Your timeline for parenthood doesn’t need to be like anyone else’s. Deciding to have a child is such a personal revelation, and you can achieve those goals on your own if you choose. For many, choosing single-parent surrogacy is a wonderful option that can help them achieve these goals.

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Many single people have chosen to go with surrogacy in recent years to become a parent. You no longer need to wait on societal standards. It’s within your ability to become a parent at a time in your life when you feel ready. When you choose surrogacy, it’s important to have a general idea of what to expect from the process ahead. Our pro and con list covers many points single-parent surrogacy may cover.

Pros

• You don’t need to be in a relationship or have found “the one” to start your journey to parenthood.
• You have the same standards of pursuing single-parent surrogacy as a married couple would.
• Surrogacy can sometimes be easier to achieve than adoption as many birth moms choose two-parent homes.

Cons

• Surrogacy is expensive, and you will need to afford the surrogacy costs on one salary.
• Being a single parent comes with its own difficulties including finances and resources.
• Single parents may unfortunately still face stigmas throughout the surrogacy process and through parenthood.

Single Surrogacy Vs. Adoption

Many single people who are looking to become parents may look into both adoption and surrogacy. Each has its own unique journey. Choosing between the two often comes down to preferences and finances. The most common reasons to choose one or the other include:

• Genetics: When you choose single-parent surrogacy, they usually choose to use their own sperm or egg to use in the embryo. This allows them to be genetically related to their child. Through adoption, parents of course won’t generally have a genetic connection.
• Legal Process: In both adoption and surrogacy you will go through a legal process. This is the route to becoming the legal guardian of your child. Through surrogacy, you will often become the legal guardian of your child before they are even born. With adoption, you cannot become a parent until the legal rights of the birth parents are terminated. This can sometimes be an emotional process.
• Cost: There are a variety of expenses used in both domestic infant adoption and surrogacy. These may include agency fees, advertising and matching services. Surrogacy costs will also include the surrogate’s compensation throughout their pregnancy, which often makes single-parent surrogacy much more expensive.
• Wait: The waiting game can be tough for adoptive parents who may wait months or years to find a pregnant woman who wants to work with them. However, the matching process for and intended parent and surrogate range from an average of 30-90 days with American Surrogacy. This allows you to have your baby in your arms sooner.
• Control: There is often more control through single-parent surrogacy. You get to choose the surrogate and the donor you use. With adoption, the birth mother has the choice of the adoptive family.

No matter how you choose to become a parent, it’s important to feel not only supported but well prepared. There are financial, medical and emotional challenges to the process no matter their relationship status or sexual orientation.

Are you interested in starting the surrogacy process? Connect with our team today.