How to Find a Surrogate in Oklahoma

Being a parent may be something you’ve always thought about. Take your first steps toward becoming one today.

Whatever reason parenthood has been out of reach for you to this point can begin to end when you take control and learn how to find a surrogate in Oklahoma with us. You deserve to be a parent and we will help you toward this dream.

As a full-service, national surrogacy agency, we have all the tools you need to find the perfect surrogate match with the shortest wait times in the business.

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How to Find a Surrogate in Oklahoma

"They did background checks, they did health checks. So, we were very confident that they thoroughly vetted the surrogate before introducing them to us."

- Viet,

an intended parent

If you don’t know where to find a surrogate, we are here to help. We can walk you through each step to finding a surrogate while giving you the support you deserve throughout the process.

As an agency with decades of experience creating families, we’ve refined our surrogate matching service to be the best in the business. Our short wait times are your quickest path to parenthood.

Here are three steps to finding a surrogate in Oklahoma:

1
Find a Carrier with Our Surrogate Outreach Program

Our comprehensive services mean we’ll do all the heavy lifting to find you the perfect surrogate match. We advertise nationally and network with other professionals to bring you highly qualified surrogates. 

2
Get to Know Your Surrogate Through a Conference Call

This is your chance to determine if the match is right. It’s not hard to find a surrogate when you know what you’re looking for and the conference call is a chance for you to ask questions and learn more about your potential surrogate. 

3
Solidify the Match with a Surrogacy Contract

This is a legally binding contract that outlines the process and what it will look like for everyone involved.  You both need separate legal representation for this step and the contract must be signed before the medical process can begin. 

How Long Does it Take to Find a Surrogate in Oklahoma?

In just 1 - 6 months, you can find a surrogate in Oklahoma.

These wait times can be the difference between starting life with your child or waiting three or four more years to experience parenthood.

Our commitment to providing these short wait times comes from knowing your desire to become a parent. You don’t need to spend another day wondering what it’s like, you can take control by working with us and get more time to go on family vacations, go to sporting events and just live life with the family you’ve always wanted.

Balanced List
 

Our 1:1 intended parents-to-surrogate ratio means we don’t overload the list of waiting families. This puts the focus on finding you the perfect surrogate match.

Marketing
 

In today’s digital age, marketing is more important than ever. Our websites reach tens of thousands of people each month which means we cast a wide net to increase the chances of finding a surrogate. 

Screening
 

Our screening process is quick and easy, designed to prioritize your safety while quickly moving you along to find a surrogate.

Get the Support You Deserve

How Much Does it Cost to Find a Surrogate Mother in Oklahoma?

Our surrogate matching service costs $169,900-$179,000. But it’s important to not get caught up with numbers, whether it’s with us or another professional.

You should work with an agency that can break down those costs for you and what it means to make your dream of being parents become a reality.

Our fee structure covers all the services you need for your surrogacy journey while giving you clarity about what you’ll pay for upfront so you’re not surprised down the road by additional costs or hidden fees.

This structure is designed to be paid out in two payments. The first payment covers:

  • Marketing and Advertising

    When it comes to finding a surrogate and taking another step toward parenthood, higher marketing means shorter wait times while lower marketing means longer wait times. 

  • Surrogate Screening

    Our extensive screening process finds you the best surrogates to work with thanks to our social and history medical forms, in-home assessments and background checks, medical and psychological evaluations and insurance reviews. 

  • Parent Protection Fee

    The Parent Protection Fee is another service that sets us apart from other agencies. A significant portion of your investment will be returned to you in the event of an unsuccessful surrogacy. This fee also covers unlimited matching for as long as you have embryos. 

The second payment is due when you find a surrogate in Oklahoma, this payment takes care of:

  • Match fee
  • Surrogate compensation
  • Intended parent and surrogate legal fees
  • Travel expenses and lodging
  • Insurance premiums (if needed)
  • Prenatal expenses

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How Do I Find a Surrogate Near Me?

If you want to find a surrogate near you, then all you have to do is talk to your specialist about finding a surrogate profile in Oklahoma.

But it’s also important to know that if short wait times and becoming a parent sooner rather than later are priorities for you, then changing your preferences to be open to out-of-state surrogates could mean finding a surrogate match that much sooner.

View Surrogate Profiles

A surrogate profile is your first glimpse at what could be your surrogate mother. Just like you’ve set up an intended parent profile, the surrogate profile lets you know information about them, like why they want to be a surrogate and what type of parents they can see themselves carrying for.

You can start looking at the surrogates we work with right away: 

 

Next Steps After Finding a Surrogate

If you’ve already worked with a fertility clinic to create embryos, reach out to us as you’re ready to take the next steps and become one step closer to being a parent. 

Once you find a surrogate profile you think could be the perfect match, your specialist will reach out to your fertility clinic to review her medical records to make sure she’s ready to become a surrogate.

When approval is given, the clinic will let the potential surrogate know that you are interested and at this point, the clinic will share your intended parent profile with them. If they like what they see, we’ll set up a Zoom call for you both.

During the Zoom call, you can get to know each other more in-depth. After the call, if you both like what you learned the match can be made official.

If you have not partnered with a fertility clinic to create embryos, you need to do so at this point to continue with the process.

  • Mate Fertility (Oklahoma City): Dr. Shaurin Patel, MD, FACOG, is an OB-GYN and fertility provider who specializes in women’s health issues. He is board-certified by the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology and is a fellow of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.
  • OU Health Physicians - Reproductive Medicine (Oklahoma City): OU Health Physicians has a comprehensive medical team that includes board-certified reproductive endocrinology and infertility (REI) physicians, maternal-fetal medicine (MFM) specialists, physician assistants, laboratory specialists, women’s health providers, men’s health providers and specially trained nurses.
  • MCRM Fertility (Tulsa): MCRM Fertility offers comprehensive fertility care that includes advanced testing and evaluation for men and women, In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) packages and third-party reproduction.

Other Things to Know About Surrogacy in Oklahoma

Oklahoma has been a surrogate-friendly state since 2019 when new legislation made it possible to obtain pre-birth orders and made surrogacy contracts enforceable.

Pre-birth orders can now be obtained by any intended parent regardless of their genetic connection to the child. The surrogate contract, however, has to be validated by a court before any embryo transfer can take place.

Having the services of a legal professional is required for the drafting of a surrogacy contract to protect both parties’ rights and interests. Here are surrogacy attorneys you can contact in Oklahoma:

  • Virginia Frank, Esq. (Norman): Virginia L. Frank has experience with gestational surrogacy and obtaining parentage orders. She is a fellow of the Academy of Assisted Reproductive Attorneys (AAAA) and a member of the American Bar Association Section on Assisted Reproductive Technology.

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FAQ About Finding a Surrogate

Is Surrogacy Legal in Oklahoma?

Surrogacy is legal in Oklahoma. In 2019, legislation was passed that made surrogacy contracts legal, allowing them to be enforced. This legislation also made it possible for pre-birth orders to be obtained by any intended parent regardless of their relation to the child.

What is the Best Place to Find a Surrogate?

The best place to find a surrogate is with an agency. And with our agency, you’ll have all the services you need to complete your surrogacy journey under one roof. 

Can I Find a Surrogate Mother for a Gay Couple?

Yes, you can find a surrogate match for a gay couple. We have plenty of surrogates who we can match you with.

Is it Hard to Find a Surrogate in Oklahoma?

It is not hard to find a surrogate when you work with the right professional. With our industry-leading wait times, you can find a surrogate match in an average of just 1 - 6 months.

Can I Find a Surrogate Online?

Yes, you can find your own surrogate online but you take on the risk of fraud or even the surrogate you find being ineligible.

Finding a surrogate with us is safer and faster because of our extensive screening process and carefully managed intended parent list.

How Do I Find a Surrogate Mother for Free?

Finding a surrogate on your own is free, as is networking with family and friends. But although these options may seem viable about cost, it can be slower or harder to find a surrogate if you aren’t familiar with the process.

As a full-service, national surrogacy agency that has decades of experience while working with surrogates around the country, we’re your quickest path to parenthood.