The choice to become a surrogate is an amazing decision and one that can be life-changing for everyone involved. Whether it’s coming from the altruistic desire to help others or the ability to help your own family, everyone has their why for choosing surrogacy.
However, it’s important to note the requirements to become a surrogate exist to protect everyone involved.
Learn more about the process and whether you can be a surrogate with depression. If you have specific questions, contact a surrogacy specialist. They can help you navigate your personal journey to surrogacy.
Can I Be a Surrogate if I Have Depression?
Yes. Having been diagnosed with depression will not disqualify you from becoming a surrogate.
That being said, being a surrogate is a mentally and emotionally involved journey. The responsibilities of surrogacy compounded by pregnancy hormones can be a lot for anyone to process, which is why there is a psychological evaluation included in our screening process. If your depression is interfering in your daily life, then your psychological evaluation may determine that you’re not yet ready to become a surrogate.
If this happens, don’t be discouraged. If you get to a place where you feel like your depression is better managed, you can return to your surrogacy journey and begin the application process again. We’ll be here whenever you’re ready.
Can You Be a Surrogate On Antidepressants?
No. One of the requirements for surrogacy includes that you cannot be using anti-depressants for at least year before starting the surrogate process. It’s important to note that having a history of taking antidepressants won’t automatically disqualify you from pregnancy, as long as there’s been at least 12 months in between going off your antidepressants and beginning the surrogacy process.
If you feel like you may not be able to safely go off your antidepressants at this time that is okay. Your mental well-being is just as important to us as your physical well-being. Further down the road, if you get to a point where you feel like you can cope with your depression without antidepressants, we’ll be ready to help you become a surrogate.
Never stop taking any medication without consulting your primary care physician first. Always talk to your doctor about what the best course of action is if you wish to stop taking your prescribed medication.
Learn more about our surrogate requirements.
How to Cope With Depression During Surrogacy
While there is debate over the long-term effects of taking antidepressants during pregnancy, we require that our surrogates abstain from antidepressants for at least 12 months prior to surrogacy. This is because you will be carrying a baby for someone else, a couple who has likely waited a long time to grow their family, and we want to do everything we can to minimize any potential risks. If you want to be a surrogate but are worried about being without your antidepressants, here are some ways you can manage your depression during pregnancy:
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Therapy
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Support groups
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Lean on your support system
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Exercise
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Adequate rest
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A nutritious diet
Every situation is different and the best way to determine how to handle your depression during pregnancy is to talk to your doctor or mental health care provider.
If you feel you can meet the requirements to become a surrogate, we’re ready to help you. Our team is ready to create a positive and impactful journey for you. We ensure our surrogates are rewarded and well taken care of. This is an amazing journey and we are so excited to help you get started. Contact us today to learn more.
Disclaimer: The information provided here is for general informational purposes only and should not be considered as professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare professional for any questions or concerns regarding medical conditions and surrogacy eligibility.