Beginning your journey as a surrogate who just got engaged can be one of the most exciting moments in your life. After all, both are life-changing journeys and we know how much anticipation you may be feeling as you look into becoming a surrogate.
There’s a lot that goes into the surrogacy process and we want you to be fully prepared for the journey ahead. If you’re considering becoming a surrogate when you’re engaged, then here’s what you need to know about surrogate requirements and navigating the surrogacy process alongside wedding planning.
If you’re engaged and are ready to begin the surrogacy process, then contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224.
Can I Be a Surrogate if I’m Engaged?
Yes, if you’re engaged then you can become a surrogate as long as you meet our requirements and successfully complete our screening process to be a surrogate. Being engaged doesn’t disqualify anyone from becoming a surrogate. However, if you’re planning a wedding during the surrogacy process, you’ll need to weigh the commitments involved and see if they will affect your surrogacy journey.
While it’s possible to plan a wedding while being a surrogate, both journeys can be both emotional and time-consuming. Before committing to both surrogacy and wedding planning, ensure your fiancé is on board and ready to offer the support you’ll need.
What Are the Requirements to Be a Surrogate?
Can I be a surrogate if I’m engaged? If you’re thinking about becoming a surrogate when you’re engaged, then you’ll need to meet a few other requirements to begin the process. These requirements include:
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Being within an age range of 21-40
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Have successfully carried a pregnancy to term with no major complications
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Are currently raising a child
Learn more about the surrogate qualifications here.
Why Timing Matters
If you’re wondering “Can I be a surrogate if I’m about to get married?” you should first consider how ready you are to balance the responsibilities of wedding planning with your surrogacy journey. If you feel that this will be too overwhelming, it may be wise to consider delaying the wedding until after the surrogacy process is complete.
Juggling the intricacies of surrogacy, which involves medical procedures, appointments, meetings with your surrogacy specialist and surrogacy attorney, visiting the intended parents, etc., alongside the preparation and celebration of a wedding, makes it a challenging time to embark on both journeys.
Depending on when your wedding is, you will want to take into account the possibility that you could be pregnant on your wedding day and whether this is something that would detract from the experience or make the appropriate accommodations for this scenario.
Delaying the wedding until after the surrogacy process is complete lets you enjoy these significant life events without feeling overwhelmed. By carefully considering the timing, you can navigate these experiences more smoothly, ensuring you can embrace the joy and responsibilities of both without straining yourself too much.
Tips for Balancing Surrogacy and Wedding Planning
If you’re ready to juggle wedding planning with the responsibilities of being a surrogate, then here are some tips to help you feel less overwhelmed:
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Create a realistic timeline: Develop a detailed timeline for both the surrogacy journey and wedding preparations to manage expectations.
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Delegate responsibilities: Enlist the help of friends, family or a wedding planner to share the load of wedding planning tasks.
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Prioritize self-care: Both surrogacy and wedding planning can be emotionally demanding. Make sure to take care of yourself to ensure you’re physically and emotionally prepared for both journeys.
While it’s possible to navigate both experiences, it’s crucial to ensure that you’re ready for the responsibilities. Our goal is to help make the surrogacy process as smooth and stress-free as possible. We know what it takes to consistently provide the best experience, and we’re ready to support you on this unique journey.
To begin the surrogacy process, contact us online now or text us at 913-204-0224 to connect with us.