approach to in vitro fertilization (IVF) that takes into account the emotional, psychological and physical impacts of trauma on patients undergoing fertility treatments.

This type of IVF is particularly important for individuals who have experienced past trauma, such as:

  • Sexual assault
  • Medical trauma
  • Past IVF trauma

Trauma-informed IVF aims to create a supportive environment where patients’ emotional and mental well-being is prioritized alongside their physical care.

What Are the 4 Trauma Informed Practices?

The four trauma-informed practices are realize, recognize, response and resist traumatization.  These four Rs are how your medical professional will consider your physical and mental-well-being when creating the most conducive environment to help you heal.

Understanding IVF, Trauma and Triggers

IVF can trigger trauma responses for several reasons, particularly for individuals with a history of trauma. Here’s how IVF can act as a trigger:

  • Invasive Procedures: IVF involves a series of invasive medical procedures, such as injections, blood draws, ultrasounds and egg retrieval. For those with a history of sexual abuse, medical procedures involving the reproductive system may trigger past trauma.
  • Loss of Control: Trauma survivors may have experienced a loss of control in their past. The lack of autonomy in treatment decisions or feeling like a passive participant in the process can be emotionally difficult.
  • Previous Failed IVF Cycles: IVF treatments are often emotionally charged, with the high hopes of pregnancy success followed by the disappointment of failed cycles or negative results.

If you’re dealing with medical trauma or trauma related to previous failed IVF attempts, we’re here for you. Learn more about how to cope with the emotions of a failed IVF cycle and how you can move forward.

The IVF Experience for Survivors of Sexual Abuse

For survivors of sexual abuse, the IVF process can evoke emotional and physical reactions that are tied to past trauma.

The sensitive nature of fertility treatments, often involving medical procedures, intimate exams and interactions with multiple healthcare professionals, can trigger distressing memories or feelings of vulnerability.

The IVF experience for these survivors may feel overwhelming and, at times, re-traumatizing.

This 2022 article from Women’s Health Magazine was written by a psychologist who’s fertility treatment triggered her own past trauma while breaking down how a medical team and a patient can work together to find the best path forward.

 “For those with a history of sexual abuse, distress is often elicited by trauma reminders, and during fertility treatment, they’re difficult to avoid. Sounds, motions, sensations, power differentials between patient and provider, false reassurance, pain, sedation, bruising, and the thoughts and emotions that accompany these cues, like shame, fear, anger, guilt, hopelessness, and helplessness, can all bring up terrifying memories and sometimes the sense of re-experiencing them.” – Gabrielle Frackman, PhD, and author of the article.

Navigating Failed IVF Trauma

Experiencing a failed IVF cycle can be emotionally devastating and result in trauma that can be triggered by future IVF cycles.

Understanding how to process this trauma and how to move forward is essential for emotional well-being during this challenging time.

If a previous IVF cycle resulted in emotional distress, a trauma-informed team will adjust treatment protocols to accommodate the your triggers, providing additional support such as more time between cycles, gentle communication or flexibility in scheduling to reduce anxiety.

Managing Triggers During Trauma Informed IVF

If you’re considering IVF and have experienced trauma, whether from past fertility struggles, sexual abuse or medical trauma, it’s important to seek out trauma informed IVF.

Here are practical actions you can take to communicate with your medical team and navigate any overwhelming moments during your IVF treatments.

1. Ask for Trauma-Informed Care and Communicate Your Triggers Early

Start by having a candid discussion with your fertility specialist and any other medical staff about your trauma history. Be clear with your fertility team that you’re seeking trauma informed IVF care.

Let them know what triggers might arise during treatment. This could include physical sensations, medical procedures, certain words or phrases or feelings of powerlessness.

2. Establish Clear Boundaries

Ask for clear, step-by-step explanations before each procedure so you know what to expect.

You have the right to ask for breaks or adjustments during treatment if certain procedures feel overwhelming or uncomfortable.

If certain aspects of the procedure are triggering, work with your medical team to make adjustments. This might include requesting a different nurse, having a support person present or altering the room’s lighting or sound.

3. Involve Your Support System

Having a trusted person with you during IVF appointments can help you feel grounded and supported. They can advocate on your behalf and assist with managing emotional stress.

Consider having a mental health professional on standby that is familiar with trauma-informed care. This could be a counselor who specializes in fertility, trauma or PTSD. You can schedule sessions before and after treatments to process emotions.

4. Plan for Stressful Situations

Learn grounding techniques that can help you stay calm during IVF treatments. These include deep breathing, mindfulness and visualizations. You can practice these before treatments so that they become second nature when stressors arise.

Bring along calming items, such as music or a fidget toy to distract yourself during procedures. Some people find it helpful to listen to soothing music or podcasts to focus their mind away from the procedure.

5. Communicate Overwhelming Feelings

If you start feeling distressed during your IVF cycle, inform your medical team immediately so they can offer support or modify their approach accordingly.

You could work with your medical team to develop a signal or phrase that you can use during treatments if you begin to feel overwhelmed or unsafe. This can be something as simple as raising a hand or saying “pause” to let them know you need a break.

After each IVF appointment or procedure, consider having a follow-up conversation with your fertility team to review how things went. Giving feedback ensures your care is continuously aligned with your emotional needs.

What should I do if I feel my IVF provider isn’t trauma-informed?

If you feel that your IVF provider isn’t trauma-informed, it’s important to take steps to ensure you receive the care and support you need.

Here’s what you can do:

  • Advocate for Yourself:  Express your concerns directly with your IVF provider. You could say something like, “I feel uncomfortable with the way certain aspects of my treatment are being handled and would appreciate a more sensitive approach.”
  • Consider a Second Opinion: If your current IVF provider isn’t responsive to your needs or continues to make you feel uncomfortable, it may be time to consider switching providers. Research other clinics that specialize in trauma-informed care.
  • Ask for Recommendations: Reach out to support groups, friends or online forums where other patients share their experiences. This can help you find a provider that aligns with your needs and values.
  • Report Concerns if Necessary:  Most fertility clinics take patient concerns seriously and may be able to make accommodations or even reassign you to a different provider or team member who is more trauma-informed.

By taking these steps, you can advocate for your emotional health and well-being during your IVF journey.

Trauma Informed IVF and Surrogacy: Intersection of Care

For intended parents, trauma may stem from fertility struggles, miscarriages or previous IVF failures. Your surrogacy specialist can play a key role in this process by offering continuous support and resources.

From helping you find trauma-informed medical providers to assisting with mental health care, we ensure that your physical and emotional needs are met throughout your IVF and surrogacy experience.

We can also help address any concerns or special accommodations, ensuring that everyone feels comfortable, respected and safe during your journey.

Contact us today to get the support and guidance you deserve while you seek out trauma informed IVF care.

Mental Health Support for IVF Post Trauma

Getting the support you deserve to address past trauma during IVF can come at any time during the process, before, during or after.

There are also a variety of resources you can reach out to find support on your infertility journey from infertility organizations to counseling and support groups such as:

  • RESOLVE: RESOLVE is the National Infertility Association, a nonprofit that can connect you with the help you deserve, from finding a specific type of support group to other helpful resources and advice from those that have walked in your shoes.
  • American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM): ASRM manages a website that has resources to help with coping with infertility grief from patient stories and frequently asked questions to podcasts and videos on various topics surrounding infertility.
  • American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG): ACOG has fact sheets on a variety of infertility topics, like evaluating infertility, treating infertility and other broad topics.

Infertility Support Groups

Get Started

If you’re ready to take the next step in your fertility journey, we’re here to support you in finding trauma informed IVF care.

Reach out to us today to get connected with trauma informed IVF providers near you that will tailor your IVF experience to your unique needs.  Start your journey toward healing and parenthood with confidence.

Can You Do IVF If Your Husband Had a Vasectomy?

With procedures like PESA, TESA, and TESE, IVF and surrogacy can be possible after a vasectomy and you can have the family you have been dreaming of.

While a vasectomy is designed to be a permanent solution for preventing pregnancy, IVF after a vasectomy is still possible.

If you or your partner has had a vasectomy and you are considering surrogacy, you can get support from our surrogacy specialists when you fill out this form.

This article will cover IVF after a vasectomy and explore your options, including costs, success rates and related procedures.

Follow @american_surrogacy to connect with a supportive community of intended parents and surrogates.

Can You Do IVF if Your Husband Had a Vasectomy?

Yes, IVF is a viable option if your partner has had a vasectomy. By using sperm retrieval techniques or a sperm donor, IVF can be a great way to grow your family.

Sperm Retrieval after Vasectomy for IVF

If you are completing IVF post vasectomy, sperm can still be retrieved for IVF through minimally invasive techniques:

  • Percutaneous Epididymal Sperm Aspiration (PESA): A small needle gathers fluid from the epididymis, a tube that stores mature sperm cells, to retrieve sperm.
  • Testicular Sperm Aspiration (TESA): Sperm is collected directly from the testes using a small needle.
  • Testicular Sperm Extraction (TESE): This is a surgical technique that removes a small amount of testicular tissue through a small surgical incision to find sperm.

These procedures are typically performed under local anesthesia and paired with IVF to achieve pregnancy.

How Does IVF Work with a Vasectomy?

IVF works similarly regardless of a vasectomy. Sperm and eggs are combined in a lab, and the resulting embryo is transferred to the uterus.

The main difference is that you may need to use a sperm retrieval procedure or find a sperm donor to complete the process.

IVF after Vasectomy Success Rates

Success rates for IVF after a vasectomy are often similar to standard IVF success rates.

According to a study conducted by the Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society, the IVF success rates after a vasectomy are:

  • Women under 35: 33.7%
  • Women aged 35-39: 28.7%
  • Women aged 40+: 21.8%

However, factors like sperm quality, egg quality and age play a significant role in determining outcomes.

Working closely with your fertility specialist can help optimize these factors.

How Much is IVF after a Vasectomy?

If you or your partner has had a vasectomy and are considering IVF, it’s important to understand the costs involved.

The overall cost will depend on several factors, such as the type of sperm retrieval procedure, the number of IVF cycles and whether additional resources like donor sperm or surrogacy are required.

Cost of IVF

The average cost of IVF ranges between $12,000 and $30,000 per cycle. This cost typically includes:

  • Initial consultations
  • Ovarian stimulation medications
  • Egg retrieval
  • Fertilization and embryo culture
  • Embryo transfer
  • Monitoring and testing

Keep in mind that some couples may require multiple cycles of IVF to achieve a successful pregnancy, which can increase the total cost.

Cost of Sperm Retrieval Procedures

If sperm needs to be retrieved surgically after a vasectomy, the following procedures may be used:

  • PESA (Percutaneous Epididymal Sperm Aspiration): $3,000–$6,000
  • TESA (Testicular Sperm Aspiration): $3,000–$7,000
  • TESE (Testicular Sperm Extraction): $5,000–$10,000

Cost of Surrogacy

Surrogacy typically costs between $169,000-$179,000, and includes:

  • Surrogate compensation: This payment acknowledges the time, effort, and emotional and physical demands placed on the surrogate.
  • Agency fees: We provide professional services to match intended parents with a surrogate in as little as 1-6 months and guide both parties through the entire process.
  • Legal costs: Surrogacy requires a contract to state expectations and preferences, ensure all parties’ rights are protected and to establish parentage.
  • Medical costs: These costs cover all medical procedures related to the surrogacy process, including the embryo transfer and your surrogate’s pregnancy and delivery.
  • Variable fees: Covers additional expenses that may arise during the surrogacy journey like surrogate lodging and travel, lost wages and maternity clothing.

Navigating the costs of IVF and surrogacy can be challenging, but we are here to guide you through every step, from understanding costs to finding resources that fit your needs.

Take the next step today by filling out this form or contacting us to learn more about your options.

Does Insurance Cover IVF after Vasectomy​

Insurance coverage for IVF after a vasectomy varies. Some plans may cover procedures like sperm retrieval or intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), while others may not include IVF-related costs.

Check with your provider to understand your coverage.

IVF after Vasectomy Reversal​

If you’ve undergone a vasectomy reversal but are still unable to conceive, IVF may be an effective solution. Difficulty conceiving after a reversal can be due to either male or female infertility factors, such as low sperm count, sperm motility issues or egg quality.

IVF allows medical professionals to address these issues by fertilizing an egg in a controlled environment and transferring the embryo to the uterus.

In some cases, however, IVF may be unsuccessful due to uterine issues or maternal health concerns, in which case surrogacy may be necessary to achieve pregnancy.

If after multiple cycles IVF is still unsuccessful, you can learn about how to move forward by reading our article about your options after failed IVF.

IVF after Failed Vasectomy Reversal

If a vasectomy reversal fails, IVF and surrogacy can still be completed using:

  • Sperm retrieval procedures like PESA, TESA or TESE.
  • A sperm donor to fertilize eggs for IVF.

Choosing Surrogacy after Vasectomy

Surrogacy after a vasectomy may be necessary, especially if IVF is unsuccessful due to uterine issues or maternal health complications.

Surrogacy makes parenthood possible by allowing your baby to be carried to term by a qualified surrogate.

In situations where a vasectomy reversal was unsuccessful, you may also need to use a sperm donor. Using a sperm donor for surrogacy allows you to move forward with your family-building journey, even if infertility stands in your way.

You can get help finding a surrogate and completing surrogacy when you fill out our simple form or you can view our highly-qualified surrogates now.

Using a Sperm Donor After Vasectomy for IVF and Surrogacy

If sperm retrieval procedures like PESA or TESA are not an option or if a vasectomy reversal is unsuccessful, using a sperm donor may be the most practical solution for IVF or surrogacy.

Here’s what you should know:

  • How to find a sperm donor: Sperm banks and clinics often provide detailed donor profiles with health history, background, education, physical traits and more.
  • Costs of sperm donation: $300-$1,500 per vial. The cost often includes screening, storage and shipping.

Take the Next Step in Your Parenthood Journey

Whether you’re considering IVF or surrogacy after a vasectomy, our experienced surrogacy specialists can help you navigate your options, connect you with trusted fertility clinics and guide you through the surrogacy process if needed.

Fill out our simple form today.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can IVF be done after a vasectomy?

Yes, IVF can be done after a vasectomy. You can get a vasectomy reversal, use sperm retrieval techniques, or use a sperm donor to complete IVF and surrogacy after a vasectomy.

How can I get pregnant if my husband had a vasectomy?

If you want to get pregnant after a vasectomy you can look into vasectomy reversal, use sperm retrieval procedures, or use a sperm donor to complete IVF.

Can you collect sperm from a man who has had a vasectomy?

Yes, you can often collect sperm from a man who has had a vasectomy through procedures like percutaneous epididymal sperm aspiration (PESA), testicular sperm aspiration (TESA) and testicular sperm extraction (TESE).

How much is IVF after a vasectomy?

IVF after a vasectomy varies in cost depending on the procedures needed, but sperm retrieval procedures can cost between $3,000-$12,000 while a sperm donor can cost $300-$1500 per vial in addition to other IVF costs.

Surrogacy and IVF Grants for Cancer Survivors in 2025

IVF and surrogacy offers cancer survivors the chance to safeguard their parenthood dreams, but the financial burden can be overwhelming. With the right financial support, cancer survivors can take the next step toward building their family.

Advances in fertility preservation have enabled many survivors to freeze embryos, eggs or sperm before treatment, safeguarding their chance to experience parenthood after recovery.

Surrogacy and IVF grants for cancer survivors can help make your family-building journey more affordable.

Our surrogacy specialists can help you understand all available options for making your surrogacy journey affordable. Contact us today.

IVF grants for cancer survivors can ease the financial burden, making IVF and surrogacy more accessible.

IVF and Surrogacy Grants for Cancer Patients

Fertility preservation is often time-sensitive and can be expensive, especially when undertaken alongside a cancer diagnosis. Many survivors face additional costs for IVF cycles or surrogacy arrangements.

Fertility grants are financial awards that offset or fully cover the costs of IVF and surrogacy. Some are specifically designed for cancer survivors, acknowledging their unique circumstances.

Some may be geared toward IVF and fertility preservation others may also factor in the costs of surrogacy.

Read more about affordable surrogacy options that can make your dreams of parenthood possible.

Below is a curated list of fertility grants for cancer survivors pursuing IVF or surrogacy:

LIVESTRONG Fertility

  • Grant Amount: Reduced-cost IVF treatments and fertility preservation.
  • Eligibility: Cancer diagnosis and fertility preservation prior to treatment.
  • Application Deadlines: Rolling; apply any time during or after treatment.
  • Website: LIVESTRONG Fertility

The SAMFund

  • Grant Amount: Financial assistance for IVF, surrogacy or fertility-related costs.
  • Eligibility: Young adult cancer survivors (ages 21-39) with financial need.
  • Application Deadlines: Annual grant cycle.
  • Website: The SAMFund

Baby Quest Foundation

  • Grant Amount: Up to $16,000 for IVF or surrogacy.
  • Eligibility: Demonstrated financial need; open to cancer survivors and others.
  • Application Deadlines: Quarterly cycles.
  • Website: Baby Quest Foundation

Tinina Q. Cade Foundation

  • Grant Amount: Up to $10,000 for fertility treatments, including IVF and surrogacy.
  • Eligibility: Cancer survivors who demonstrate financial need.
  • Application Deadlines: Annual deadlines.
  • Website: Cade Foundation

Family Building Grant (Through AGC Scholarship Foundation)

  • Grant Amount: Varies; can cover IVF and surrogacy costs.
  • Eligibility: Open to applicants with significant financial or medical need.
  • Application Deadlines: Annual.
  • Website: AGC Scholarship Foundation

Applying for IVF and Surrogacy Grants for Cancer Patients

The application process for IVF grants for cancer survivors can vary by program but generally includes:

  1. Gathering Documentation: Compile proof of cancer diagnosis, fertility preservation, and financial need.
  2. Writing a Personal Statement: Explain your journey and how the grant will impact your family-building goals.
  3. Meeting Deadlines: Check specific deadlines and submit your application promptly.
  4. Providing References: Some grants may require a letter of recommendation from your oncologist or fertility specialist.

Tips for Success:

  • Start early to ensure you meet deadlines.
  • Be thorough in documenting your medical and financial needs.
  • Follow application instructions precisely.

Building a family after cancer treatment is an incredibly personal and emotional journey, but it’s one that is possible with the right support.

Take time to research available resources, reach out to a surrogacy specialist for guidance, and carefully review the eligibility criteria for each grant or financial option.

Starting a family after cancer is a brave and beautiful next step, and with the right support, it’s achievable.

Additional Financial Resources

If you don’t qualify for a grant or need additional support, consider these options:

  • Loans: Many fertility clinics offer financing options for IVF or surrogacy.
  • Crowdfunding: Platforms like GoFundMe allow friends and family to contribute to your journey.
  • Nonprofit Assistance: Organizations like RESOLVE and the Oncofertility Consortium provide resources and guidance.

Moving Forward

Cancer survivors face unique hurdles in building a family, but financial assistance programs, such as IVF and surrogacy grants, can make the process more attainable.

Ready to move forward? We can assist you with the financial aspects of surrogacy by providing cost breakdowns so you can budget effectively for building your family. Contact us today.